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I want to give my wife a good reason to shave her pubic hair

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Question - (15 May 2008) 9 Answers - (Newest, 16 May 2008)
A male Australia age , anonymous writes:

Hi Readers

I have always wanted my wife to shave her pussy, she agrees whilst we are having sex but never gets round to doing it.

so i can give her a good reason to do it, 'is there any good reasons or if anyone as any ideas

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A reader, anonymous, writes (16 May 2008):

My boyfriend told me how much he likes to go down on me and the less stuff there is between us (implying hair) the longer he wants to stay down there.

The next day I hauled my ass over to a salon for a brazilian.

Maybe you should try that approach ;)

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A male reader, Uncle Sneaker United Kingdom +, writes (15 May 2008):

Uncle Sneaker agony auntI asked my partner to do that once.

She said "Why?"

I said that I would find it a great turn-on for her to be all smooth down there.

She agreed, but only if I did something that was a great turn on for her.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 May 2008):

In order for her to do this, and to continue, you can offer to take on a few chores around the house, such as cooking and cleaning. Give and take. Never nag! Never suggest how she can remove the hair, I'm sure she is smart enough to know how.

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A female reader, Tisha-1 United States +, writes (15 May 2008):

Tisha-1 agony auntYou might try giving her a spa gift certificate for a Brazilian wax.

Though be prepared for some very tender, red skin, and possibly some parts where the top layer of skin has come off. And the red bumps that follow when the hair starts to grow back in.

I like the suggestion that you try it too, so you both can experience hairlessness!

How about a compromise, she trims most of it off and shaves or waxes the sides?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 May 2008):

Why dont you shave yours? It may sound lovely to you, but it is bloody uncomfortable when the tiny horrible hairs grow back. I know, i just hate it. So you either agree to her shaving your and you do hers. Fair swop in my books.

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (15 May 2008):

eyeswideopen agony auntWhy don't you offer to do it for her?

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A female reader, BigSis United Kingdom +, writes (15 May 2008):

BigSis agony auntI just feel sorry for it. It's the only thing she's got to keep her warm! Plus they love it when you stroke them. *Meow...purrrr*

: )

Seriously tho'....what's this obsession with you wanting it all shaved off? You suffer from fur balls or something?

Do you know how it feels to have it all shaved off or even more painfully, waxed!?

The growing back process is none too comfortable either, it itches like hell, and when you're in public ~ and you have that urge, it don't look good to scratch.

xXx

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 May 2008):

If she is resistant to shave then it could be because of the likely possibility that it could hurt a lot when the hair begins to grow back.

Waxing is also painful and may seem daunting. It may also worry her financialy.

If she doesn't mind the idea of shaving then next time she is in the shower sneek in and caress her. Have a little forplay and get all steamed up. When you've created a nice lather, you could shave her yourself.

(only with her consent, of course).

If you sent her away to a spa for the day and tease her telling her that it is the perfect oppurtunity to get it done. You could also suggest ways in which you will treat her sexually for giving you this pleasure.

If she still does not "get around to it" it may be because it doesn't actually arouse her at all and she only says it in the heat of passion as an attempt to arouse you more.

Try asking her.

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A female reader, Susan Strict United Kingdom +, writes (15 May 2008):

Susan Strict agony auntThe best reason in the world is "because you like it shaven".

You might have to "nag" a bit!!

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