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writes:I am insecure about a past relationship and am stuck in between the decision of getting back together with him. We dated for around a year and we're in love, still are even though we aren't together anymore. It was a pretty rocky relationship which makes me question getting back into it. To get over him, i've mainly leaned onto guys to help me. I am now currently in a relationship, but not happy because i can't get my ex off my mind.What do i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 April 2008): Listen, I was in a six year long relationship that was nothing but bad news. I can relate on how hard it is to not think about an ex once they are gone. The thing is, you've gotten so used to them being around and it can be a scary feeling when something you have grown so accustomed to is gone. Someone told me that it's a hard thing when you're left alone with nothing but yourself and your memories of him, but if the relationship was not a good one, try to remember what made it bad. That will make it easier to move on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 April 2008): Okay...the first thing you do to get him outta your head is...1.if you have any photos or his name written on paper hanging on your wall rip them off and toss them away. 2. try talking to someone else to see if there is a bond between you two (see if u and him like each other which means see if you are intersested.)3. if your ex tries to call or anything the first thing i would do is block his number (i personally think if he did it to you, do it to him to see how he likes it) if you see him at school, ignore him for a while and he get that you dont like him anyomore (even if you do) well good luck!!
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