My boss and I are VERY attracted to one another, but he's married!
Q. i met a guy a year ago, we clicked instantly, then i found out he was part owner of were i worked and was kinda my manager as well, i had no idea at the time, and had made a pass at him ...he responded , but not a full on response. because of his...
A. 8 July 2008: So he is not living in the same house with his wife?... (read in full...)
How do I tell my boyfriend I love him?
Q. i am going out with this amazing guy from australia and i'm from minnesota hes 18 and i'm soon to be 17 on july 19th and all he does is make me happy! he tells me he loves to see my smile in pictures cause i'm gorgeous and i've never had a boyfriend ...
A. 8 July 2008: So you have to sit in front of a screen to "date". How fun is that? Boy that sure isn't my idea of a perfect boyfriend. I'd make sure I hang out with my friends and have some real experiences and make some great memories in between the sitting in ... (read in full...)
How do I tell my boyfriend I love him?
Q. i am going out with this amazing guy from australia and i'm from minnesota hes 18 and i'm soon to be 17 on july 19th and all he does is make me happy! he tells me he loves to see my smile in pictures cause i'm gorgeous and i've never had a boyfriend ...
A. 8 July 2008: Umm a quick question, how exactly are you going out with a boyfriend who lives half an earth away from you?... (read in full...)
We have a wonderful relationship, and I love him, but he's married!
Q. Hi, I am 32 and totally in love with a 50 year old unhappily married man. We fell in love completely by mistake and I would have prevented it, but it just happened without my realizing and then I tried to deny it for a long time. I have been sep...
A. 8 July 2008: I don't understand why you are dying inside. He's leaving his wife and she looking for a new job and a place to live. So it's just a matter of time and logistics, right? Or is he just giving you a load of bull crap and you know it?... (read in full...)
Do I let my bf suck my breasts??
Q. my boyfriend wants to suck my breasts.do advice me.he is after my breasts....
A. 8 July 2008: yawn......... (read in full...)
Should I put the baby my last name or his?
Q. well im in love with this guy who lives in a different state and he loves me we started going back out yesterday and hes coming to see me in two weeks hes gonna get me pregnant so i can have his baby when he is in iraq but i dont know if i put his ...
A. 8 July 2008: Congrats to the Aunt's. "and i wouldnt want to bring a baby into this life with all you stuck up witches anyway" our work here is finished! ... (read in full...)
I Won't Give Up on an Older Guy, Even Though He's Engaged
Q. the man i love recently (as in a few days back) got engaged to his girlfriend of about 3 years. i can't explain it how intensely i feel this, but i KNOW we are meant to be together. i feel it strongly enough to CONFIDENTLY say that we are MEANT to...
A. 8 July 2008: You want advice on what you can REALISTICALLY do about his engagement? There is nothing. So I suggest you stay busy and try to focus on something else. Your relationship is totally one sided and will amount to nothing but a waste of your time.... (read in full...)
How can I persuade my friends to accept my relationship with my former teacher?
Q. Ok, so I have just finished school (I mean A levels - I'm 18), and I have got into a sexual relationship with my ex teacher since finishing school (we were really friendly for years whilst I was at school). He's 36, and a really great guy. I get...
A. 3 July 2008: Then you have to accept THEM even if they don't accept YOU. Maybe they'll come around to your way of looking at things, maybe they won't but you sure as heck can't force the issue.... (read in full...)
Is my married lover trying to control me?
Q. Hi everyone,now before I start I know that I have done a terrible thing so please don't give me any grief!I just want to know what you think,ok im 23 and I have been seeing a married man who's 49 for 2 and a half years now,we were and are best ...
A. 3 July 2008: I'm afraid some thing's are black and white for instance, married or not married.... (read in full...)
Is my married lover trying to control me?
Q. Hi everyone,now before I start I know that I have done a terrible thing so please don't give me any grief!I just want to know what you think,ok im 23 and I have been seeing a married man who's 49 for 2 and a half years now,we were and are best ...
A. 3 July 2008: Wowie, such a nasty PM from you, must have hit a nerve!... (read in full...)
Is my married lover trying to control me?
Q. Hi everyone,now before I start I know that I have done a terrible thing so please don't give me any grief!I just want to know what you think,ok im 23 and I have been seeing a married man who's 49 for 2 and a half years now,we were and are best ...
