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writes:I have a tuff situation i have this girlfriend that loves me very much and i love her with evry breathe i take . she is perfect in every way . now id like opions from both genders please . alright i was down the other night and just wanted to run away from it all but she has been thinking lately that she loves me more than i love her meaning she thinks that she thinks i doubt me loving her as much as i do . what do i do to prove to her that i do ????? Reply to this Question
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reader, duskyrowe +, writes (28 April 2008):
 Aww female reader that was a beautiful poem.... Its nice to see that romance is very much alive.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 April 2008): Send her an email like like..its mine but you can use it...good luck...heres 2:ANGEL OF MY LIFE Author: Me I love you so much that words can't explain this joy that I have for you.When I am at the weakest point of my life you are there encouraging me to run this race because I am not only cause you are there with me.You are on my mind day and night.When we are apart I picture you gracious smile and gentle hug.I can let my feelings out to you and won't regret it because no matter what is you are always on my side.I thank God for sending me someone like you who is precious and loving.So I can truly say that you are the Angel of My Life!........................Our Love Author: Me I want to spend my life with youThese feelings inside I know are trueBeing away from you is hard to takeA wonderful life with you I'll make.You and only you is what I live forEnjoying all of you yet wanting moreSelfish at times, I can't let you goLoving you always this I tell you so.Some days are easy while others are hardThe hand we play from dealing the cardsI'll stand by you no matter how longOur love is like the notes to a song.Creating a melody for everyone to hearBringing with it laughter and tearsAn inspiration for what love can beA shining beacon for all to see.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 April 2008): A relationship is all about trust and communication. Something is not right here if you are saying something very clearly to her and she is saying "Nope, you're lying to me." In essence that's what she's saying. You should NOT have to prove your love to her. You've already told her and undoubtedly shown her through your words and actions. If she refuses to believe it and wants you to start jumping through hoops, it sounds like she's insecure and can't believe that she is worthy of someone caring that much.This is of course assuming that you do show your love for her by treating her well, being proud in front of your family and friends, all of that. Those are the ways you show love, not with gifts and trinkets. So assuming you do show your love for her, you need to sit down with her and discuss this. Love is a very personal, very communication-based thing between two people. It's based on respect and trust. Ask her why she doesn't trust you, why she doesn't believe you, and what she feels is wrong with the relationship. And listen to her answers. This is something you two need to work out now. But if it comes down to her insecurities, and a need for you to *prove* your love like some knight going around killing dragons, that is something she needs to work on. Love isn't about doing great deeds. It's about being open, being honest, being reliable, talking and sharing. And for her, it's about believing in you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 April 2008): Women do that sometimes, just to get men to try harder, if you love her jump the hoops. Its funny, why should you have to prove anything? And at what point will she be satified, your still young - all the usual shoukd work, flowers, letters, poems. Enjoy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 April 2008): Awwh. Well there's plenty of things you can do honey. Love letters maybe, little gifts, if you have enough money then you could buy her a ring? Take her out for a treat at her favourite restaurant. Send her little texts just saying 'I love you'. Maybe put lots of kisses on the end of her texts? Ask her how her day has been and look interested, even if you don't really feel it lol. But remember, it doesnt have to be expensive - the smallest things often mean the most. Just some of her favourite sweets or food, something you know she will like.
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