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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Im so confused! Me and my boyfriend broke up for i dunno maybe a week or so and now hes got a new girl. We both chose to remain friends in hopes that theres still a chance that something will happen in the future (hes 15 im 14) well there is only one problem. His new girlfriend! I have 10th pd gym with her and she constantly harasses me (shes 15 too) she shoved a guy into me and talks very rude about me. She has my ex boyfriend! What more does she want from me!!? I think she is part of the reason me and him broke up due to the fact that her sister told him lies and she constantly asked if we were still dating. I dont know how to handle this, if i fly off my handle then my ex will think im crazy or something but i cannot let her treat me this way!I'm so confused on how to deal with this psycho chick lolthanks everyone for all you help! xox
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reader, drastic knowledge +, writes (4 October 2007):
 i say try and ignore he and cut all contct with the ex dont even leave the friend opition open or later love
he choose to leave you over lies and things okay then big red flag right there
hes still way inmater think of it more as dating some one in middle school he needs to grow up and maybe he will
but as for not dont ever trip on this girl shes nothing to you anyways so why sweat her
when you ignore her it will give her the message you dont care anymore and she will leave you alone but seriously
he will see right thru it after a while but just hope your not who he comes running back to as you can do way better
good luck and forget about the p.e drama and think on your education instead
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 October 2007): ok for starters im not his back up girlfriend! i havent even talked to him since they started to date! she has been rude to me even before they went out- get that through your thick head!- and i dont want her to treat me nicely. i want her to leave me alone, i dont mess with her or my ex, so i dont c a point in her even talking to me!
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 October 2007): The problem is that you and your ex are choosing to remain friends so that something can happen later between you.
If you were dating a guy who had a back up girlfriend, you would be irritated as well.
Your ex needs to decide if he wants to be with her or you, as he cannot have both- it is clearly hurting his girlfriends feelings. You should back off from your friendship with him if you want her to treat you nicely, and stop stepping on her toes.
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reader, Emaz help  +, writes (3 October 2007):
 IGNORE HER!
she is obviously jealous that you went out with him, she may feel as if you may take him off of her, she is just protecting herself by getting hurt by hurting you!
If you can't confront this girl then talk to your ex about it
If you are still friends then he should be able to tell her to stop doing these things.
But you did break up for a reason and he's going out with this new girl for a reason so i should try not to be 'jealous' or whatever, show her that you don't care even if you do!
Hope thats helped =]
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