A. 3 July 2008: I assume that since you don't mention it, you don't give a rat's ass about his poor wife and what all this might be doing to her. Who care's about how YOU'RE getting treated, what about his wife?... (read in full...)
Why would a guy have sex with a girl and not want her to be his girlfriend?
Q. If a guy doesn't want a girl to be his girlfriend but still wants to have sex with her, does that mean that shes ugly or doesnt have a good personality?...
A. 3 July 2008: Wham bam thank you ma'am... (read in full...)
How can I persuade my friends to accept my relationship with my former teacher?
Q. Ok, so I have just finished school (I mean A levels - I'm 18), and I have got into a sexual relationship with my ex teacher since finishing school (we were really friendly for years whilst I was at school). He's 36, and a really great guy. I get...
A. 3 July 2008: It would be nice to have world peace. Accept your friends as they are or get new ones.... (read in full...)
How can I persuade my friends to accept my relationship with my former teacher?
Q. Ok, so I have just finished school (I mean A levels - I'm 18), and I have got into a sexual relationship with my ex teacher since finishing school (we were really friendly for years whilst I was at school). He's 36, and a really great guy. I get...
A. 2 July 2008: It probably won't matter whether your friends like him or not because most 36 year olds don't want to hang out with 18 year olds. You'll most likely not be seeing as much of them in the future. I just hope his older friends don't bore you too much.... (read in full...)
His fantasy is to have a threesome. So should I tell him my fantasy of having sex with his brother?
Q. My husband has shared his fantasies with me. He'd love to see me with another woman (I'm straight), he'd love us to be in a threesome with another woman, and a couple of other things. He wants to know my fantasies, but I just can't bring myself to ...
A. 2 July 2008: I guess it doesn't matter anyway because 99% sure she is yanking our chains. ... (read in full...)
His fantasy is to have a threesome. So should I tell him my fantasy of having sex with his brother?
Q. My husband has shared his fantasies with me. He'd love to see me with another woman (I'm straight), he'd love us to be in a threesome with another woman, and a couple of other things. He wants to know my fantasies, but I just can't bring myself to ...
A. 2 July 2008: There's another question posted today about sex with a brother-in-law. Coincidence....hummmmm?... (read in full...)
My ex went back to his ex when she pretended she was pregnant. Should I contact him now?
Q. Should I contact my ex after 4 months? We only dated for two months but we had a really good relationship, with so much chemisty and both wanted the same things in life. However, his ex (whom he has children with) pretended to be pregnant (when she ...
A. 2 July 2008: Do not contact him. I'm sure he's sorry about how things ended but that's the key word, ended.... (read in full...)
I'm attracted to my husband's younger brother and had sex with him. Why is this so wrong?
Q. I'm a married woman in my 20s, I really love my husband. He's in his 20s also. We have a great sex life. Even so, I've been attracted to his younger brother (also in his 20s) since before we got married. Recently, his brother and I got a little ...
A. 2 July 2008: Oh yes and please, please come back and tell us exactly what your husband said when you told him you screwed his brother. ... (read in full...)
What should I do at the party Friday night, as I want my ex boyfriend back!
Q. What should i do? People whohave been following my relationship dilemma from previous posts know what i am refering to. I broke up with my bf a month ago and been very confused by signals hes giving me. loves me but cant have a gf etc etc. well.....
A. 2 July 2008: Jealousy is a bad, nasty emotion so don't ever TRY to bring it out of someone. I suggest you just go to the party without any plans in mind except to have a good time. Life is full of surprises.... (read in full...)
Is eating large amounts of dried fruit bad??
Q. I love eating dried fruit in between meals and for snacking on and i realised yesterday how fattening it is because of the suagar-sugar on the dry papaya and apricots etc....Im gutted-all the dry fruit seems to contain the same calories and fat!!! I...
A. 2 July 2008: I broke a tooth once on dried fruit so I think eating ANY dried fruit is bad.... (read in full...)
How much should I spend on my girlfriend's birthday present?
Q. Hi, I need advice about how much money I should be spending on my girlfriend's birthday present considering we've only been going out a few months. For her birthday she suggested that I could take her on a weekend break to Center Parcs, a...
A. 2 July 2008: I'm with the others, her suggestion was a tad presumptuous. A thoughtful gift is all that is required here. How she reacts to it will be a very good gauge of her character.... (read in full...)
