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Has any of you ever had a threesome. I need tips and every detail!

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Question - (1 January 2010) 9 Answers - (Newest, 3 January 2010)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I think this is like the funniest question I've ever asked on here. Lol. But here goes...I really am interested in having a threesome. I spoke to my bf#2 about it lol and he said ok. So last nite, he brought it up again and was asking me how do I want it to go down. Neither one of us has ever had a threesome before so I told him I don't know how its goin down. Has any of y'all ever had a threesome?? How did it go down?? I need tips and I wanna know EVERY detail !!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2010):

Well, I will defend the anonymous poster who commented last that you take offense to. I think he/she is right on all counts sweetheart. Good luck to you and your boo.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2010):

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Lol at the person whu commented last...I'm GLAD you kept it anonymous...ya comment definetly was outta hand

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A reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2010):

You're 18 and you just want to try new things, LOL, and you don't want to settle down as you are still in school, and you want it to go down in your history book that you were stupid enough to have sex with a third person in the room. And you don't even have a clue what kind of threesome that you are interested in? Wow, you are really a deep thinker aren't you? Have you even thought past what you will have for lunch the next day?

There are two kinds of people in the world. Those who live a life of mediocrity, they go to sleep, get up take a dump, eat something, have sex, go to their "job" or classroom, play video games, watch a little porn, watch a little TV, go to sleep and start their mediocre life again another day going through their life just reacting and letting life happen to them, not making wise choices or even planning ahead or setting any sort of goals.

And then there are those people who live their core values, have a purpose in life and a passion for something outside of themselves (and this includes sex or taking a dump, or sex as a bodily function like taking a dump) and who have ambition. It is not a dirty word to be settled, to be grounded, to know what you stand for.

You choose a life of stupid mediocrity or a joyful life lived to your highest potential.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2010):

Eyeswideopen, you inserted the knife ever so carefully and then successively and exquisitely turned it. I lolled.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2010):

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Idk if I wanna try it with two girls nd a guy, or two guys and a girl. Shyt, it may have risks to it, but I'm 18, I'm young and I wanna have fun. I'm not too interested in settling down rite now, especially because I'm still in school. I just like trying new things. Lol, I think two girls would be more fun. I actually am having a hard time picturing it being me, my boo, and another dude? Smh

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (2 January 2010):

eyeswideopen agony aunttell you what, LOL this is certainly is something that will come back to burn you ,LOL. I fact, you will be amazed how this will affect your relationship, LOL. Wise up Chickie, LOLO

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2010):

Like all things sexual threesomes carry risks.

And so long as you are willing to accept that there may be certain negative outcomes, and all three parties are agreed on the terms of the engagement... than have fun.

But my advice, if you are using a threesome to spice up the sex life for you and your partner... hire an escort. NEVER. I repeat NEVER get a friend to take the third party. It will only end in tears for someone.

An escort is paid. Is there for the money. Has no emotional interest in either party. Plus they are trained in sexual arts and know very well how to make the threesome a good night. Just make sure she/he is from a reputable agency. Not some random you picked up on a street corner in the red-light district.

If all parties are single and this is just a bit of fun... have at it. You only live once.

Just be aware of any emotional repercussions, as in couplings a threesome can seem like fun but then it can be a double-edged sword as well.

Flynn 24

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (1 January 2010):

a threesome with two guys one girl or two girls one guy?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (1 January 2010):

Nothing funny about submitting yourself to degrading sexual acts. Are you into women? Do you want two men? If you have two boyfriends and they see you as a F bag, then all you have to do is ask and they will be right over with the goods.

Hope you can pick your self esteem up the morning after.

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