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*eartBreakED
writes:I am a very down to earth sweet young man with big dreams and aspirations. I am also built like Buddha. I can't seem to find a decent girl out there who will accept me. I'm not 100% sure of it but really really feel like girls judge me based on my looks, ie: my curly hobbit-like hair, protruding stomach, and slightly bushy beard. I don't really want to change my physical appearance to attract women who wouldn't normally be attracted to me, so how would a guy like me attract a nice girl? For the record, I most closely resemble Jack Black. Reply to this Question
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reader, HeartBreakED +, writes (3 October 2007):
HeartBreakED is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thank you everyone. Seeing as how I've only gotten answers from sweet ladies who have no problem with physical appearances, that really does help to boost my confidence. Now, if only I could find some ladies like you in DC. lol
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reader, Emaz help  +, writes (3 October 2007):
 To be honest theres nothing wrong with jack black look wise!
Just be confident in the way you look and girls will like and sense that and could even come and talk to you!
Finding someone takes time, it doesn't just happen
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reader, Fairy_Lu +, writes (3 October 2007):
 Hey nothing wrong with looking like jack black! Just be confident if you dont have a problem with the way you look you shouldnt go after girls who have a problem with it, just be yourself the right girl is out there you just havent found her yet
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 October 2007): Whats wrong with Jack Black? Im going to tell you that if you are happy with yourself then no dont change the way you look. Girls that cant see past your looks(as sweet as I picture them) dont deserve you anyway.
I had a friend at college,who was one of the sweetest friends I have ever had. He used to have a big mass of curly hair, a bit of roughage on the chin and he too had a tummy. Yet he was happy with himself and had lots of friends.
I used to get alot of attention from the lads at the time and am embarrassed to say I was one of those 'most wanted' girls except I wasnt up my own arse like most of them and I am a very good judge of character. So, my friend and I ended up together for a while. Once we were over, his confidence had grown and he has had many girlfriends since.
Your time will come!
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reader, princess_sparkle +, writes (3 October 2007):
Believe me I know exactly how you feel. Iam overweight an I always have trouble finding men. They key is just to have self confidence and love yourself no matter what. If you do that i know you will find someone to love you for you. Please dont change your physical appearance to please a woman, its not worth it. Any woman that is bothered by the way you look is not the one anyway. You just have to love yourself and wait for the right woman to come along, im sure there will be a lot of women who will find you sexy, I know I find Jack Black sexy. lol. If you ever like a girl that you think might be out of your league, take a chance, the risk is worth the reward.
Hope this helped
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