Anyone have any idea how we can arrange an underage marriage?
Q. Ok so I am under 18 and I have this boyfriend who is 38. He and I want to get married but I know my parents won't allow it. No body even knows about him. So my question is, what can I do to be with him? Legally I mean. We have been ...
A. 2 July 2008: Nothing you do with guy is going to be legal. Just being in a love relationship with him is illegal let alone any kind of marriage. And that's as it should be and that's why these laws were created. You will be found out eventually and it isn't ... (read in full...)
I'm afraid that my boyfriend will life the life of travelling too much and not come back to me...how can I get these negative thoughts out of my head??
Q. Hi, My boyfriend has gone away working to the other side of the world for a couple of months. I'm in my second week now and I am feeling so lonely. We've been together for 3 years and I am afraid he will like the life of travelling and not come ...
A. 2 July 2008: Don't go borrowing trouble. Most people can't afford to just travel to their heart's content. He'll probably return to you in a couple of months with lots of wonderful stories to tell. Relax don't sweat the unknown, instead get out and do stuff you ... (read in full...)
He says he can't be in a relationship with me but he wants to still be intimate?
Q. Recently i met this guy and began talking to him. we bacame very close in a short space of time. For the first couple of months we were talking every day over the phone for hours upon hours. We then met up a few times and it was great and he then ...
A. 2 July 2008: Oh I'm sure he's interested because you are willing to be with him and his ex is not. However he still wants his ex so he's just taking advantage of your interest.... (read in full...)
When will he propose properly??
Q. I have been in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend for 4 years now and we see eachother every few months.We are very much in love and he we have spoken about marriage and children etc..He has even asked me to marry him via text and email ...
A. 2 July 2008: Why are you apart? 4 years..yikes!... (read in full...)
How do we start having sex
Q. Hi, I feel that my girlfriend and I may be getting newr to the point of having sex. However not having had sex before I am unsure of what best to do leading up to it. I'm almost certian that we both want sex it's j ust neither of us have the conf...
A. 2 July 2008: First tell us how old are you?... (read in full...)
I love her but I don't think I'm in love with her. Any advice would be appreciated.
Q. Hi. Im currently in a relationship with a girl who I started living with about 2 months after we started going out. Its now 6 months into it and although I do love her I dont think im in love with her. Were from different backgrounds and ...
A. 2 July 2008: Tell her straight up how you feel, if you don't you are being unkind. Relationships don't always work out and you rather rushed into this one now didn't you? Just be upfront and honest with her. Cruel to be kind scenario. Good luck Buddy.... (read in full...)
He says he can't be in a relationship with me but he wants to still be intimate?
Q. Recently i met this guy and began talking to him. we bacame very close in a short space of time. For the first couple of months we were talking every day over the phone for hours upon hours. We then met up a few times and it was great and he then ...
A. 2 July 2008: You can bet the farm that he figures he'll eventually get "the full deal" from you. I'd tell him to look you up when he's over his ex, no need for you to play second fiddle.... (read in full...)
My husband kissed a girl who stays with us. I need some advice what best to do.
Q. Am married for 5years,am having a son of 4years and and within a month am expect our second child.my husband has been always faithful to me.he shares with me everything and it hard for us two to keep secret for each other.In our house we have a girl ...
A. 2 July 2008: Definitely pack her bags and don't invite her back. She has shown you the epitome of disrespect. Your husband as well. Tell him in no uncertain terms that if he pulls this stunt again, you'll be packing HIS bags.... (read in full...)
My step-father and I are masturbating together everynow and then...is this ok?
Q. HI I am a 15 year old boy My stepfather and i are masterbating together every now and then I was just wandering if it is ok??...
A. 2 July 2008: Well you can quit your "wandering" about this...the aunts have spoken.... (read in full...)
My boss and I are VERY attracted to one another, but he's married!
Q. i met a guy a year ago, we clicked instantly, then i found out he was part owner of were i worked and was kinda my manager as well, i had no idea at the time, and had made a pass at him ...he responded , but not a full on response. because of his...
A. 1 July 2008: Do the right thing, leave him alone until he gets his divorce. And at work don't allow yourself to be alone with him. Really you should try to get another job. Something makes me think that you are really just enjoying all this and it's not the ... (read in full...)
SITE NEWS: Over 600,000 visitors last month!
