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How do I ask my boyfriend to touch me "down there"?

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Question - (28 April 2008) 5 Answers - (Newest, 28 April 2008)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I have gone down on my boyfriend multiple times. He asked if he can touch me but I was uncomfortable at the time so I said no, but now I'm ready. How do I ask him?

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A female reader, Nikkii Babyee United Kingdom +, writes (28 April 2008):

Nikkii Babyee agony auntyou really dont have to ask him to do anything hun, all you have to do is guide him down to that area the next time yer in a passionate embrace when he can see yer ready his hands will be flying evrytime! :)

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A male reader, Danielepew Mexico +, writes (28 April 2008):

Danielepew agony auntVery simple: take his hand and put it right there.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (28 April 2008):

As said, just gently guide his hand down towards your crotch. If he holds back, do it discreetly again. Look into his eyes and mayble smile suspiciously. You could also move your legs apart slightly, so he gets the idea that you're more willing to accept his hand down there.

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A female reader, mightyhawk United Kingdom +, writes (28 April 2008):

mightyhawk agony auntguide his hands while you are kissing. he will get the idea without embarassing or cheesy lines

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A female reader, Susan Strict United Kingdom +, writes (28 April 2008):

Susan Strict agony auntIf the words are too difficult/embarrassing (they usually are) then at the right moment just hold his hand and put it there.

(A few moans of pleasure... a "Go ON!" and "Yes!" and "Please!!!" and definitely "Don't stop!!!" - hey, that's enough or this reply is going to read like a porn story...)

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