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writes:Im a 20 year old guy who has kind of a wierd problem or dilema. The problem is that I have an above average size penis(8 inches long and almost 6 inches around(its true, Im not kidding)) and I just have no place to put it in my pants. Sometimes depending on what I have on, it looks like I have a boner all day long. This can be very embarrassing. Do women like to see this?(or is it just gross). Also Do women consider this a big size? or is it average? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 September 2010): Thanks for the responses everyone. But heres another question. Ive never bought condoms before, what size should I buy?
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reader, Miss Murray  +, writes (28 August 2010):
 Dear Writer,
Stop worrying so much! If anything, women will be more than happy with your size. However, if a woman is in love with you, she will accept you for who and what you are. Size doesn't matter to most women, so stop worrying about that. Now, when it comes to putting it away, i sugguest you masterbate atleate 3 times a week to keep the blood flow at low point. This will prevent recurring erections. Wear resonably tight boxers that suit your comfort needs.
I hope this helps,
Miss Murray xx
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reader, James the Rocket  +, writes (28 August 2010):
You don't need to trawl for women by advertising you have a big willy. Please stop wasting our time with insincere questions.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (27 August 2010):
 At least you can wear your socks on your feet.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 August 2010): You can hide it better and keep it down better with boxer briefs...like Jockey pouch underwear. I dont know about you, but boxers let my (ahem) stuff move around too much and I can get a spontaneous boner from it. Loose fitting pants also help. If it tends to hang down, good. If it tends to go to the side, it will be more obvious in your pants. I'm not as big as you in length, but I know what you are dealing with to an extent.Cant say if women notice it or not. I have noticed some women who glance at the crotch area when I wear jeans or snug pants. Have no idea whether they like it or not. I love their attention, but I'm not focused on how my junk looks to women. Probably because I am not huge and I am not narcissistic.As for size...yeah, you're big (above average). Average length is about 6 inches, a typical average range is 5-7. 8 is big, 9 is huge, 10-12 is monstrous. I would say for most women, 8-9" is the typical maximum most women see in a lifetime, and 6-7 is probably the all around "best" size (I know many women may disagree). I know there are bigger, but they are exceedingly rare. In fact, anything over 7" is rare. 6" girth is huge if you are more in the average length range. But for an 8 incher, it is more normal.Be happy with what you have. Most guys would kill for those dimensions...even if some women would have a hard time with your size, and I think many would.
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reader, Gabrielle Stoker +, writes (26 August 2010):
 Now you've got us wondering, Queue.
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (26 August 2010):
 I'll tell you something funny about this. Men are more likely to check out your 'package' than women. Yep, men, being the visually-driven creatures that they are, men are the ones who are going to be looking at your crotch. Women tend to look at your face, not your crotch.
Here's a link discussing visual tracking. Toward the bottom, there's a picture of George Brett, a baseball player, at bat. The researchers noted a huge difference in the visual tracking of men vs. women. Check it out, it'll demonstrate my point, but essentially, the men looked at both the face and the crotch, the women looked only at the face.
http://www.ojr.org/ojr/stories/070312ruel/
So to answer your question, it's likely that women won't notice. Men will, however. I think the idea of tight undies, loose trousers is the best option to minimize bulge.
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reader, Yos  +, writes (26 August 2010):
 Gabrielle!! Funny :)
As for the problem: get fairly tight underwear and baggy trousers.
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reader, Beingblack +, writes (26 August 2010):
 I was also a little self conscious in my youth, especially when mega tight, stretch jeans were the fashion.
It is something that in time you will get used to, and become completely unaware of, until others bring it to your attention.
These days I wear a lot of baggy sportswear, but sometimes even that doesnt do the trick. I coach sports, and the 12-15 year old male age groups are usually the ones who giggle the most and make puerile remarks.
I am not a fan of people who like to measure themselves, I will say that if it works, its all good, no matter how big or small.
If you seriously want to hide your penis, then wear tight boxers that come down your thighs (trunks) and tuck it underneath your nuts. Sounds drastic to me.
Personally I like the freedom to swing, and anyway, women hardly ever notice. If they do, all the better.
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reader, Gabrielle Stoker +, writes (26 August 2010):
I'm sorely tempted to say "I can think of several places to put it that are not in your pants" :) Must be lovely to get one's hands around.
Anyway, the trick is to wear boxers and loose-fitting clothes. Surely it's not THAT difficult, I mean I've met guys who were as large or more who did manage not to look perpetually erect.
Like,I think, most women, I do not instantly look at a man's crotch, but I admit if I did I'd probably be flattered, offended or worried depending on the context.
It's definitely a big size,width especially, but doesn't sounds like so much that I'd be running in the opposite direction. As YouWish says though, KEEP IT CLEAN.
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reader, Alittlebroken +, writes (26 August 2010):
 I would say that that is quite large- but it's a good large, not too large. I had a boyfriend who's penis reached nearly his knee when non- erect- now that's too large- I didn't want to go near it! Women don't usually stare at men's crotches so I wouldn't accentuate it, it would freak them out or make them think you are putting it out there- they might see you as a pervert. I would say an average size penis is about 6 inches long and 4 inches around, so you're lucky! I would be very happy with this as this seems like an ideal size.
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reader, YouWish +, writes (26 August 2010):
 Heh, why do I keep imagining that quote from Juno when I read this: "All I see are pork swords".
We women notice 4 things:
Unusually large (the kind of large that makes us wonder if it would knock against our uvula during sex),
Unusually small (AAA battery, Tootsie roll, roll of dimes)
Weird shaped (curved, really veiny, goofy bumps, weird color)
HYGEINE (Please PLEASE bathe regularly!!!)
In your case, if yours is big enough to make you self-conscious, may I recommend not wearing Speedos or bikini briefs. Also, thin pants and tight shorts would accentuate your "package".
Use thicker material, possibly boxers or loose briefs, generally things with room would work best for you. If you can find a good comfortable roomy pair of jeans, denim would be your friend.
Other than that, good luck. I can only speak for myself - I'm not one to stare at men's clothed crotches. A beautiful pair of eyes and a killer smile would catch my eye first.
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reader, GettingHelp  +, writes (26 August 2010):
I wouldn't know where to suggest you put it.
But it is indeed big. You're among roughly only 2% of the world's males that are bigger than 7inches.
I love when my boyfriend gets a boner from me, but admittedly seeing random guys walking around with what looks like a boner would freak me out. Not gross though...
The only thing I would be able to suggest it to wear loose boxers and loose pants and kind of put it next to one of your legs, but being a female I know little about this.
I wish you much luck.
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reader, Jesc +, writes (26 August 2010):
 Well uhmm.
The title deff put a smile on my face.
You should wear a bit bigger jeans. Like one size over what you do. It should help.Now the women that I can think of who see your size and go after you are not women, but sluts.
It's a good thing to be well endowed, but covering it up might be better :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 August 2010): women love seeing the bulge believe me. and some women love to get their hands to it. you are very lucky.
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