What can I do before I lose her forever?
Q. Hi all, I am a soon-to-be college freshman who has been granted the wonderful opportunity to attend an outstanding university, and I am quite excited at being able to soon take advantage of all the new opportunities presented before me. Un...
A. 31 July 2008: I knew lots of people who tried to carry a high school romance into college with them, myself included. Most of those relationships didn't end up working, especially all the long distance ones. College is a great time in a person's life and one ... (read in full...)
I adore my internet boyfriend, but now I'm worried that he's cheating.
Q. Dear aunts and uncles, Im in an internet relationship, He lives in America and im from the UK. We've been together 1 and a half year 1.7 on the 3rd. We've always spoke in the morning and at night but recently he said he wants space, and doesnt want ...
A. 31 July 2008: It's just that I can't see this as a true relationship. I don't understand how someone can truely love someone who they haven't even met in the flesh. Words are so cheap, how can you possibly really know someone if you can't see them face to face or ... (read in full...)
Please let me know how to handle my crazy jealous wife!
Q. I need advice this issue is tearing us apart. I met a friend online from another country. I find chatting with her interesting. There is nothing being said that is inappopriate. She is just interesting adn from a country I have always been ...
A. 31 July 2008: I'm assuming you clicked the wrong gender. As to your post, it's all nonsense, on your part. You know you aren't chatting with this woman just because you are interested in her country. What a bunch of B.S.! You have driven your own wife into ... (read in full...)
Would it be wrong to place an ad in a paper asking for someone to get me pregnant?
Q. My husband can not get me pregnant do to a surgery that he had many years ago. My question for this community is this. Would it be wrong to place an ad in a paper asking for someone to get me pregnant?...
A. 31 July 2008: Good golly miss molly...have you any idea how many nutcases you'll be dealing with if you do that?! Talk to your doctor and he/she will be able to recommend a fertility specialist. If you don't want to adopt that is.... (read in full...)
I adore my internet boyfriend, but now I'm worried that he's cheating.
Q. Dear aunts and uncles, Im in an internet relationship, He lives in America and im from the UK. We've been together 1 and a half year 1.7 on the 3rd. We've always spoke in the morning and at night but recently he said he wants space, and doesnt want ...
A. 31 July 2008: My advice is to find a guy in jolly old England with whom you can have an honest to God relationship. You know, the kind that means hugs, kisses, and all that good stuff. ... (read in full...)
Thrilled about a new pregnancy! What is something special that I can do for my wife?
Q. Hi all not really a question but more of an announcement! I want to tell the world but I think this is the closest I shall get! I am very excited, my beautiful goddess of a wife has just informed me we are about to have another child!! It wil...
A. 31 July 2008: Well don't name it Devil Spawn Jr., okay?! An thank you for a good news post, Buddy!... (read in full...)
Is my sister-in-law teasing me or what???
Q. My wife and I have been married for almost 5 years now and she has a sister which is a couple years younger than her...I am really not exactly sure what I should do on this situation so I thought I could ask for some advice.... her sister is unma...
A. 31 July 2008: It doesn't matter in the slightest what the sister's agenda might be...YOU DO NOT WANT TO GO THERE. If you are uncomfortable or afraid you may indeed go there, make sure dear little sister only visits when your wife is at home.... (read in full...)
I love a man who is still married, but separated for 10 years, his wife will not sign divorce papers, I want to marry him, what should I do?
Q. Dear Cupid, I am a 24 year old lady that has been dating a special man for over two years. A month ago, I found out that he was still married to his "ex-wife" but they have been separated for ten years. She has moved on to someone else and had ...
A. 30 July 2008: There is no way on God's green earth that she can hold up a divorce for 10 years by not signing the papers, not in these United States. Something smells very fishy here. Tell your boyfriend to piss or get off the pot.... (read in full...)
Should I get with him regardless of his flirty ways?
Q. I like this guy and i can tell he like me to but hes a big flirt...but i like him alot...but i scared that if i get with him he might hurt me ...because when he had his exgirlfriend he kissed me multiple times...how do i know he won't do the same ...
A. 30 July 2008: He may or may not behave the same with you. If he's the same age bracket as yourself then he's very young and just may not be ready to settle down with one person. You will have to be willing to accept the risks if you start dating him but if you ... (read in full...)
My three friends and I would like four cute names of party drinks, to be placed on our school jerseys, please help us?
Q. So this isnt a love or sex question but its something that i could really use your help on. My school has these jerseys that the junior and senior girls get and you get to put what ever you want on the back of them like it can say what ever you want ...
