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Should I stop contact with the ex with whom I remained best friends and hope that he misses me or wait it out? How can I get his feelings to rekindle?

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Question - (3 October 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 3 October 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

hello angels!

i broke up with a guy a few months back and we have remained close friends since then! I dont have feelings for him but i want to! I am very open about my feelings returning and he has said that he could see himself going out with me again! I think he is the loveliest guy i have ever met and i can do no better than him! How can i get his feelings to rekindle? What is the best method? should i stop contact with him and hope that he misses me or should i remain a close friend and wait it out? thank you for your time!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (3 October 2007):

I guess you'll just have to wait and see! You can't force him into a situation he doesn't want to be in.

Phil

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A reader, anonymous, writes (3 October 2007):

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i didnt make myself very clear sorry! He doesnt want to be with anyone at the moment! he said he could definitely see us together in the future but doesnt want a relationship at the moment! We are still close but his feelings for me are purely friendly at the moment! Ho w do get his feelings to rekindle in the future? thanks

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A reader, anonymous, writes (3 October 2007):

He's already said he could see himself going out with you again - isn't that a big enough clue for you?

Get in there girl, and ask him to get back together with you and stop mucking about!

Phil

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