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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:I just got into a relationship with this guy. We were in a friends with benefits situation for months and now we are official. I saw him yestersay,we were supposed to hang out today, but he canceled at the last minute and told me we will hang out later. When he called, i asked if he was going to visit me and he said no because he feels pressure in this relationship. I dont feel like Im smothering him, its not like I want him to be with me all the time. But whenever he comes over, we end up having sex and i am the one that feels pressured by him to do it. Am I being unreasonable to want to see him a lot? Is this just a normal guy reaction?
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (29 September 2008):
 Doesn't sound like he wants a "official" relationship, sounds more like he preferred the friends with benefits situation much more. As would most guys I might add. Personally I think someone always ends up feeling used in a FWB relationship and by the posts here it's usually the female. I'd knock off the sex for awhile and see if he's still interested in you.
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