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I am madly in love with a married colleague and I want him for me at any cost!

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Question - (9 May 2008) 5 Answers - (Newest, 13 May 2008)
A female India age 41-50, *eetu writes:

I am married. It was love marriage. Recently i started working in an insurance company and there i met a guy named Rajan. He very warm, friendly and funny guy and i attracted towards him and fell in love with him. I'm madly in love with him now. It is difficult to pass a day without meeting him. He is already married and has a kid but it doesnt matter to me. We can get together if he's ready to leave his wife i can leave my husband too. I have seen love in his eyes for me too. I'm already mad in his love that i dont bother leaving my family or him leaving his family. I want him for me at any cost. I'm beahivng very selfish and cruel from his wife's point of view but my intense love and feelings for him made me cruel, selfish 7 hard too.

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A female reader, Aeval Australia +, writes (13 May 2008):

Aeval agony auntVery sad. Your husband deserves better.

Thats all I have to say...Its not like you acutally asked a question, your mind is already made up.

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A female reader, malvern United Kingdom +, writes (9 May 2008):

malvern agony auntAre you sure you're both not infatuated by the sheer magic of it all? It could be a completely different story if you each left your families. There would be all sorts of problems and i think you may find that the magic will wear off very quickly when reality starts to set in. Take a step back and think really deeply about that side of it. How does he really feel? The same as you? Or is he just flattered by your attention? Men don't actually leave their wives and families as easily, or as much, as we all think. They've got too much to loose financially as well as emotionally. Think about it.

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A female reader, growing India +, writes (9 May 2008):

growing agony auntYour husband should come with same idea and leave you before you tell him.

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (9 May 2008):

eyeswideopen agony auntWhat do you want from us?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (9 May 2008):

wooo... stop it ! first ask this dude what he thinks about you. Then tell him about your plans ... lets see what he says..!

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