A. 30 July 2008: "fuchen mom" tisk tisk... (read in full...)
My three friends and I would like four cute names of party drinks, to be placed on our school jerseys, please help us?
Q. So this isnt a love or sex question but its something that i could really use your help on. My school has these jerseys that the junior and senior girls get and you get to put what ever you want on the back of them like it can say what ever you want ...
A. 29 July 2008: How about: underage boozer, liver damage, lost brain cells, and juvey?... (read in full...)
I feel so ugly, will I ever get a boyfriend?
Q. Hey. Im a girl, Ive just turned 15. My problem is with my appearance. I always feel so ugly. Monsterously ugly, and people tell me Im ugly aswell. If Im out with my friends, lads will look my at my friends and smile, then look at me and they'll look ...
A. 28 July 2008: I'll bet you are just a late bloomer and in a couple of years you'll be fighting the guys off. Some girls just take a little longer and at 15 you would just be starting to flower. Relax and try working on your self-confidence, do the exercise Cookie ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is very jealous, how do I help him to not be so jealous, and to love me more?
Q. what does a girl have to do with her boy friend like sexual things? what to do when your boyfriend is really galous? what to do to keep ur boyfriend inlove with with you? ...
A. 28 July 2008: You don't HAVE to do anything sexual. What you do if your boyfriend is really jealous is dump him, that is a red flag. There is nothing you can DO to keep your boyfriend in love with you, either he is or he isn't.... (read in full...)
He keeps saying he will break up with his girlfriend but he doesn't, is he using me, should I end what we have?
Q. i have know this guy for three years and just started having sex.we both like each other and have feelings for each other but he has a girlfriend he keeps saying he's going to break up with her but he doesn't.my question is does he really want to ...
A. 28 July 2008: You are sloppy seconds. It's up to you to allow yourself to be used in this fashion.... (read in full...)
I used vulgar language around my girlfriend and now she hates me, how do I get her back?
Q. i just broke up with my girl friend ana and now she hates me alot. we broke up because of me using vulgar words towards her, any ideas on how to get her back?...
A. 28 July 2008: Swearing and using vulgar words shows a limited vocabulary. But why would you want to get her back if you were using bad language towards her in the first place? Doesn't sound to me that you even like her very much.... (read in full...)
How do I give a really good hand job? I don't want to give oral.
Q. How do you give a fantastic mind blowing hand job? Or is it even possible? It use to take me like 2 minutes to get my bf finish now it takes upwards of 15 minutes...if it even happens. No oral involved in this....and there won't be so don't suggest ...
A. 28 July 2008: Cut our Daniel some slack...we love him.... (read in full...)
Is it wrong for me to go out with my underage girlfriend?
Q. ok I have a question concerning me and my girlfriend. I am 18 and she is 14. was a big surprise for me when i found out she was 14 when she looks and acts around 16. and I was wondering is it extremely wrong for me to date her? I like her a ...
A. 28 July 2008: What have her parents said about you dating her?... (read in full...)
Is it wrong to get mad at my boyfriend for checking out another girl (but a famous one?)
Q. is it wrong to get mad at your boyfriend for checking out another girl but it was at a concert and it was a famous person(carrie underwood? should you trust your boyfriend when going out with him when there will be girls?...
A. 28 July 2008: You were at a Carrie Underwood concert and you got mad because he was checking her out? ... (read in full...)
I cheated numerous times since my wife told me the truth about her sexual past, in hope I would feel better. I feel worse and still angry. Help!
Q. I am seriously troubled with my wifes past and am so frusterated at the idea of living the rest of my life in anger. It is really depressing. She was my first girl friend and my only other sexual experience before her was a very humiliat...
A. 28 July 2008: Okay in this situation I would only ask you, will you be happier with her or without her? If the torment will stop if you leave, then do it. I can't see your feelings about her past ever going away no matter how much you say you love her. ... (read in full...)
Should I look up a college girlfriend from the 70's?
Q. Do you think it would be quite tactless to try and contact a nonromantic girlfriend from college days in the mid to late 70s? We last talked before she got married and my life was not in a good place then so terminated further conversation. Not ...
A. 23 July 2008: If she was just a friend, why not?... (read in full...)
I need tips on how to do an abortion myself.
Q. okay, so im 14 and about a week ago, i had sex. and we didnt use a condom. but heres the thing, it was in the pool. im affraid to tell my parents that i might be preggo. and i dont want to tell them at all. my bf bought a preggo test, but i have to ...
