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How can I nicely ask my girlfriend to shave her pubic hair?

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Question - (3 October 2007) 5 Answers - (Newest, 8 October 2007)
A male United States age 30-35, *ouse 90 writes:

How can I ask my girlfriend nicely to shave or trim her pubic hair?

How do I bring it up?

How do I say it so that she doesn't get mad?

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A female reader, red1982 United Kingdom +, writes (8 October 2007):

You could try suggesting that you do it for her. My husband always shaves me - but I insist that he is shaven nicely too. Remeber that no-one really likes hair down there so if you want her to do it you've got to be willing yourself.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (5 October 2007):

Rather than hurting her feelings, why not take a bath together, and make a game out of it! Tell her you want to know what it feels like "skin to skin", "bare down there..." etc. Get her to help shave you first, and then return the favour. That way its kinda kinky, and you'll turn her on rather than turn her mad.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (5 October 2007):

Let her stay happy with her body. If she wanted to do it, she would have trimmed or shaved it by now.

No matter how you say it, she's going to be hurt and embarrassed by your criticisms, maybe even disgusted (by you and by how you make her feel about herself).

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A female reader, drastic knowledge United States +, writes (4 October 2007):

drastic knowledge agony aunttell her you think it would be sexy if she did it a turn on for you and see what she says

just start the convertsation off with asking herwhat she likes and what turns her on then tell her that turns you on and ask her if she would do that for you

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (4 October 2007):

sorry dude, but you have no right to get your girlfriend to shave. It's her decision.

Hell man, at your age 16-17 you should be grateful you are even getting a look at down that region.

Dont be fussy.

p.s if you do say it, expect a long break before you get a chance to look at another girl's nether region. 'Cause sure as hell all her friends will know what a prick you are. Just a friendly warning.

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