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Can casual sex end up as the real thing?

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Question - (28 April 2008) 7 Answers - (Newest, 31 May 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 51-59, anonymous writes:

Has anyone had a FWB relationship which has ended up as the real thing?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (31 May 2008):

my boyfriend and i started out as sex buddies and now are families have combined.But every once in a while he and i will begin a argument over whether or not i have a new person in his old position.So,in my case i love being with him but iy will take a while for him to realize that he is all i need and want. So if you are going down this path good luck.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (29 April 2008):

My boyfriend and I have been together for over a year. Saying that, we had sex on our first "date" and really had a sex buddy thing going on until we realized that we were perfect for eachother. So, yeah, it can happen.

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (28 April 2008):

In my opinion no.

And when one person in a sex-friends relationship suddenly starts having feelings they usually get very hurt.

Break it off now and then if it is meant to be you can start again and date.

Good Luck!! xx

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A male reader, Danielepew Mexico +, writes (28 April 2008):

Danielepew agony auntIt has never happened to me, but I believe that sometimes a friend with benefits can become a girlfriend/boyfriend. Relationships do evolve from one point to the other. By the way, sometimes relationships go the other way: people start as a couple and end up as nothing, being, in the meantime, friends with benefits.

In short: yes: casual sex can eventually end up in the real thing.

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A female reader, Nikkii Babyee United Kingdom +, writes (28 April 2008):

Nikkii Babyee agony aunti was meeting up with this guy last summer and we jumped into things really quickly because there was just so much passion between us and yeahit was the real thing! lasted a few couple of months but ven stil i know that what we had was a real thing so yea i believe that casual sex can end up being alot more! :)

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (28 April 2008):

Generally nope. Guys that want the real thing are willing to work for it, not get it easy. FWB equals easy sex with no commitment.

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A female reader, natasia United Kingdom +, writes (28 April 2008):

natasia agony auntOf course. The attraction that made you jump into bed on pretty short acquaintance is exactly the kind of chemistry you need for 'the real thing'. Plus someone being decent, rather than a complete bxxxxxd - be careful about that one! : )

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