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*ixiestik17
writes:Basically, I have been dating this guy for a month now. We have been friends for quite some time, but he had a girlfriend and I had a boyfriend. We got along really well and decided it would be a good idea to move in together, along with my best girl friend. Things have gone so well. I am not a relationship person at all, but he has been so affectionate and thoughtful. I really have been so happy. The other day, I saw his cell phone sitting on the counter and thought I'd just take a look through his texts. I found one saying the grossest things that he wanted to do to her. There was nothing vulgar that she sent back to him...she only said things like yea...ok... The other thing that irritates me is she is under the name "yeap". I am just really confused with what to do. It has only been a month and I don't want him to think I am crazy for going through his phone, but then again he shouldnt be saying that to girls. PLEASE HELP! thanks so much!
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reader, pixiestik17 +, writes (4 October 2007):
pixiestik17 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionJust to update it was on September 29 that he sent the text message...
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 October 2007): Gross. If the date of the text is recent, get out of it now.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 October 2007): It could have been there for ages. Forget it unless you find something else to worry about. You shouldn't be looking through his phone, that shows a lack of trust. He will wonder what you really think of him. Don't look for trouble.
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