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writes:Okay so let me tell you a little bit about my situation..so thrs this guys that ive known for a while but we've decided to be FWB...so far its been great no strings attatched rite?!...well im starting to catch feelings for him..and i know he is too but we jus dont admit it to each other....except when we are drunk....the next day we don't talk about it like we never said any thing. Now there is somehing else he wants me off my birth control because he wants to have a kid..uhhh isnt he missn a big step (like making it official)..i trust him and i know he isnt seeing anyone else..we're practically a couple its just not official yet..so my question is why is it so hard for us to talk about making it official?!
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (18 December 2009):
 Did you write this to us yesterday?
"I've been seeing this guy for quite a while now and have been friends with benefits with no emotional attatchments involved...but why is it that when either he or i are drunk we spill out our real emotions? Meaning that we both like each other a lot...we just don't do it sober what should i do?"
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reader, Favary +, writes (18 December 2009):
I think you definetely need to stay on birth control. Guys who are not willing to commit, usually want to have their cake and eat it to. They want to be free without any comitments. If i were you I would honestly stop doing what your doing with him until he decides to make a commitment,
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (18 December 2009):
 My suggestion would be for you to stay on birth control until you and he have been married at least a year, selected a nursery room in your new house, painted the walls either blue or pink and put up a white picket fence.
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