A mother's concern on daughter's new bf who has a history of abusive behaviour
Q. My 23 year old daughter has started a new relationship with a man from our small town who has a past history of violence. His ex girlfriend left him because he was abusive. He has been in jail for assault and has been in drug rehab for a cocaine ...
A. 6 April 2009: All you can do is to just be there for her if OR when his true colors start showing.... (read in full...)
Dating 3 women, want to cut it down to 1...help!
Q. I'm hoping someone can help me out here. I'm in a pretty desperate situation at the moment. You see, I've been dating three women simultaneously for the past 3 years and now I want to cut that number down to to one. The first girl I'm with, Clara,...
A. 3 April 2009: 1. How can you say you love Clara but at the same time find her repulsive? I don't get it.
2. How can you repay Jane if you don't have any income? Maybe she'd be willing to wait for it if she gets an IOU in writing. Then when you do get empl... (read in full...)
My bf is drinking and driving, how do I get him to stop?
Q. my boyfriend has just passed his driving test but he keeps having a few beers before driving. He says it wont affect him but im worried hes going to get pulled over by the police. what can i say to him without sounding like a nagging wife?...
A. 3 April 2009: Whatever you do, don't get legally tied to him in any way. Keep your finances totally separate. Drunk drivers, if they don't get a close call and wise up, eventually get nailed. It's all down hill after that financially. ... (read in full...)
How do I get closer to him?
Q. hey i would like some help i want to get closer with my boyfriend, we have been dating for a year and a half and we havent really got very close any ideas on how i can get closer to him.?...
A. 3 April 2009: Give him a few years to mature then I'm sure the problem will be getting him to keep his hands off you.... (read in full...)
Do good looking guys have problems getting gf's?
Q. Are good looking guys always able to get girlfriends?...
A. 3 April 2009: Getting them is probably pretty easy, but it takes more than good looks to keep one.... (read in full...)
Mutual attraction between my married friend and I...
Q. I am very good friends with a male friend whom I've known since the last 15 years and is an important part of my life. My male friend and I are very close and have had feelings for each other but never got around to voicing them. We both have been ...
A. 3 April 2009: You are not going to get any support from the aunts on this, except for the goofball ones. You have crossed the lines of decency and need to back off. Only hurt and destruction on all sides lie ahead if you continue with some of the victims being ... (read in full...)
I don't like his kids!
Q. my problem is that i hate my boyfriend's kids.. he wants to bring them from chicago to live in our apartment in dallas! and the worst part is that its not only one kid, he has three (13, 10 and 8 years old)!!!!!!!! we have been living together...
A. 3 April 2009: Sounds like the kids are the deal breaker for this relationship. Time to start looking around for a kid-less gentleman. Just curious do you ever hope to have children of your own? ... (read in full...)
After 23 years of marriage my husband just walks out saying he doesn't want to be married anymore!
Q. Hello I would really appreciate some help. I've been married for 23 years to a man I really love. I had a couple of serious relationships before him but he is the love of my life and we got married when i was 22 and he was 23. We have two daughter...
A. 3 April 2009: You will have a lot of supporters here, Sue. We have Aunt Sarcy who has just gone through and survived a similar situation, hopefully she will chime in soon. The pain must be incredible but please come here to vent and to find solace. ... (read in full...)
My friends say use him for some fun, but I'm afraid I'll get attached
Q. Some thoughts are very welcome. I am interested in this guy I work with, he leaves in July. He was shown an interest in me for a while but he has made it clear that he only wants a bit of fun nothing serious, we have kissed once unfortuanetly at...
A. 3 April 2009: I think you are risking a lot if you decide to dally with this guy. I'll bet dollars to doughnuts you'll fall head over heels in love. Plus he isn't even going to be around after July! Yep if you don't go ther you'll be missing out...missing out on ... (read in full...)
Anyone else ever experience this? One of my fallopian tubes is blocked and I wish to become pregnant
Q. I was tested a couple of years ago and I was informed that one of my fallopian tubes are blocked. I am 32 in a relationship with a wonderful man and wish to get pregnant. I really wanted to go the natural route as oppose to invitro or tubular ...
A. 3 April 2009: Did he say the blockage was in any way a health risk down the line?... (read in full...)
How do I get over unrequited love that supposedly won't be unrequited in a matter of time?