Q. Just a quickie We broke the 600,000 unique users/month (i.e. people!) last month. According to google analytics we had 638,310 visitors from June 1st to June 30th. Doesn't seem that long ago we passed the half a million mark. Thanks to all t...
A. 1 July 2008: Yeah well it might have been the directions you gave us, that is unless you really DO live on Ellesmere Island, cause that's where we ended up. Damn cold up there by the way. But hey next year we can try again, we'll probably be celebrating at least ... (read in full...)
SITE NEWS: Over 600,000 visitors last month!
Q. Just a quickie We broke the 600,000 unique users/month (i.e. people!) last month. According to google analytics we had 638,310 visitors from June 1st to June 30th. Doesn't seem that long ago we passed the half a million mark. Thanks to all t...
A. 1 July 2008: And to truely show her appreciation, Irish is inviting every single last one of us over to her backyard for a spectacular BBQ. Aren't you Irish?! ... (read in full...)
What sort of behavior is my boyfriend displaying?
Q. My B\F does the following * Criticizes the mess i make in bathroom before i have chance to clean up * Criticizes how I prepare food, wash up, dry etc * Gets irritated if i leave a cup on table without coaster * complains if i get crumbs on th...
A. 1 July 2008: Hey Sneaks, no need to translate, everybody over here has seen Braveheart.... (read in full...)
SITE NEWS: Over 600,000 visitors last month!
Q. Just a quickie We broke the 600,000 unique users/month (i.e. people!) last month. According to google analytics we had 638,310 visitors from June 1st to June 30th. Doesn't seem that long ago we passed the half a million mark. Thanks to all t...
A. 1 July 2008: Informative, helpful, and entertaining. Plus we get an occasional BP question. It's all good! ... (read in full...)
My boss and I are VERY attracted to one another, but he's married!
Q. i met a guy a year ago, we clicked instantly, then i found out he was part owner of were i worked and was kinda my manager as well, i had no idea at the time, and had made a pass at him ...he responded , but not a full on response. because of his...
A. 1 July 2008: If you've been the other woman before and gotten burned then you certaily don't seem very careful to me. Adultery should always be a pain in the ass.... (read in full...)
My marriage has just been on self destruct and my wife won't change, I don't want to cheat again...
Q. Ok need advice. I have been married for 10 years have two kids aged 7 and 4. When i met my wife she was a size 16, over the years she has put more weight on and she is now a size 30. She does not work I have more to do with the kids than her, I h...
A. 1 July 2008: Definitely time for the lawyer.... (read in full...)
My husband complains I don't satisfy him well, please advice me what to do because I can't afford loosing him!
Q. i am having problems with my husband of just two years. he complains i dont satisfy him well. pls advice me or give me tips on how to satisfy my man sexually coz i cant afford loosing him....
A. 1 July 2008: HE needs to tell you want he wants, we don't have a clue to what he feels like he's missing. So my tip is just to sit down and ask him. And by the way, it's a two way street so be sure to tell him anything he can do to satisfy any of your needs.... (read in full...)
Unhappy in my relationship and I need your advice! Help
Q. I am a 26 year old mother of two. I've been with the same guy for 6 1/2 years, he is the father of both my children. I chose him to be my life partner because when we first met, he was strong, supportive, loving, and secure. We've had our ups and ...
A. 1 July 2008: Not once do you mention whether you love him or have ever loved him. Children are always better in a happy home with a single happy parent rather than in a home with fighting unhappy parents. Staying for the children is a bad solution to the ... (read in full...)
Is it time for me to move on?
Q. I met my partner when I was just 18 years old we have now been together 10 years and got engaged a couple of years ago. Our relationship has always been content, hardly argued and been very comfortable. We would allow each other to go out with own ...
A. 1 July 2008: He sounds like he is the ALMOST right guy for you but no cigar. That's the advantage of dating different guys, you get to find out what characteristics really appeal to you and what turns you on. Your boyfriend is close but I think you need to keep ... (read in full...)
Is it good that he's having "thinking time" about moving in together?
Q. My Boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 8 months. He says he loves me and I love him. He told me he has been thinking we should move in together but wants to take a couple weeks with time to himself to be sure this is 100 percent what he ...
A. 1 July 2008: It's like showing you your Christmas present and saying you can't have it until Dec 25th. Sheesh let him have his "thinking time" but you make sure you are 100% with the idea as well.... (read in full...)
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