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writes:I really like a guy in my year at college we are both 18. im not sure if he feels the same i am getting mixed signals, one time he defended me from someone who was about to hurt me and then says "if he had touched you i would have punched him!" then another time i was complaining how im not good looking and he said "have confidence" so the other day we were chatting and he was talking about the girls he thinks that are "fit" in the class and how he was chatting to some "fit" girls the other day, so then i go on about how i think so and so is fit but i only do it to get a reaction or to see if he gets jealous...do you think he does it the same?so today he was talking about a girl in my class who he finds "fit" and then he asked me "do you think im good looking?" he was aking in a serious way?? so i said as a joke "yes i think your stunning!" and that was the end of that conversation we went on to something different?so do you think he sees me as a friend or a girlfriend...im very confusssssed!!! :S
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 April 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you for helping!! also when i talk about a certain celebrity i fancy he starts slagging him off?? whats that all about?? xxx
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reader, Stayc63088  +, writes (28 April 2008):
 Sounds like you two are good friends to me. Like the previous poster said, get him alone and find out. Ask if he wants to go out sometime. Maybe if he offers to pay for you then that is your sign. From what you said though I don't think he is flirting or trying to make you jealous. He sounds like he is just talking with you. Most of the time you can tell if you are making the guy jealous when you talk about other guys, and you can definitely tell when they don't care either way. But ask him out sometime, make it as casual sounding as possible if you are nervous, and see how it goes. Good luck :)
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (28 April 2008):
It sounds like he's a nice guy and well worth having as a friend.
As to whether he likes you, why wait for him to make a move?
Ask him out to see a film with you. It doesn't have to be a date but could end up very romantic if you let it.
See where things go.
Good Luck!! xx
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