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writes:I am a 33 year old woman and my husband has recently ran into an old classmate at our girls softball game. He has been exchanging emails and calling each other everyday. My question is where do I draw the line. He insists they are. Only friends and 15 years ago they had a one night stand. She texts him all day long and constantly complains about her husband and how he does not pay attention to her. She also just recently asked for 300 dollars to pay for her daughters birthday party. He does not hide her from me and we have even visited her home before. I just feel like she is up to no good. I don't want to say he cannot be friends with her but I feel like this may a little extreme for a friendship. I feel like I'm sharing my husband.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 August 2010): She's making a play for your man. Ask him to stop contact with her all together. x
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 August 2010): They haven't seen eachother in years and all of a sudden they seem like best buddies...this is not right. You have every right to speak up about how uncomfortable its making you. The fact hes not keeping her a secret is a good signbut it doesnt mean that this other woman is looking for more then freidnship from your husband. I would tell him to put an end to it. And really 300$? Shes obviously a user.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (12 August 2010):
 I'd nip this in the bud immediately. $300 bucks for a birthday party, sheesh. She's out of line, and HE needs to tell her to back off. This is no friendship.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 August 2010): I agree with you completely - she is up to no good. Her texting your husband and complaining about here husband is out of line. Tell your husband that you can no longer accept this intense communication between him and another woman. Ask him how he would feel if you would behave the same with another man. He probably would NOT like that.
Best of luck.
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