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writes:i went out with a boy that is 20 years old and i am 14 years old, he loves me to bits but i dont really know the meaning of love. and i also think that he is playing me because his mates say his a player but he say they are lieing, i told my girl mate what i should do, but she doesnt know. i want someone my own age, but i dont know how to dump him, i want to dump him because i think his tooo old for me,but he is caring. his mates say that he is just going out with me because of sex , but i dont believe them, what shall i do to dump him? please help me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 May 2008): Just tell him hoe you feel.
If cares for in any real sense, he will have known this conversation would happen sooner or later, and will step off the plate and move on.
6 years isn't much of an age-gap really. A few people I count as friends are your age, we talk mainly because of a mutal interest in Musical Theatre and Online Text-Only RPG's.
There was one girl I met, I grew to have feelings for her and it threw me away when I discovered she wasn't 18 or over. She was 14. So I backed right the hell off, not to the point where I just stopped talking, I had developed too much of a friendship with her to just abandon it. But I stopped hitting on her (though if she asked me, I would never lie tell her she was ugly... because wasn't) and just chatted and talked about things I still never really do with my other friends because they're all guys.
We've sort of lost contact these days, she has her own life and a new guy that she's been with for a while. And its just good to see her smiling again, even if it could never be with me.
So you see. Don't label every guy a peadophile. I'm 24 and I would sooner chainsaw off my own penis than take advantage of a teenager. I just wanted to illustrate just how easy it is for an adult man to relate to a teeenage girl these days (and lets face it its getting harder and harder to judge age on looks now, you practically have to ask for I.D. from everyone).
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reader, leann25  +, writes (3 May 2008):
umm yes maam you should dump him!! because im just saying if he does only want you for sex girl aint like no point in being wit him!! and plus he is too old for you and he could get in trouble or something so might as well dump him now then later!!
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reader, keely-h +, writes (29 April 2008):
 he is a pedophille saty away from him
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reader, Dr Vendetta +, writes (29 April 2008):
 "I want to dump him because I think his too old for me"
You mean " I want to dump him because he's a pedophile"
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 April 2008): I have to think there is something seriously wrong with any 20 year old who would be romantically or sexually interested in a 14 year old. You are practically a child! Stay away from him - it can come to no good. Not to mention any sexual activity between you and him is AGAINST THE LAW.
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