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41-50,
*hi
writes:I'm married and have a family but i'm still in love with my ex. He is with someone and has a child with her. I have known my ex from high scholl and ever since the day i saw him i feel in love with him and never stop loving him. I met my husband at the same school and been with him since i broke with my ex when we were 16 yrs old. Even though we broke up over a stupid comment i made to his friend about him, he has always been in the picture, i would see time from time to time. recently i called him and he told me to go see him so i did and we talked and i told how i felt and he wanted to be with me but he said he is not a homewrecker. I slept with him a few times since i have been married and everything i do i really like shit, but i can control the fact that i love him so much even though he can be an asshole. When i see him he is a different person and when i call him he is an asshole acting like he wants nothing to do with me and now i'm very confused with him. My husband cheated on my recently with someone he said they were just friends, apparently she came on to him and he slept with her the one time and came home and told me. So now i'm confused because i married a man who i thought would never cheat on me considering that we got married and he always said to me that he would never do that to me, mind you in the past we had major problems we went through hell and back, but the ex was always in the picture. His girlfriend found out that we were talking and started calling me and he acted like i was running him down. So now i can't talk to him because he is ignoring me and being as asshole. My husband and i are still having problems because of what he did recently. I'm loosing my mind here and i really need some help
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 October 2007): Thank you, i am trying very hard not to contact the ex and focus on my marriage and making it work because the last thing i want to is hurt my kids. My biggest problem is when i see the ex it's hard to walk way because is plays the sweet role.
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