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36-40,
*ash
writes: hi, my little problem is this. It is just about this lady in my hood. I've been eyeing her for some times now but feeling afraid to go meet her. One day she now came to me and preach the gospel to me. I pretend as if i accepted what she has to say. we thereby became friends. But the problem is this, how do i tell her that i love her without her thinking that that is the main reason i accepted the gospel? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 April 2008): I dont think you've lied to her.I think she will understand that you didnt want to push her away by 'rejecting' the gospel.I think she'd actually think that's sweet. And it is...
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reader, Laura1318 +, writes (28 April 2008):
Don't worry , she will not think that way.
Everything happens because God allows it.
You do not have to tell her that.
In time , you will learn to love God through her.
She is a conduit for God's love to you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 April 2008): Never good to lie, for lies are hard to undo.
Come clean and tell her the truth, and accept the outcome that follows, even if it means to loose her forever.
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