Q. How do I get over unrequited love that supposedly won't be unrequited in a matter of time? THe scenario is similar to a Romeo and Juliette Story but twisted. I am in love with someone that was also in love with me for a period of time. It turns...
A. 3 April 2009: This still sounds kinda of wacked. Will he be placed permanently on the sex offenders list? After his probation will he be allowed around children? Or will he be able to lead a normal life without having to register with the authorities and check ... (read in full...)
Anyone else ever experience this? One of my fallopian tubes is blocked and I wish to become pregnant
Q. I was tested a couple of years ago and I was informed that one of my fallopian tubes are blocked. I am 32 in a relationship with a wonderful man and wish to get pregnant. I really wanted to go the natural route as oppose to invitro or tubular ...
A. 3 April 2009: What does your doctor tell you? Does he suggest surgery to unblock the tube? Is your other one healthy and functioning?... (read in full...)
Involved with 2, trying to figure out how to get to see #2 without telling #1
Q. A few months ago I got out of a 12-year relationship. Two or three months ago I started seeing a guy from work. We've been intimate, had sex, a really good time. We talk easily, laugh easily, and all that good stuff. He too recently got out of a ...
A. 3 April 2009: Your "friends with benefits" set up with your friend means no strings sex. Just tell him either you will be going out of town or that you'll be having company this weekend so you'll be too busy to hook up this weekend. If you both have agreed to not ... (read in full...)
We barely talk any more...
Q. So my boyfriend and I are in a long distance relationship and he recently just got his cell taken away. So he calls me from his house phone. He called me when he got home from school and we talked for about 30 minutes and then he said "I don't wanna ...
A. 3 April 2009: Go hang with your friends and have some fun. Sitting around waiting for a phone is stupid and a waste of time. You are only young once so go enjoy it.... (read in full...)
Surely this is what relationships are meant to be like?
Q. My boyfriend makes me feel so unhappy with myself. With his comments. I feel so low and have low self esteem and wonder who will want me if we spilt as I'm the kind of person who needs to feel loved and secure. But I'm not with him and it's an ...
A. 3 April 2009: No wonder you feel so low, he's made you into his doormat, and you allowed it to happen. He's a player and you are just going to be repeatedly hurt by this jerk. You need to show him the door, my dear. He isn't going to change, he'll just string you ... (read in full...)
Why do I enjoy watching my wife have sex with another man ?
Q. Why do I want to watch my wife have sex with a man, our sex life is very good, but when a man came on to her I encouraged her and it led to full sex with me watching and I got so turned on and would loved to see her take a lover. I don't understa...
A. 3 April 2009: I don't understand either. How does your wife feel about all this? Let's think about her shall we?... (read in full...)
Where is this going? Do I still have a chance to make this work?
Q. Can someone give me an advice on what to do? I have met this man in 1999; in 2001 I gave birth to his child a baby boy. I always loved him and I still have feelings for this man. I love him so much and never stop thinking about him, it has been ...
A. 3 April 2009: Sorry but he hardly seems like much of a prize to me. Why on earth does he keep having kids but feels he doesn't have to pay for them? I think you deserve better than just 2nd best don't you? And make sure he gives you child support.... (read in full...)
Wanting to be with the love of my life.......a married man who won't leave his wife....
Q. I am 29 years old and I am so much in love with a 40 year old married man. This has been going on and off for 3 years. He is in love with me as well but he has a problem with starting a future with me. He does not want to start over --- house, ...
A. 2 April 2009: So what do you want from us?... (read in full...)
I Cant Look At Her.
Q. Well my boyfriend broke up with me for like 2 weeks and thro that time, he was kinda flirting with this other girl but then After All The Flirting And sexy talk , he told her he still loves me and he didnt mean to lead her on ?, but how can he mean ...
A. 2 April 2009: You were broken up when he was doing this flirting. I think you should just let it go.... (read in full...)
I call him sometimes up to 16 times in an hour or send 60 text message...could I lose him because of this?
Q. Hi, this is my short story... I have been seeing this guy for about 11 months now, we get along and like being with each other, we spend a lot time together, even in his busy schedule he puts time a side for me, he has his own business and is ...
A. 2 April 2009: Jeese Louise, it's like you have no control over your hands or something. Just stop calling and texting him, how hard is that?... (read in full...)
