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*breez5
writes:When my boyfriend says he'll call me this time and once when it gets close to the time he either says give me 5min and once when his 5min r up he says he's not going to call it happens often I get mad and fusterated at him for doing that. Do u think I'm over reacting? Reply to this Question
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reader, dirtball +, writes (19 August 2010):
 He's going to college huh, and can't call you back... Good luck. I know you didn't ask, but I'll offer this nugget. Your relationship will likely end in the next year. I'm not saying this to be mean, but if it's already under this much stress, I don't see it surviving college. Either he'll cheat, or you'll spend so much time wondering if he's cheating it will drive you apart. Couple that with the fact that he already doesn't return calls... You might want to consider saving yourself a lot of undue pain.
Seeing eachother once a month isn't a relationship, it's a dream.
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reader, Zbreez5 +, writes (19 August 2010):
Zbreez5 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI know it's also long distant relationship so it's hard. We only see each other once a month for now it's just hard cuz when he calls it feels like it's the closests we can get to each other and once when September comes it's deff going to be long distant relationship cuz he's going back to college and stuff so we won't really get to see each other
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reader, dirtball +, writes (18 August 2010):
It's not good to say you'll do something and then not follow through. HOWEVER, you are overreacting. Eyes hit the nail on the head. Guys don't like needy control freaks.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (18 August 2010):
 Yep I think you are over-reacting. You need to chill out. Guys your age can be very flaky. Just don't be waiting around for him to call, miss a few of them. Guys really don't like needy control freaks.
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