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She wants our first time to be great and so do i...any tips??

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Question - (3 October 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 3 October 2007)
A male United States age 30-35, *noopy78724 writes:

Ok me and my girlfriend are wanting to make love and she wants it to be great i just want tips on what im going to go trough my first time what should i do since were both virgins, what to do and what not to do and some tips on pleasuring her just want advice from women but guys advice is cool to.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (3 October 2007):

Take her away for a weekend. Go to a really lovely place with a nice hotel and just relax and chill and dont expect too much. Just relax and enjoy.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (3 October 2007):

Hi, everyone wishes that their first time is special - yet most of us dont get it.

I would suggest, going slow, making it romantic and make it memorable.

Candles and music is always a good scene setter and perhaps a gift too.

The things you say can make all the difference but dont be corny.

The sex is nothing you need to worry about it, be sure that you have plenty of foreplay to make it easier for her first time and just go with the flow. Its both of your first times so she isnt going to know what to expect either, just make her feel special and please yourself while doing it. Have Fun!

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A female reader, Fairy_Lu United Kingdom +, writes (3 October 2007):

Fairy_Lu agony auntAs your both virgins you just have to make sure your really really ready and you have to relax, first times for girls can be painful because you usually have to break the hymen (like a bit ok skin inside her) so get her really turned on and lots of foreplay so she is relaxed and her body is ready some men use there fingers to break the hymen by fingering gently it makes the first time a little less painful, missionary is the best postion for first timeers, but take it slow and dont force yourself inside her you have to be gentle but most importantly have fun you only get a first time once, take it easy be gentle and most importantly use a condom!

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