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female
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51-59,
anonymous
writes:I can not work out this one night stand I had. Well I met this guy on a social networking site. But, it is just a site if you want to go out for the night you post your plans up and see if anyone wants to join you. Lots of ppl use it for dating.After exchanging a few emails a met this guy one night. This guy did not seem sleazy at all in his emails so I thought he seemed ok to meet. Well after 7 hours of talking about nothing sleazy. He seemed like he was trying to get to know me and was asking me everything there was possibly to know about myself. We were talking about how we were trying to find the right person and he was saying how he just wanted to meet just one person. Then all of a sudden after a few drinks it just happened. We went home and had amazing sex. Well not proper sex he started and I stopped him due to the whole unsafe sex thing. But, you could say we had a 5 sec shag. Just touching, blow job etc. but I did make him cum and he practically did the same for me. The next day he sent me all these texts saying he loved what I did to him and how much he wanted to f*ck me, finish me off and how we should meet again. At the time I sent texts back saying oh yeah you have a fantastic c*ck, as it was amazing and he seemed like a nice guy from the 7 hour conversation we had the night before, but it is really not like we said we going to be together or anything. In all honesty if we had condoms I would of. We then didn't meet so I decided to forget about him. But, then he did contact me a few weeks later when he noticed I was online on the same site we met. I was a bit pissed off as he took a couple weeks to contact me and I think why can't you send me a text as you r probably on this site looking at other girls. But, then it is not like we said we were going to be together.I told him it was a drunken fling and we did not really know each and should meet on neutral territory. But then he just goes yeah but we had fun, it will be a bit hard to go back after that. Then I said ok, it was fun (well it was) maybe we should meet just for a drink only and see if we like each other again and just see what happened. Well we did not, so I decided to forget about him again. Then 2 weeks later he contacts me on the same site. I was not online so I did not get back to him and just left him a message saying yeah lets meet.He does not respond so I forget about him then he contacts me again on the same site two weeks later. As I think when it is kind of a dating site why r you contacting me on it. I told him he was a player and I was on the site going out with someone else that night as I was pissed off he had taken so long to respond (I actually did not mean another guy it was only my friend, but I think he thought opposite). He then even left a text on my mobile asking me for a drink when he knew I was going out with them.The next day I said ok lets go for a drink then. He asked me to come to his every night but I already had plans so could not go. But the more we texted he is like can I get my hands on your gorgeous body. I just said look I hv not seen in you 2 months I am unsure, I have been seeing someone else (which was not true) we should just meet without the pressure of sex. He did not get back to me after that, maybe that was a bit too harsh. I am kind of flattered he is coming after me in a way as most guys don't bother to contact me afterwards. I have had a few one night stands namely involving just giving guys blow jobs, hand jobs but not one of them ever called me back and I never ever made any of them cum. Not one of them kept contacting me. I just do not know what it is or was? I guess it is hard to go back after you have practically have had sex with someone and just go to being friends. I probably have destroyed everything now. What does someone else make of this?
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (28 April 2008):
 I think he's just after sex, forget about him for real this time and don't respond to any his messages. If he was interested in anything else he wouldn't wait so long in between conversations with you.
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reader, duskyrowe +, writes (28 April 2008):
 You are putting yourself in a lot of danger by meeting these guys and having sexual liasons with them. Why are you cheapening yourself for a like this?
Is it your intention to have no-strings sex or are you wanting something more? This guy clearly wants you use you and I dare say he is doing this to a lot of other women.
I met my boyfriend on-line and we did not have sex until I was good and ready and we have been together almost 7 months. There are lots of predators and nutters out there so take extra care and let your friends know where you are for safety before you meet these men. Come on you are not a teenager anymore, so stop behaving like one.
The reason why these other guys have not contacted you is because you offer it on the plate too much and have move onto their next conquest.......ARE YOU SURPRISED????
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