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Does he love her or me?

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Question - (10 May 2008) 7 Answers - (Newest, 12 June 2008)
A female United States age 30-35, *ngel Baby writes:

I need to know something, it's kind of 2 questions.

Well, first is, I need to know if my ex really does love his girlfriend. He never really acts like he does, and he beats her. He's always cheating on her.

And the other is, I need to know if he's still in love with me. Every time he's around me, he flirts with me, finds reasons to touch me. He always tries to kiss me. He basically acts like how we used to. I'm just so confused.

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A female reader, Angel Baby United States +, writes (12 June 2008):

Angel Baby is verified as being by the original poster of the question

I just want to thank you guys for your answers. I really appreciate them. I don't have anything to do with him, he's worthless. He actually just got into some really bad trouble and is going to jail, and I think that's where he deserves to be. I have a boyfriend now, and love him very much. Thank you guys so much, you have no idea what it means to me.

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (12 May 2008):

eyeswideopen agony auntIf you aren't interested in getting the louse back, what difference does make whether he loves somebody? Forget about it, consider yourself to be lucky you got away.

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A female reader, Laura1318 Malaysia +, writes (12 May 2008):

Laura1318 agony auntHe is a sadist and masochist.

He is toying with you like a cat and a mouse.

His character is incapable of true love.

It is not love but lust.

See with your own eyes how he treat other females.

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A female reader, Ms.Advice girl United States +, writes (12 May 2008):

Hey,girl the reason he touches you is because he wants to get into your pants but,like they once a cheat always a cheat and well let me tell you something he is just waiting for you to give in then when some other girl starts hitting on him he'll forget about you and it'll be the same thing all over again the cheating the beatings and who knows whats next my advive to you is break up with this confused cheat before you become victim #2!!!!!

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A female reader, Angel Baby United States +, writes (10 May 2008):

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Ok, let me clarify something. I don't want him back. I didn't kiss him back. I didn't do anything with him. He didn't cheat on her with me. I know what he's doing wrong. And if I know he's acting like that then why would I want him back? I just wanted to know if he really loved her and if he still loved me.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (10 May 2008):

You damn sure are confused. I can't believe you are spending any time at all wondering if some bastard like your ex still loves you after you so casually mention how he beats his girlfriend. Why the hell would you want him anyway? He sounds like a real loser, and frankly, if you are still interested in him, so do you. If you know for a fact that he beats her, you need to get off your ass and contact someone other than just Dear Cupid.

There you go...I call it like I see it.

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A female reader, growing India +, writes (10 May 2008):

growing agony auntHe neither loves his gf nor you.

IF he still touches you and kisses you the way he used to then you are hand in glove with him in cheating his gf.

You are just getting used and pehaps you have no problems with that.

I may soung harsh but this is truth and it is always bitter.

so if you are seriously seeking some solution then search for sum1else.

Slap that jerk next time he comes closer.

Don't do it really.lol!!

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