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writes:Hello!My on line crush says that he likes romance, and to show him that I care about him...My question is how can I be romantic with him? And how can I show him that I care and like him? I already said that to him, but how can I prove it, so he believes me? We haven't met yet, so we are only chatting.Thanks!
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (27 January 2011):
 Is this his code for asking you to do things on webcam? Or to send him money or gifts? How did you two meet, and if he's so into romance, what is he doing to be romantic for you?
Write him a lovely poem, put it in the mail and send it to him. Draw him a bouquet of flowers or a self-portrait of yourself. If you can sing, make a CD of yourself singing love songs.
Could you tell us more about him, like how old he is and where he lives? And maybe a bit about yourself, so we can understand the situation better?
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (27 January 2011):
 Has he given you any ideas of what he enjoys? If he can't think up anything then he's putting you in a hard position. Being romantic should also be done on impulse and because you want it, not just because the other is asking for it. But wanting to make your partner happy is romantic enough I think..? Guess that depends on who he is as a person.
Being far away doesn't mean you can't be romantic though. What would you do if you met in person, how would you be romantic then? Translate those things into the virtual world. If you'd send little notes with his lunch, write him a cute e-mail note instead. If you'd show up in high heels and cook him dinner, show up in high heels on webcam or send him a pic of your legs and heels on. And then there's 3D-chats where you can have a virtual romantic dinner, if you're both into that stuff. Or send him things in the mail so he gets something physical from you, a handwritten letter for example is romantic.
There's tons of things you can do. But ask him what he enjoys and was thinking about, and then do what you feel comfortable with. Pushing yourself to do thing you feel uncomfortable or weird about would only be.. weird.
I know tons of people place a zillion hearts on each others facebook, I guess that's something to do as well. Alternatively you could e-mail him a little heart instead. Just to be cute.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (27 January 2011):
 Is there a reason why you guys haven't met face to face yet?
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reader, auntieloulou  +, writes (27 January 2011):
 Theres not a lot you can do online to be romantic. If he is just a crush, tell him how you feel about him. send or write him a poem or a song. why not meet up with him? remember if you do meet up with him to be careful, go with someone else and meet in a public place. take him a present (a CD he likes maybe). romance mainly happens when your actually together so take the first step and ask him out. good luck!
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