A. 23 July 2008: It's too late for the morning after pill and if you are only 14 you will not be able to get an abortion without your parent's consent. And there is no safe "do it yourself abortion". However you don't know if you are pregnant at this point so wait ... (read in full...)
What can I do about loose skin around my stomach?
Q. Dear Cupid I am 17 years old and weigh at around 57 kg, but i seem to have loose skin around my stomach, i tried toning up for nearly 2 years and nothing seems to happen. i used to weigh 90kg if this helps. i would like to know is their any way to...
A. 23 July 2008: Now I have loose skin but that's because I'm 56 years old. At 17 I would have thought your skin would have tightened up in 2 years after your weight loss. I'd probably consult a doctor and see if he/she has some other ideas other than surgery to get ... (read in full...)
I've been swinging for the past 2 years...should I take it further even though I'm married??
Q. hi i am nat i have been swinging for the last 2 years really in joy it looking to go a bit further in to orgys looking to have sex with 20 guys or more do u think this is a wise move as i am married??????...
A. 23 July 2008: I've got my legs crossed so tightly my feet are turning blue....... (read in full...)
I found a sexy text from another woman on my husband's phone. He said he hasn't done anything wrong.
Q. I have just found a sexy text from another woman on my husbands phone. It was under a mans name and in his language (which I can understand) I confronted him, he claimed that he met her on the yahoo chat and gave his number cos he was bored and now ...
A. 23 July 2008: You are experiencing half a marriage right now if you two are no longer sexually intimate. Frequency can vary throughout a marriage but having no intimacy will take it's toll on any marriage. This of course does NOT excuse his behavior but it does ... (read in full...)
I do all the work in my relationship with moody girlfriend
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its seems in my relationship i do all the work! my girlfriend has become very moody lately, she will constanly get in a mood over nothing and some very trivial stuff. so i will try my best to please her and sort things out. Its seems one sided to ...
A. 23 July 2008: Yea someone found a 3 yr 8 month old chesnut!... (read in full...)
My lover is seeing someone else. Should I be worried? Am I being silly giving him grief over this?
Q. My husband has alzheimers. I love him deeply, and I love and care for him. The illness has changed my life forever. I am a young 55 so in the end I met another man and we are lovers. I know it is wrong but I have some happiness here this way. I ...
A. 23 July 2008: Worrying never solves anything and in this case you can't do anything about the situation anyway. He's single your not. He can give you any line he wants whether it is true or false. You can either choose to believe him or just accept the way things ... (read in full...)
Has anyone got pregnant while on their period?
Q. can i ask if anyone has gotten pregnant whilst on their period? me and my boyfriend had sex and he had cum on his finger and then fingered me it was all in the moment and then the day after we had sex and he came in me. only alil bit though do...
A. 23 July 2008: You asked this question yesterday and got excellent answers, why the repeat?... (read in full...)
My friend goes crazy when she is drunk and says nasty things about me that aren't true. I'm really upset by all of it.
Q. Hi everyone, Ok my problem is that i have a friend. She is one of the nicest people when she is sober but drinks wayyyy too much and goes crazy, sometimes its funny she doesnt do anything bad just dances and things like that but recently it has t...
A. 22 July 2008: Your friend has a drinking problem. When a person's personality changes drastically after consuming alcohol that's a red flag for alcoholism. She probably makes this crap up and can barely remember it the next day. She won't tell you all this crap ... (read in full...)
I seem unable to carry a baby to full term. What are we doing wrong?
Q. im almost 20 years old and have had 3 miscarriage with my husband in the past year.we lost a set of twins at 7 months in sept of last year and than lost another when i wasnt even 12 weeks in january 2008 and just lost another at 9 1/2 weeks july 3rd ...
A. 22 July 2008: Assuming you've been checked out by your doctor, what did he/she tell you?... (read in full...)
Biology question - can you get pregnant from this?
Q. can you get pregnant if he fingered you and his finger had cum on it but the morning after you got your period, and then.. while you were on your period u had sex? ...
A. 22 July 2008: All young girls should just figure that ANYTHING sexual can result in pregnancy. Study up on human reproduction so you can make informed decisions regarding your sexual activities. It's called being responsible.... (read in full...)
When gets back from strip clubs, I don't want him to touch me. I can't get over it!
Q. Hi Aunts and Uncles I need quite a help. I know this question has been asked probably million times, but I just can't help myself ... I have to ask again! I love my BF - together nearly 2years... and I know he truly loves me. He is with me 24...
