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writes:It stopped for 2 weeks.The guy that I was seeing left for 2 weeks without a phone call...Without anything.. and and I really like him.He's very special to me. He has this was of being that makes me melt for him. He promised he would never hùrt me.He promised he would never cheat on me, which is a big deal for me because I've had 3 guys in a row that cheat on me.So, I was a car wreck for 2 weeks and and I didn't think he would come back.One night some friend of mine went over to my house. We were hanging out and and it was known that he's had feelings for me. Well one thing led to another and and he ended up fingering me. Agh and and afterwards I felt like a total moron for letting him do so. It was wrong and and I know it.I felt so bad and and I felt gùilty.But I kept telling myself that the guy I was seeing wasn't gonna come back.He called me 2 days after all this happened.I was so happyYet, when I talked to him all I thought about was what I did.Agh I'm feeling so....agh.You know?What should I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 October 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI know I should tell him.
I'm just scared of his reaction.
& every single time that he does something bad to me that makes me cry I just think about the fact that I can leave him at any time but I don't. I stay.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 October 2007): Well, it's not like you two are married or anything. He should have kept in touch more often. What was HE doing for over two weeks without contacting you? I bet you haven't asked him that.
I don't know what your chosen religion is, but if you're a catholic, go and confess to your priest. You might have to say a few hail marys or whatever it is that catholics do, but that wouldn't be such a big deal. Then forget about it. If you're not a catholic confess to your teddy bear or whatever and forget about it.
What's a little fingering between friends? No big deal, I would say. Tell the other guy that it was definitely a one-off.
Phil
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reader, Fairy_Lu  +, writes (4 October 2007):
 I think you need to be honest with this guy because otherwise its always going to be in the back of your mind tell him you thought he had left you because you hadnt heard from him, tell him it was a mistake and you regret it,you just have to be honest and beg for forgiveness and apologise over and over for making that mistake
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