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anonymous
writes:I have been going out for the last 10 months and I am quite fine with my girl. We are really commited and all, but the only thing that bother me is that she always tries to make me jealous all the time. I get really pissed. The more I ask her not to do it, the more she does it. Please help!
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reader, drastic knowledge  +, writes (4 October 2007):
 frist you have to set her down and talk to her about showing you disrespect but some say making a guy jealious just shows he cares but i do think you should talk to her about this its the only way to get to the bottom of something
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 October 2007): Talk to her and point out that this behaviour is not respectful and if she doesnt pack it in they you are off. Dont put up with being treat like this. You deserve better and should be made to feel like this. I have had that too in the past and it got me down, so i know how you feel.
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reader, Serinity +, writes (3 October 2007):
 Try your best to confine your jealousy. I know it's not easy, but your giving her exactly what she wants. She is minipulating you to get your attention and a reaction which (in her mind) confirms that you really do love her. It's not the best way in my opinion to get what she's looking for, but some people don't understand the concequences to this type of behavior. More than likely her actions are going to cause a trust issue down the road. How can you trust somebody who can't respect your wishes? It's a reasonable request on your part to ask her to stop. Try showing her in other ways that you do love her. Random notes here and there that simply say "I love you", maybe a small trinket here and there. I would suggest that you try to stop fueling her desire for attention by showing her jealousy or she will continue to do it. The next time she trys making you jealous, just laugh. Trust me, try it! It will bother her more that it will bother you and I guarantee you after a couple times of laughing it off and showing her in other ways that you love her, she will stop. If she doesn't then maybe you should step back and re-evaluate your relationship with this lady. Do you want to spend the rest of your life with someone who needs constant attention by pissing you off? I hope this helps, good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 October 2007): Sound to me like she just loves to wind you up. You have asked her to stop yet she does it more - this just shows how she is lacking respect for you and your feelings. You need to ask her again and tell her how serious you are. Be prepared to threaten to end it and have to follow through if she doesnt comply. You deserve to be happy.
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