A. 21 July 2008: Well he certainly thinks he has you over the barrel, no matter what you say he turns it around and says you don't trust him. I'm afraid that if my boyfriend valued his guy friends' opinions over my feelings, I'd have to give him the heave ho. But ... (read in full...)
I am attracted to my sister and want to have a sexual relationship, how do I seduce my sister?
Q. Me and my sister are really close and only a year apart. but i am atracted to her more than most girls. does anyone have any idea as to how i can seduce my sister to have a sexual relationship?...
A. 21 July 2008: I don't know, since your MOM probably knows your SISTER well, why not ask her?... (read in full...)
Is it normal for a 42 yr old man to fancy a 19 yr old girl?
Q. is it normal for a 42 yr old man to fancy a 19 yr old girl. The man i'm shaggin and love tho he wont have a relationship with me, has told me that he's met a 19yr old girl who gave him her number and asked him to call her so they could meet for ...
A. 21 July 2008: So you are in a FWB relationship except that you have fallen in love with him. And all you want to know is whether it's normal for a guy his age to find a 19 year old hot? For crying out loud how can you be happy with your situation? Should you be ... (read in full...)
When gets back from strip clubs, I don't want him to touch me. I can't get over it!
Q. Hi Aunts and Uncles I need quite a help. I know this question has been asked probably million times, but I just can't help myself ... I have to ask again! I love my BF - together nearly 2years... and I know he truly loves me. He is with me 24...
A. 21 July 2008: I think the Sister has it right, when he wants to socialize with his pals tell him he can go if they just hang out at a regular bar, I mean if he doesn't care about gawking at the women, what's the problem? I'd be interested hearing what his answer ... (read in full...)
My new girlfriend asks "How can she be with me when my son always comes first!"
Q. hi my name is paul. im 32 years old and i have posted before about the sameish subject, only thing is things have changed and im in termoil, could realy do with helpfull advice. i have a 5 yr old boy who i dont live with he lives with his mum some ...
A. 21 July 2008: She is being totally unreasonable. Most women would never try to get in between a father and his son. If she leaves I'd say good riddance and start looking for a woman with some class.... (read in full...)
He says he only wants me for sex. Should I keep on, in the hope he falls in love with me eventually?
Q. My best friend has been married for 17 yrs an i have been in love with him for 18. Finally his wife chucked him and we started sleepin together he says i'm his best friend an he says its the best sex he's ever had but he says he only wants se...
A. 21 July 2008: You are wasting precious time.... (read in full...)
Bush wants to redefine birth control as "abortion", what do you think?
Q. This site seems to have a good cross section of folks from different walks of life, so I wanted to see what people out there think about this. The Bush administration is proposing a redefining of the term "abortion" to include birth control. The ...
A. 21 July 2008: 12 year olds explaining sex to me....sigh... (read in full...)
Does the withdrawal method work?
Q. hi, does pulling out work when preventing pregnancy. We started with using condoms, but we usually finish a packet in a day and nowadays we don't bother using it, cause it kinda ruin the moment and we like to be spontenous and stuff. I was thinking...
A. 21 July 2008: A fussy baby can ruin the moment as well.... (read in full...)
I wanted him to like me and did all this sexual stuff and now I regret it.
Q. well I have this friend and I reallllllly liked him and he was 'talking' to me but he was also talking to like 2 other girls which made me upset and jealous. that's why the next time I saw him I gave him head and made out with him felt him up he ...
A. 21 July 2008: It does make one feel like shit when one allows someone to use us and cast us aside when they are finished. It's a good thing that you are so upset about it. Now you won't let anything like this happen to you in the future. Dust yourself off and ... (read in full...)
Bush wants to redefine birth control as "abortion", what do you think?
Q. This site seems to have a good cross section of folks from different walks of life, so I wanted to see what people out there think about this. The Bush administration is proposing a redefining of the term "abortion" to include birth control. The ...
A. 21 July 2008: George Bush..sigh 12 year olds insulting our British friends...sigh The news media...sigh See this is why I hate Mondays.... (read in full...)
He didn't want "a relationship", but now he says he does. I'm confused.
Q. recently ive been seeing a guy and at the moment we have become soo close and really care about each other we became slightly physical and shared many moments, kisses and stories... i then decided to ask him out offically and he said he wasnt ready ...
A. 21 July 2008: Give him another chance but if he starts behaving squirrely then drop him like a hot potato.... (read in full...)
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