A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: Right i'm at high school in year 10 and suddenly have got these feelings for a female teacher. I'm not a lesbian because i've had loads of crushes and 2 boyfriends. It's really weird though, i dont want to feel this for someone of the same sex! Is there a way of getting over something like this?
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reader, Emma99 +, writes (4 October 2007):
Don't be freaked out by the same sex thing -- desire is complicated!! (be glad you CAN be attracted to people of both sexes... it's a cool place to be -- double the choice!) BUT be freaked out by the teacher bit... crushes on teachers hurt, and except in special circumstances, never lead to much that's good (sometimes you do get to write a fabulous assignment because of how hard you work for the crush.... but...) I think best way to get over a crush is to get another one...
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (4 October 2007): It's a crush, I'm the same as you except it's a fellow student. Best way to get over a crush, well try to think of something bad about her and go with it, try to see her as just your teacher. I know it's hard when you HAVE to see her as she's your teacher. You may be BI or it's just one girl crush
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