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writes:What if your boyfriend tells you that you still haven't changed, but you know your self that you have. How do you show him that you have? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 April 2008): That post is a little too vague. How did you need to change in the first place? Did you cheat? Did you nag? Were you jealous?
In any case its likely that you'll have to wait for the situation to present itself for him to see that you've actually changed. And it's gonna take multiple times before he thinks you've actually changed.
Also don't go out of your way to show him you've changed something. If you go out of your way to point it out he's gonna think you're just tryin to make a point & as soon as you think he's convinced you'll go back to the way you were before.
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reader, softballplaya +, writes (28 April 2008):
 well this is a toughie because there are many forms of "change" do you mean in a positive way or negative??
well for positive I would tell him straight up, let him know what your a better person that how you used to be. Tell him that you dont do this, or you dont do that anymore and make him realize your a completely different person. Ask him as well what makes him think that you have not changed...expressing feelings may open doors to a better outcome. Hear his side too. It will all work out hun
hope i helped you=]
good luckk && take care!
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