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anonymous
writes:I need help fast! I'm seeing this guy, were friends with benefits! The sex is great, And he's a great guy great personality I have no complaints, but I want out!!, for some reason I don't want to see him anymore, I'm getting these mixed feelings, somtimes I feel I'm getting attached, and then other times I'm all for just having a casual sex buddy. I dunno if I'm in denial! I just don't wanna end up hurt! ive heard so many times that these types of relationships don't end up well, I know I'm worth way more, I can't help feeling a little guilty sometimes!...and I don't know y, I'm so confused I hope u guys understand me....please help. Should I break it off, and end it 1nce and for all? I've pondered this so many times! Yet I don't have the strength to actually do it. What's wrong with me?!?
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reader, rcn +, writes (6 October 2007):
 Your welcome. Take care.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 October 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanx for the help guys, especially "rcn" u really hit the nail on the head! everything is so clear to me now, I am acting against what I believe. Thanx for the help I'm going to let him know my situation and exactly how I feel. And ill let u guys know how it goes thanx so much!
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reader, Tommy7 +, writes (4 October 2007):
Yes you should totally break it off when you find a new boyfriend.
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reader, rcn +, writes (4 October 2007):
Your confused. You said it perfectly. You know you're worth more and feel guilty. You're seeing it as a compromise of your values. When we believe something and act against our belief, we do feel guilty.
You can wrap up just about all your feeling into one sentence you said "I just don't wanna get hurt." Sometimes these relationships don't end well, and sometimes they do. It depends on the people within and what they're looking for.
I'd talk to him about it. He may be feeling the same toward you as you began feeling toward him.
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