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41-50,
anonymous
writes:Ok me and my ex boyfriend have been of again on again for 2 years now.. Prior to that a 5 year relationship., so altogether 7 years. When he is gone I miss him, when he is around I am easily annoyed...I know I am annoyed, well more so (hurt) because of him having a relationship with this girl who tried to break us up the whole time we were together, I just can't seem to forgive him.. How could he be with her out of all the girls in the world. I want to forgive him soo bad, not only for me but for him. I am tired of being mean to him, and the arguing because I think he doesn't understand my hurt that he caused. He calls asking for me to take him back, when I say no... someone will tell me they saw him around this girl's neighborhood, or I might see him myself like the next day... I can see the difference in the way he treats the both of us. So i guess when I say no, he runs to her.. Oh he acknowledges her to me as his (rebound girl).This also makes me upset... as he treats us like buses, one break down catch the next... so why then does he tell me he only loves me, etc, and asking to be with me...Why can't I forgive him...What does this say about me....why can the other girl get past me, but I can't get past her. DOes this mean she could possibly love him more? NAH!!! Some advice please.... Confused and Torn,
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reader, drastic knowledge +, writes (4 October 2007):
 one thing to let you know he tells you he loves you and then runs to her okay then stop a second and ditch the feelings think about it
HES A PLAYER AND GETTING WHAT HE WANTS
he is treating you like a piece of cheap meat and gets what he wants you take him back then leave him and then takes him back again
he has no respect for you or this girl
he is playing you 2 for stupid and thinking he is getting away with it
ditch him out of your thoughts gather what oride you have for your self and move on count him as a mr. wrong and leave it at that
this man is trash now can him
use your brain not your heart maybe hard but that pain will fade in time and saving you less of it
i wish you the best but i suggest you ignore anything to do with him
take care and good luck
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reader, xSarax  +, writes (3 October 2007):
 You don't love him, but horrible as the truth is will never be able to get over him. You have proved this by not forgetting about his sad ass when he went with this other girl.
Hopefully your not like me, treat me mean keep me keen. Because at the end of the day your making a fool of yourself by even keeping in contact with this loser.
Leave him to it, soon he will meet his match I can esure you. And she will tear his heart into a thousand tiny pieces. It's true that what goes around comes around. So don't even give him the satisfaction of knowing that your bothered, he probably feeds on it.
Show him whos boss by goin out and having a good time, someone one hundred times more of a man will come along and whisk you off your feet. Sounds like a fairy tail but it's true, the bad never win, as long as your havin fun someone will fall in love with that.
It's hard but you'll get over it in the end.
Best of luck x
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reader, Sweet-thing +, writes (3 October 2007):
 There are other fish in the sea. I suggest you try catching one and throw this one back. First of all, I think he's co-dependent, meaning he'll run from one girl to the next because he doesn't know how, or can't be alone. There will always be a rebound girl, for all you know, you were the rebound girl in the beginning. He doesn't know what he wants and he never will until he spends some time on his own, with no one but himself. You've spent enough time with this guy, it's time to move on. Good luck.
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