Is this over?
Q. Serious Boyfriend problems need some help please? I have a major boy friend problem and need help. I've been with my partner for 4 years. On Saturday night we had a massive row and on Sunday morning we discussed it and in temper I told him it was o...
A. 2 April 2009: I'd give it some more time then have another discussion.... (read in full...)
I Cant Look At Her.
Q. Well my boyfriend broke up with me for like 2 weeks and thro that time, he was kinda flirting with this other girl but then After All The Flirting And sexy talk , he told her he still loves me and he didnt mean to lead her on ?, but how can he mean ...
A. 2 April 2009: Words are cheap so just let this go, besides it should be her heart that breaking not yours, you ended up with the guy after all.... (read in full...)
Waiting for the right one
Q. i'm 18 and still a virgin. is that weird? my friends tell me it's weird, but i just want it to be with a girl i fall in love with and i'm getting really self conscious about because everybody i'm around seems to have lost theirs early-on in high ...
A. 2 April 2009: The right girl won't think it's strange, she'll think it's sweet. You'll find her and you'll see I'm right.... (read in full...)
Hugging someone from the opposite sex in a friendly way vs. more than friends?
Q. I have heard that there are different types of hugs and kisses in terms of just friends or something more. That is understandable; I just never thought of it that way. How do you hug someone of the opposite sex in just a friends way? How do you ...
A. 2 April 2009: Side ways hug not full frontal and kisses on the cheek.... (read in full...)
Hormonal changes in women during their period... quick poll!
Q. Quick poll: when a gal goes on her period: -Guys: does it happen that she can become difficult to deal with? As in, she's much shorter tempered and you can agitate her more easily? -Gals: do you tend to get short with people including your o...
A. 2 April 2009: Stick around and you can look forward to [glances both ways] MENOPAUSE!... (read in full...)
I've become a social outcast overnight and I don't know what to do about it!
Q. Hi please bear with me for a few mins and take the time to read this. The story so far....I was BEST friends with a girl for a couple of years until 5 months ago when I accidentally backed my car into her mail box at her rental property. I apol...
A. 2 April 2009: Let me try this again:
IT would be a total shame to throw away all YOUR hard work by leaving school. 6 months isn't forever, stay put. I think you are lucky that you've seen her true colors, with a friend like her who needs enemies. Once you get ... (read in full...)
I've become a social outcast overnight and I don't know what to do about it!
Q. Hi please bear with me for a few mins and take the time to read this. The story so far....I was BEST friends with a girl for a couple of years until 5 months ago when I accidentally backed my car into her mail box at her rental property. I apol...
A. 2 April 2009: I would be a total shame to throw away all you hard work by leaving school. 6 months isn't forever, stay put. I think you are lucky that you've seen her true colors, with a friend like her who needs enemies. Once you get your degree you'll be able ... (read in full...)
Just lately my emotions have been everywhere like a rollercoaster!
Q. Look I know I'm too young and this might sound stupid to your ears (mine too), but this is how I feel. I'm a 15 year old male and I really want to have sex... yes I know I have self control but it's really hard having to deal with the urges all the ...
A. 1 April 2009: Have they told you when you will be allowed to date?... (read in full...)
What do you think: shaved or natural?
Q. how do i ask if my boyfriend likes shaved pubic hairs or natural? what do you think are better? i dont want this to interrupt me and him , i dont want it to be a turn off when we first decide to have sex....
A. 1 April 2009: What amazes me is how many times we get asked this question. What's the big Deally Do anyway?... (read in full...)
Mom made me choose between her and my boyfriend
Q. Okey my question is kinda complicated i have been with my boyfriend for 4 weeks now but ever since i started going out with him my mum has changed and is always moody with me and does not trust me. she thinks im gonna have sex when i told her wen ...
A. 1 April 2009: I don't give advice to please I call it like I see it. You are 13 and been with your boyfriend for only 4 weeks. I've been a mother to two 13 year old girls and I know exactly what that's like. I stand by my answer. Take it or leave it.... (read in full...)
What heightens the mood during sex
Q. Guys while having sex what hightens the mood, personally wat gets me going is when my girl grabs my ass and i dont me squeeze i mean she is about to rip it off. And i guess girls can answer this question too i like hearing from both...
A. 1 April 2009: Having the dog (with paws on the window sill) staring at you through the window does not heighten the mood.... (read in full...)
