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Is he still interested after break-up?

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Question - (3 October 2007) 5 Answers - (Newest, 6 October 2007)
A female United Kingdom, anonymous writes:

im 22. my boyfriend broke up with me 2 weeks ago cause we argued a lot and he said it wasnt going anywhere with me and he didnt have any real interest in me anymore. he told me to leave him alone because he's moving on and that he wants me to move on and be happy too.

i was upset but actually not too bad. i mean i knew i was gonna miss him and was sad for all of the things i thought we could've had but never got the opportunity but i wasnt in any kind of depression. i've thought about him a lot over the last 2 weeks and have missed him but i've been quite optimistic about the future without him.

but the thing is, i have a tracker on my myspace so i can see who visits and when and he is showing up on it every day. do you think he misses me? or what is going on? i last spoke to him on saturday night when he told me in no uncertain terms to leave him alone and move on. but he's still going on my myspace? confused.

i should also point out my myspace is private and he's not on my friends list anymore, so its not even as if he's going on it to see if i'm speaking to any other boys - when he goes on it all he can see is the default picture of me.

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A female reader, clatty United Kingdom +, writes (6 October 2007):

i think he does still like you. Maybe he was confused and he regrets his actions. Or maybe he is playing games to try and find out what you really feel for him.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (6 October 2007):

I'm pretty sure he's just curious about your life with time in his hands and miss you as a person rather than love reasons. When people are attached with somebody whether they are in love or not, they would miss having that person around. I don't know how long you have been with him but give it some time. Time heal wounds and most the bad memories will be forgotten. If you want him back then start over again with a new approach.

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A male reader, Tommy7 United States +, writes (4 October 2007):

He may just be curios about how you are getting along. Why spend any of your time checking up on him and get on with your life.

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A female reader, jHing Philippines +, writes (4 October 2007):

well, its just that he still misses you..coz if he dont, why still he visits you? so in that case, he just wants to see you everyday.. everyone of us has a pride..so maybe he dont want to lose his pride coz he already said to you to leave him alone.. so that is why he is just ashame to tell you that he still do love you.

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A female reader, jHing Philippines +, writes (4 October 2007):

well, its just that he still misses you..coz if he dont, why still he visits you? so in that case, he just wants to see you everyday.. everyone of us has a pride..so maybe he dont want to lose his pride coz he already said to you to leave him alone.. so that is why he is just ashame to tell you that he still do love you.

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