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writes:I have only been with my girlfriend for 10 months... and we are young. I have never met someone like her... as I am not your ordinary run-of-the-mill person.... in otherwords, I'm a little quirky. I've had my past relationships... but this one is different... I cant keep thinking about how much I want to be with her for good. Am I too young to be thinking about marrying this woman someday? Reply to this Question
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (13 April 2007):
 No, you are not too young to know that she is the one for you. Sometimes, you just know. I met my husband of thirty years when I was 17. I told my best friends that he was the guy I was going to marry. We got engaged at six months, which let our parents know we were serious. We were engaged for 4 years, until we finished University and were working before we tied the knot. People marry a bit later these days, but I think you are probably in the best position to judge if she is the right girl for you! Best of Luck with Everthing!
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reader, maria14r +, writes (12 April 2007):
nope your never too young to think about marriage but what you should do is give this relationship a little more time to be able to think about marriage. you still need to learn more about her and her family.
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reader, Choconuts  +, writes (12 April 2007):
 They say you just know when you meet the right person.Maybe this is the one.Its also been said that the person you are with is the right one at that moment,who knows how long things will last ? Just enjoy your moments as they unfold.
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reader, beanie0216 +, writes (12 April 2007):
 NOT AT ALL. Im 19 and my boyfriend and I have been talking about marriage since we were 14. Imagine that. It's really not that simple but I won't get into it. Now that we're together for a year, we always talk about our future, even having kids together. I'm nottoo sure if any of this is going to work out, but if you really think you love her, and you want a future with her, then you think it. You can't help yourself thinking it. You're not too young!
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (12 April 2007):
 What's the rush? Thinking about marriage is just fine but don't hurry into it. Just relax and enjoy each other, there is plenty of time.
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reader, PoSiOnKiSS +, writes (12 April 2007):
 your never too young to do anything, you only get one crack at life so i say take it head on, but as long as your confident and know what your doing. marriage is a big step in life and its not something you do when ur unsure. if you truly want to be with her for good and she feels the same way about you then i say go for it.
hope this helps and good luck :)
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reader, deejuliet +, writes (12 April 2007):
 No, you are not too young. As long as you keep it to someday, not soon and not now. You are not too young to think about it, just too young to do it. If she is really that wonderful and the two of you are meant to be, waiting a few years will only strengthen your relationship, not harm it in any way. Get an education, get a job, and THEN you can get married. Give this relationship a chance to develope and grow into real love. I know you feel you love her now, but it is still new. I am not saying that your feelings arent very real, just that they may not last. Right now you are infatuated. Hopefully, with time, it will deepen into everlasting love.
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reader, penta +, writes (12 April 2007):
 Depends on the "someday" -- you're not too young to be thinking about it. You are probably too young to pop the question however. Enjoy this time and don't be in a hurry to take it to the next step. You'll know if it's right, when you're in a position to make a longer commitment.
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