Shouldn't DC be a judge-free zone?
Q. I've noticed that a lot of people have posted questions on this site asking about anal sex [how to do it/tips/tricks etc]. And last time I checked this was a site designed to give people advice and and information about relationships and and ...
A. 9 April 2009: Kissxmexagainx,you seem to be referencing a particular question about anal sex that had the responses that offended you so badly. Do you have that link by any chance?... (read in full...)
Most nights, I can't fall asleep until 5AM
Q. Can anyone explain why i dont sleep? its 1:03 here and i cant sleep i just dont so i end up just watching a film (currently reservoir dogs) i normaly fall to sleep at 5ish any help?...
A. 9 April 2009: Have a warm bath just before bed and do what Gina says and read a book, preferably boring one, Geroge Bush's memoirs maybe.... (read in full...)
Any ideas to keep my foreign friend entertained? Please help.
Q. well,tomorrow arrives my friend from another country.at first,we'll stay at my house and i have no idea what to do to have fun and keep us both entertained.what do you thing we should do?any suggestions?i'm 13...
A. 9 April 2009: Play music while you paint your toenails, fix each other's hair, make popcorn and watch High School Musical 6 times, check out Facebook, fire up bags of dog poop on front porches........ (read in full...)
I found a picture of my dad in his underwear on my husband's phone but he says it has nothing to do with me!
Q. I was tidying the house earlier this week, and was surprised to find my hubby's mobile phone had fell down the back of the sofa. It wasn't the phone that shocked me, but what was on it that did - a picture of my dad in his undies flashed up on th...
A. 9 April 2009: I hope he doesn't punch your hubby in the nose for taking the picture...wait a minute...... (read in full...)
Shouldn't DC be a judge-free zone?
Q. I've noticed that a lot of people have posted questions on this site asking about anal sex [how to do it/tips/tricks etc]. And last time I checked this was a site designed to give people advice and and information about relationships and and ...
A. 9 April 2009: It's very difficult to respond to some postings without sounding judgmental or patronizing. I mean what CAN you say to 10-13 year olds who want to know how to give a blow job or whether they should have anal (or really any kind) sex? Invariably the ... (read in full...)
Does he still like me or do I just want him to like me?
Q. I don't know if all is lost in this situation or not. I met a "boy" and we became friends. I was pretty sure he liked me as more than a friend(due to flirtatious behavior and such) so I brought up the inevitable, "are you interested in me?" ...
A. 9 April 2009: I guess you just keep on doing what you are doing and hope that he'll eventually wake up and smell the coffee. If you bring the subject up to him I think he'll run for cover. Guys can be so irritating can't they?!... (read in full...)
My husband just wants his children's affection but they shower so much of it toward their mother
Q. My husband has three grown children from a previous marriage. Their mother left him and them when the kids were teenagers. He finished raising them with no help from her and she had a good job; was fully able to contribute financially. My husband ...
A. 9 April 2009: This would tick me off too. I don't know what you can do about it however. Would it be possible to mention to the eldest child that Dad is feeling neglected, or will that just cause more problems?... (read in full...)
I found a picture of my dad in his underwear on my husband's phone but he says it has nothing to do with me!
Q. I was tidying the house earlier this week, and was surprised to find my hubby's mobile phone had fell down the back of the sofa. It wasn't the phone that shocked me, but what was on it that did - a picture of my dad in his undies flashed up on th...
A. 9 April 2009: I wouldn't talk to Dad if it looks like it was taken without his knowledge. Boy this is a toughy, I guess I would just table this for awhile but keep my eyes open. It's too bad he won't talk to you about this. Perhaps it's a harmless albeit creepy ... (read in full...)
Did he lie to me all that time?
Q. Hi cupid readers, here's the story! I was in a long distance relationship and I was so in love with him and he loved me. Then one day he told me a girl asked him out for a meal and he told me they were just friends and I was trying to tell h...
A. 9 April 2009: I think you had a long distance romance with a player. I think if you have a relationship with some one you can actually hang out with, in the flesh so to speak, you'll be able to prove to yourself that you aren't a rubbish girlfriend. Long distance ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend's friend is a total user but she can't see it at all.
Q. Okay my girlfriend has this ignorant ass best friend who I don't like, she has this problem with speaking to people. She also tried to shit on my mom who helped her ass out when she was out of a job buying her pampers and baby food when she had no ...
A. 9 April 2009: Well you can't pick her friends for her but you certainly can have rules for your own house. You definitely don't have to put up with her or her kids at your own place. Just make sure your girl agrees BEFORE she moves in. She will just have to see ... (read in full...)
How can I get her sister to see I have no ulterior motive?
Q. I'm 17 and I'm dating a 14 year old, now I know it looks like im probably just trying to get in her pants coz of the age but I'm not really, we both really like each other but the problem is her older sister, though she has never met me, she thinks ...
A. 9 April 2009: Be grateful the sister is allowing you to see each other and behave yourself in their company. I wish all the 14 years old had big sisters like this.... (read in full...)
Teenage sex problems!
Q. I'm going round my boyfriends tonight and I think he's going to "finger" me. I'm concerned as I generally only use one finger and if he tries two I'm afraid it was hurt. Is this normal? ...
A. 9 April 2009: Of course it's normal at your age. Your body is still maturing and growing. Wait until it's done unless you enjoy the pain.... (read in full...)
Age and appearance.
Q. Do guys like girls with fat round faces and who are short and heavy because I am short, fat round face and heavy. Up on my 30s and I never had boyfriend, I wouldn't know how to get one. I am sick of liking guys who don't like me. A guy of nice ...
A. 9 April 2009: Why do you keep posting this over and over again? You get pretty much the same responses each time.... (read in full...)