Just wish we could be a normal couple!
Q. I am a 49 year old woman and I have know the man I am with for 45 years. We were 4 years old when we met. We started dating when I was about 17 years old. We have 3 children. Boy 30, girls 23 and 18. We started living together in 1986. We are still ...
A. 1 April 2009: A "normal" couple's relationship usually includes sex, otherwise you certainly are more like roomates. I think both of you really could benift from some marital counseling, as Jessica suggested. I truly believe this is totally fixable. I hope he ... (read in full...)
Why is this man playing games with me?
Q. I want to know why is this man playing games with me. We suppose to be in a relationship together we started off knowing each other very well . We even went out to eat on a date he us to give me money . We would go riding at night go to the club ...
A. 1 April 2009: He's just not that into you I'm afraid. I'm sorry you are in love with him but I think you need to move on, I don't think there's a future here.... (read in full...)
Making out on the first date?
Q. do u think its appropriate to make out with a guy on the first date? would he think of the girl as a someone who gives in easily?...
A. 1 April 2009: Making out on a first date is tacky. A quick kiss on the cheek when saying goodbye, maybe, but but a full fledge make out session is cheap.... (read in full...)
What did he mean by "You think you love me"?
Q. After my bf left to go to his place, I couldn't sleep at all... because, when I said "I love you," he responded, "You think you do." What does this mean? That he thinks I really don't, that I am self deceiving, or that if I really knew him,...
A. 1 April 2009: Sounds like he doubts that what you feel is real love. How long have you be together?... (read in full...)
Any advice I can give my friend about her stupid man?
Q. my mates fella realy gets up my nose. It sounds realy silly but her fella talks to her like poo if she forgets the potatoes or forgets his mouth wash when shes been shopping. he once never spoke to her for four weeks because she forgot the ...
A. 1 April 2009: Has she asked for your advice?... (read in full...)
Just found out my husband used to cheat... I'm pregnant what do I do?
Q. I have been married for 3 years and am pregnant with my 2nd child.Recently found out from my husbands x room mate that while we were engaged he was bringing girls back to the house and sleeping with them.Help what should I do.I heard a girl at a bar ...
A. 1 April 2009: All this happened before you were married right? Is his ex-roomate a reliable source? Do you think your husband has been faithful since your marriage? Was he sowing a few wild oats before the big day? Time to talk to your husband.... (read in full...)
Tenn girl needs to know if a boy likes her...
Q. so there's this guy that i've liked for a while, and my friend says that he likes me ...but he's pretty shy. when we're around friends he doesnt seem as keen on me, but when we're alone he's more likely to talk and seem interested in me and what i ...
A. 1 April 2009: How old is this guy?... (read in full...)
Can't stop watching porn.
Q. Hi there, i really need some help. Ever since the age of 12 i have been download porn off the internet, its been 6 years now and i still keep doing it.. It is a complete waste of money! I really dont want to watch at all, it does not even do much ...
A. 1 April 2009: Sell your computer.... (read in full...)
Change fortnight of a guy?
Q. I have a question. Recently not long a guy join in the company where i'm working and is siting opposite me. But don't know why the guy had grew interest in me. Maybe we see each other everyday, and he is new i help him alot on his work. I never ...
A. 1 April 2009: I guess you were more into this relationship than he was or maybe he is a little bit of a player. No, I don't think you should wait around for this guy. Chalk it up to experience and move on.... (read in full...)
I like him but he has a girlfriend!
Q. so theres this guy at my school, hes one year older than me so hes not in any of my classes but we always talk at recess and lunch and i asm totally crushing over him. everyhting is pefect except for the fact that he has a grilfriend who doesnt go ...
A. 1 April 2009: Nothing much you can do. He had his chance after your friend made her comment. Instead he passed on it so I guess you just remain friends for now.... (read in full...)
Mom made me choose between her and my boyfriend
Q. Okey my question is kinda complicated i have been with my boyfriend for 4 weeks now but ever since i started going out with him my mum has changed and is always moody with me and does not trust me. she thinks im gonna have sex when i told her wen ...
A. 31 March 2009: Sorry but at 13 years old and only 4 weeks you can't possibly be having a "serious" relationship with anybody. Quit being the drama queen and listen to your mother.... (read in full...)
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