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writes:I have been married for slightly over a year and into our 4th month of marriage I found a text where my husband is saying he is thinking about some other girl. I asked that he stop talking to her and he didn't. Then once again I asked and he did stop speaking to her for a good 4 months, but now I just found that he called her. I want to trust him but I don't think he cares if he loses me or not.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 April 2008): I have a few female friends. They're like men friends and the only difference is that they have tits and wear skirts occasionally. I've also occasionally texted one or two of them telling them I'm thinking of them. Maybe they've just got over a bout of flu, or they had a bust up with their husband or partner. My concern was just that they knew I was thinking of them. Nothing more in it.
Maybe he's the same. A lot depends on what exactly was texted between them, and their history. He may be totally innocent of any mischief and it would be wrong to try to come between him and his friends. Then again, he might be a total prick who is leading you a merry dance.
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reader, TELLULAH  +, writes (29 April 2008):
 Are you sure that they are not just mates? If your sure then he sounds like a complete rotter. I would call his bluff and throw him out, if he refuses to give up with this girl and you have doubts about him being faithfull.
Its horrible that he is treating you like this, and you need to sort this out one way or another.
Take care X
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 April 2008): If your husband cant even do this one thing for you and cant seem to leave this woman alone then i would tell him to get lost. if you love him then i understand that its easier said than done to just leave him but think how this is all making you feel. Its not a happy situation to be in is it. Good luck anyway and i hope you find my advice helpfull xx
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reader, daniellexxxx +, writes (29 April 2008):
 Selfish man he doesnt care weather your feelings are getting hurt or not.
Tell him if he doesnt stop he will loose you see what he says if he doesnt seem to bothered then decided weather to walk or stay. Do you know this girl?
Good luck. x
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reader, Imok23 +, writes (29 April 2008):
I completely agree with you it doesnt seem like he care's if he loses you or not and that in itself is alarming. Obviously your into to win it because if not I assume you wouldnt have gotten married , however sadly our generation (some not all) doesnt seem to take marriage as serious. . .your husband being one of them. The first time you asked him to stop he didnt , the second time around he did so for a good ''4 months'' r u sure ??? Sounds to me like he never really did cut her off. And now you find out that he's called her . . sorry, but I dont see where the trust might come in. He hasnt earned your trust and it doesnt seem like he cares . . .I think you have alot to think about . He doesnt RESPECT you and if you dont take a stand ( a real stand) he never will
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