A
female
age
51-59,
anonymous
writes: is it appropriate for a married man to still be calling an ex from 15 years ago?
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reader, Sugarbuns +, writes (29 April 2008):
No good can come out of it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 April 2008): It's not that bad, though your partner may feel uncomfortable about it. Ask them. It will help. So long as you're just friends....
Good Luck x
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female
reader, Susan Strict +, writes (28 April 2008):
Yes, sure. Why not?
A break-up of a relationship doesn't have to be the loss of a friendship. And there is absolutely no reason why friends of the opposite sex should be a problem.
Unless you have real, solid reasons for being concerned about it, then don't be concerned.
Actually, my ex calls me regularly. We write books together, about sex. It doesn't bother my partner, nor does it bother my ex's present wife. And that's what we've been doing for more than 20 years. I wouldn't dream of going back to him nor him to me, and I wouldn't dream of going to bed with him either. It's a matter of trust, and strength of character.
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