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writes:every week, i attend masses and participate in our church's youth group which consists of many teens from various towns and we meet about good 4 hours every sunday. recently, a new girl joined and we became friends ever since. as time went on, we've gotten closer and closer till one day when i found out that she really likes me. every since, i could't stop thinking about her. she know that i like her too and i shes waiting for me to ask her out. but the problem is, i'm concerned about my friends in our group and i'm worried that they'll start gossiping or act different when im around her. all the girls in our group are very cliquey and exclusive. im very cool with my friends and we've been in this church for 7 years now. i dont want my friendships altered because of one new girl. if i do date her, we could keep it secret but i dont think we'd like that idea. i dont know what to do and i think shes running out of patience Reply to this Question
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (29 September 2008):
I'm not going to tell you that they will all act cool and mature about it.
They'll gossip and tease you both and be annoying. That's what kids do.
But they'll stop once something else comes along so you'll just have to put up with it.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (29 September 2008):
 Ask her out, your friends will be cool about it, that is if they truly friends. You'll kick yourself in the butt if you let this opportunity slide. Go for it.
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