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reader, Fedupmom  +, writes (19 November 2012):
Fedupmom is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks to all who responded. Just checking to see that I'm not a freak for wanting sex more often. Not sure about the rest of you but for me sex is more than just getting off you know? It's a way for me to connect with my man, a demonstration of our love. Something special that only we do together. I've never looked at it any other way. I never saw it as "another thing to do". That's just negative. For those like me not getting enough I wish you luck.
Thanks again.
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reader, SFaist +, writes (17 November 2012):
 All the time :)
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reader, Serpico +, writes (16 November 2012):
Me an my fiancee have sex 6-8 times per week.She is Colombian, so there is a taboo with her directly initiating too aggressively, but she always lets me know one way or another that she wants it, which is at least half of the time. In five years, she has never said "no." Not once.I am 44. She is 36. We have been together five years, and are marrying this June.Honestly, at 44, I want it just about as much as when I was 24. Life is good!
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 November 2012): Married 3 times aged 50. Not remotely interested in sex- feel I have to give in once or twice a year but never iniate it
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reader, AuntyEm  +, writes (16 November 2012):
 I am 47 and I am celibate.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 November 2012): Age 47 Married 12 years
I would like sex just about every day.
He initiates 75%, I initiate 25%
And, we have sex, just about every day! And we are dealing with ED, but we make it work :-)
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2012): I'm out of the bracket but I thought I'd add mine.
I'm 33 so is he
Been Together for 4 years engaged to be married.
I insinuate 50% as does he
We have sex maybe 2x a week if we are lucky. Some weeks there is none but we have a strong stable relationship
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (15 November 2012):
 Dang it, I'm too old for your survey. However I do qualify for the 10% off senior discount at my favorite store every Wednesday....
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2012): I'm 45 divorced dating almost 2 yrsWould like sex =sometimes all day long, but realistically almost everyday.initiation= me 30% him 70%realistically only have it once or twice a week due to not seeing each other everyday lol
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2012): I'll answer for my wife:
Age 55 married 15 years. She's not interested in sex and never initiates it. My guess is that she'd prefer not to be bothered with it anymore.
On the once or twice a year plan right now.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2012): Im only 33 and he's 39 we've been married 10 years.
I would like sex every day more than once if I could have it too
I initiate about 55% him 45%
We probably have at least 5 times a week or more but I still always want it. Im kind of insatiable but it's my favorite thing to do lol.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (15 November 2012):
 I'm 52 married this time... 6 weeks.
how often would I like it? probably every other day would work for me.
I initiate: pretty much 99% of the time and get shut down
He initiates 1% and gets shut down...
we are NOT having sex.
He gets blow jobs when he lets me...
I love my shower massage.
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