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I think my best friend likes my boyfriend, and I'm worried he likes her too.

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Question - (3 October 2007) 5 Answers - (Newest, 7 October 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Recently ive noticed that my best friend has started to take alot of interest in my boyfriend.

I've tryed to ignore it, thinking i'm being paranoid and stupid. Thing is, this has happened before, with a different friend stealing an ex.

I care about him so much. At weekends we go to alot of partys, and my best friend comes all the time aswell.

My boyfriends always saying how much he likes my best friend, and she says the same about him. I'm just jealous, as sometimes they go off for little private talks, which makes me paranoid. I'm too scared to say anything, because i don't want to lose either of them, and also i don't want to make myself look like an idiot!

I just don't know what to do, it's really getting to me...

please help!!

Thankyou :)

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (7 October 2007):

girl its not about who likes your man its who you like and you are abeautiful young girl and you dont need to worry about who likes you or your boyfriend you dont need to be worried about your best friend and your boyfriend even though you would die for them , there is plenty more in the world, make the right choice!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (5 October 2007):

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Thanks alot :) I will talk to both of them seperately and see what happens ...

Thanks for replying

love

x.x.x

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A female reader, Fairy_Lu United Kingdom +, writes (4 October 2007):

Fairy_Lu agony auntShe is your best friend talk to her about it let her know how you feel and tell her your concerns she is your best friends if there is nothing between them then she will back off

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A male reader, mortimer United States +, writes (4 October 2007):

mortimer agony auntTalk to your "friend" about this first. If she hesitates and gives you an asnwer you don't like then you know she likes him. More often then not you're correct, it's just insecurity tha fules the flames of jealousy. Take heart that your bf loves you and trust him untill he proves otherwise. Good luck and God bless.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (4 October 2007):

u know what be brave..

let them know how you feel..

and take the consequences..

if SHE IS YOUR BEST FRIEND then why does she treats you like that? maybe shes just using u to get over your boyfriend

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