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*attie90
writes:hi everyone i have a question that makes me think about my relationship with my boyfriend and how long its going to last if this keeps happening. ok me and my boyfriend have been datin for almost 11months and i love him to bits but i believe that if we brake up it might lead to severe depression or even worse and i dont want that at all and i dont want us to break up but if our fighting continues i dont know how much more i can take of it. but i wont be able to find anyone else like him because his love will always be in my heart so if i try to find someone else there love wouldnt compare to his hes my world he keeps me standing on my two feet i dont know what to do im so confused i need all the help i can get! thank you everyone who replies! Reply to this Question
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reader, Artistry +, writes (30 April 2008):
 Hi, You are in a situation, where you are putting up with things, which are not at all healthy, because you think that it would be worse, without your boyfriend. The problem with that thought process, is that you don't know, that what you think will happen, will happen. You know what is reality, you are basically unhappy. Deal with that problem first before, keeping yourself in a prison, based on something that may or may not occur. Love yourself enough, to do, what is best for you, stop disrespecting yourself. You deserve better, it the relationship cannot be adjusted so that you both feel good about being together then it should end. In a relationship, you will have disagreements and fights, but you have to learn how to fight, how to have boundaries when you fight. But if there is some tension below the surface, that is not talked about and addressed, you will continue to fight. Have a serious, discussion to find out why you both, think you fight all the time,and try to solve the problem. You must be open and honest with each other. Good luck to you both.
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reader, kimblebee90  +, writes (29 April 2008):
 My situation is kindof like yours. I have been with my boyfriend for around 18 months, and we keep fighting. It feels like sometimes that I wanna break up with him but I wouldn't be able to live without him. Can't live with him.. Can't live without him!! I just ad a talk with him and said listen.. I'm getting really down about arguing and I really don't want to split up with you but at this rate it's going to happen. Things changed for me, I hope they do for you
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reader, sweetheart1nonly +, writes (29 April 2008):
I am in your shoes, The same thing happening to me, the only difference is that I think the relationship has ended
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