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She had anal sex with him, but won't with me!

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Question - (2 November 2006) 6 Answers - (Newest, 3 November 2006)
A male United Kingdom, anonymous writes:

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my girlfriend had anal sex before i was with her she said it hurt so much never again but now i'm kinding of thinking well if she tried it with him why not with me am i being mean to think that?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (3 November 2006):

Good Lord. What is your problem, dear? Sex with the gf, is not just about ALL you! You are not only being mean, you are being very selfish and very, very disrespectful to her. She told you...NO, anal sex hurt her! Grow up and get your hurt ego in check and realize this type of pettiness has no part in a relationship with a loved one. Or do you love her? Doesn't sound like it to me.

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A female reader, corie +, writes (2 November 2006):

That doesn't mean she loved him more. Would you really want her to go through pain just because she did it with some other guy and you feel jealous? I can understand you feel like she isn't willing to do more with you, but I it's not like that, she just didn't enjoy the experience. Don't ask her to do something she said NEVER AGAIN to.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (2 November 2006):

well you kind of answered the question yourself there mate! you said your girlfriend tried it and said NEVER AGAIN! so why are you asking her to do it again?!!!

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A female reader, steemo United Kingdom +, writes (2 November 2006):

steemo agony auntsay you went to a resterant and had something you really hated you wouldnt order it again would you well same for your girlfriend she tryed it and hate it so dont push her just enjoy her after all you got one enterance be happy with that

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A female reader, Lemonpixie United States +, writes (2 November 2006):

Lemonpixie agony auntOk I tried anal with my first serious relationship... and i will NEVER do it again... it's not because she loves him more or found him more attractive, it just hurt like hell! Would you willingly hurt yourself again? I suggest trying out anal sex on yourself with a dildo if your so persistent I guarentee you you'll experience a lot of pain. At least men have a gspot back there us women get no satisfaction from that region. And we have a smaller poop chute so it exrta uncomfortable. Seriously guy think about it!

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (2 November 2006):

eyeswideopen agony auntIf it hurt why would you want her to go through it again? If she said never again then I guess no means no.

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