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Is he moaning about her or just having a general conversation?

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Question - (26 January 2011) 5 Answers - (Newest, 27 January 2011)
A female , anonymous writes:

Female aged 40

A guy I know only because he drops my son home every day from school has made these comments about his 'wife'.

That she always double checks everything before they go out for the evening including switching off the cooker (I think it annoys him).

That she is overprotective with her son (its his stepson) and always checks on him in the night and puts the duvet back on him and he is a teenager (I think it drives him mad).

Mentioned her age the other day talking about women and their periods and said that after these years she should be be able to deal with them (this was after talking about flu).

Spoke about childbirth (I think trying to wind me up) as I said men would be hopeless at giving birth and he said 'no he would just like there and look at the time' making it look easy.

He then said that when she has a headache she goes to lie down and wants him to lie with her and he tells her ' no I am watching the tv'.

So is this man complaining about his 'wife' or just make general conversation because surely if he has a problem he should be telling his friends and not the mother of the child he drops off each day. He always has some comment to make if I try and make a jokey comment at him about being late (he is a good driver for my son) or that his car keeps breaking down and if he sees me he will hoot his horn at me (I think to annoy me even though I have asked him to stop doing it).

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (27 January 2011):

At this moment it doesnt say anything. He`s also married so think no more about it. Do you have friends? Why not join up to night school or something that gives you an interest and you can mix with people more? He may just be taklking to you the same way he does to everyone. Who knows?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (26 January 2011):

He may see you as a friend and that s why he tells you. Something tells me you are ready for setting yourself up for something what is gonna end abruptly and may cause you embarrassment. Someone asks you are you bored? Your life sounds very uneventful going off what you are saying. Why is this occupying your mind so much? I believe you need to fix everything else. Are you actually single?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (26 January 2011):

Dunno,u could ask him dat as a starter for conversation. Tell him ur bored now about talkin about the wife an change the direction of conversation. Perhaps you could start off by asking does he like the spice girls? If he tells u no but his wife does,then u may be getting it wrong,if he says he doesnt like them but he likes motorhead,buy the cd so you can listen an brew up. keep that boring subject out,whether its conversation or moaning.He must be sounding like them self check outs in asda. Perhaps he`s got nothing else to talk about and is bored. Does he still make love to his wife or has he not moaned about it yet? Keep us informed.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (26 January 2011):

Are you suffering from extreme boredom in your everyday life? I wouldnt get too carried away if I was you,he has a wife whether its general conversation or moaning. If you mean does he fancy you,then if he`s talking about his wife,he either doesnt look at you in that way or thinks he`s got you halfway upstairs already. Okay,what colour is his car? What are his hobbies? What football team does he support?

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (26 January 2011):

eyeswideopen agony auntSounds like a friendly guy who likes to talk. What's the problem?

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