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Four women are pregnant because wearing a condom is against my religion. What should I do?

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Question - (28 April 2008) 8 Answers - (Newest, 28 April 2008)
A male United Kingdom age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Let me explain. My girlfriend and I enjoy an open relationship where we each sleep with different partners from time to time. She's pregnant at the moment. It was unplanned. That would not be a problem only for the fact that there are four other pregnant women now claiming I'm the father of their unborn babies. Three of these women are total stranger I slept with once and never saw again until they showed up at my place telling me they were having my baby. The fourth is a girl I've known for yrs and yrs. I don't know how to handle this situation. I don't know if the girls are all telling the truth or not. I don't wear condoms because they are against my religious beliefs and I believe it is a sin to use contraception. Now I am in dire straits. What should I do?

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A female reader, hannah76 United Kingdom +, writes (28 April 2008):

hannah76 agony auntThis seems bizare what's going on. I'm sure sex is only allowed inside of marriage if you are Christian or R.C.

Anyway, step back and look at what's happening....you have FOUR girls pregnant by you! You are having your "pleasure" and now see where this is leaving you! Stop and be responsible please!! H.

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A male reader, oldfool Australia +, writes (28 April 2008):

oldfool agony auntI don't know? What does your religion say? If your religion won't let you wear condoms, I suggest you turn to your religion to help you bear the consequences.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (28 April 2008):

I'm sorry but the other posters are exactly right.

Certain religions are against birth control because they disapprove of EXACTLY the life and actions and consequences that you're living right now.

I don't care what the books & leaders tell you about it, the bottom line is that you're following the letter of the law while totally disobeying the whole intent of those letters in the first place.

I think you should get four abortions right now while they are still early-term. You will scream at this suggestion, but I think the ugly truth is that this is exactly what you should be doing.

(Stop listening to what some guy tells you about the Bible and start reading the Bible itself. Jesus only said not to leave already-born babies out in the woods to die when they were unwanted. It took modern church figures to decide that they knew he was really talking about something different. Jesus didn't have a lot to say about modern medical techniques like abortions when he was preaching 2000 years ago. But you should notice that all the positions he ever did take about all kinds of sexual issues were consistently the most socially LIBERAL ones he could have taken at the time.)

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (28 April 2008):

Your religion prohibits sex with a condom but is ok with having sex with multiple partners? What religion is that? Polygamy?

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A male reader, Danielepew Mexico +, writes (28 April 2008):

Danielepew agony auntYou should be getting ready to be the father of all four children. They will need you when they are born. Three of the women may be total strangers, but their children won't; they will be your children, from all apppearances.

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A female reader, sarahhh United States +, writes (28 April 2008):

What does your religion say about sleeping around outside of marriage?

IF you're breaking that rule then you should also break the condom one too.

You sound incredibly selfish. Who knows what you're giving to these women besides babies? You should get checked for STDs.

And I agree with Collaroy, you're either crazy or a liar.

Are you trying to model yourself on the Jerry Springer show? What a thing to aspire to.

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A male reader, Collaroy Australia +, writes (28 April 2008):

Collaroy agony aunt"Ye reap what ye sow". That's in the bible.

sorry dude, but if you were so commited to your faith I don't think you would be out there spreading your seed.

I can't believe 4 seperate girls would allow themselves to have sex without a condom so easily( no matter what you say ) in this day and age. Your story has a ring of untruth about it.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (28 April 2008):

If it is a sin to wear contraception it was probably also a sin to sleep with all those women! Get your act together or you'll end up with a LOT more children.

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