He got hard talking to me via webcam....does this mean he still likes me?
Q. hi so there is this guy he used to fancy me a while ago and i him but then he went away for a few months and we never spoke as it would cost far too much to text and ring anyways he came back but he had changed towards me he then said he didn't like ...
A. 9 April 2009: Guys at your age can get hard looking at a grapefruit. Gee whiz, now a days a girl can get used and duped by a computer...sigh...text eff buddies, indeed.... (read in full...)
Being too harsh on my ex girlfriend?
Q. I dumped my GF last year and we were on and off since then. I told her i would consider getting back with her if she lost weight she is a size 14-16 but good looking i must say, I prefer size 12. I just dumped her again recently and she's angry...
A. 9 April 2009: I can see why you have no friends and your sisters ignore you. I hope you enjoy solitude, I have a feeling you are going to get plenty of it.... (read in full...)
I want to marry two women and they both know about it, is there any way this can be legal?
Q. If I marry two women and they both know and they approve of it is it legal if they both agree? And if not, is there a way that if they both sign legal documents through the courts through the laws can they both marry me then?...
A. 9 April 2009: Not in these United States, not even in Morman country. Not legally any way.... (read in full...)
I found a picture of my dad in his underwear on my husband's phone but he says it has nothing to do with me!
Q. I was tidying the house earlier this week, and was surprised to find my hubby's mobile phone had fell down the back of the sofa. It wasn't the phone that shocked me, but what was on it that did - a picture of my dad in his undies flashed up on th...
A. 9 April 2009: Yikes, that's weird! Does it look like your Dad posed for the picture or does it look like maybe your hubby snapped it without your Dad knowing? If it looks posed then ask your Dad what's going on, you may or may not get an answer but I agree ... (read in full...)
My ex g/f stole my friends away from me!
Q. I broke up with my gf a couple of months ago (well...she broke up with me to be exact) but I was still in love with her, even though I found out that she didn't love me for the last three or so months of our relationship. A few months before th...
A. 9 April 2009: Nobody can steal a true friend from somebody. So therefore I wouldn't consider person A & B to be true friends. You'll just have to make some new friends. Stay away from Facebook if it upsets you at the moment. Friends come and go, it's part of ... (read in full...)
Will my adolescent abuse rear its ugly head if I have a daughter?
Q. Anyone who reads this will have to bear with me as I don't know if it'll actually be in the form of a question, therefore making it difficult to provide an answer, but I'd like to know what others have to say. I'm 19, about to embark on my jun...
A. 8 April 2009: I think you have a great handle on the situation and will make a great father. You know yourself and will take the appropriate actions should you feel you need some help. You future looks bright to me.... (read in full...)
How do you ask a girl for anal sex?
Q. How do you ask a girl for anal sex? Iv been having "normal" sex for a while now and i find that i really want to just try anal sex with a girl. A lot of girls i know hate the thought of it and wud probably run a mile if you asked. But what is the b...
A. 8 April 2009: How about "Hey Sweetheart, I'm thinking about shoving my rod up somebody's butt, you interested?" It might scare away most girls but you might also find a few real troopers as well. Let's just hope they never use their rectums for anything because ... (read in full...)
New mother: just curious when babies start to say their 1st word
Q. just a question that im curious about. my son who was 8 weeks early is actually following the developmental charts just fine. when will he speak his first word appx.?? just curious...
A. 8 April 2009: Which reminds me of a little joke:
Little Tommy was 3 years old and had never spoken a word. His mother was so very worried. Then one morning at breakfast he said,
" Mother Dear, would you please be so kind to put a couple more sprinkles of sugar... (read in full...)
My boyfriend won't stay with me unless I lick him and strip
Q. this is her little sister i am 14 nearly 15. it all started at his 15th birthday party when we got a bit drunk.then i shared a bed with him we keep hugging and kissing. he went under the cover and pulled be pj bottoms down and started touching...
A. 8 April 2009: Hugmeimdirty, you'd better be careful or mommy will come back and slap your patties too. :O... (read in full...)
New mother: just curious when babies start to say their 1st word
Q. just a question that im curious about. my son who was 8 weeks early is actually following the developmental charts just fine. when will he speak his first word appx.?? just curious...
A. 8 April 2009: You are welcome. I had three babies and now have 6 grandbabies, enjoy your time while your son doesn't talk, it sure doesn't last very long!... (read in full...)
Is there anyone out there whose spouse DOES NOT look at other men/women??
Q. Dear People, Isn't there anyone out there whose spouse DOES NOT look at other men/women? All day, i've been searching for someone but every single title i find is all about how their husbands look at other women. Well, my husband DOES NOT look at ...
A. 8 April 2009: We'll be walking along and I'll make a comment like "I really liked the skirt that woman was wearing back there." And my dear husband will say something like "You mean the blonde?" hee hee... (read in full...)
New mother: just curious when babies start to say their 1st word
Q. just a question that im curious about. my son who was 8 weeks early is actually following the developmental charts just fine. when will he speak his first word appx.?? just curious...
A. 8 April 2009: 9 months to 1 year.... (read in full...)
Is it wrong for me to feel unappreciated?
Q. Me and my girlfriend have been together a year. I love her very much. Since we have gone out, I have paid for the gas for us to travel (my vehicle ), every date (movies, eating out, etc.) This has never really bothered me, but I also am a coll...
A. 8 April 2009: Yep you sure should feel unappreciated. It certainly looks like you give 99% and she barely contributes her 1%. Time for a nice long chat. If she can't see how things are so unequal then maybe you need to rethink the whole relationship. Good luck ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend won't stay with me unless I lick him and strip
Q. this is her little sister i am 14 nearly 15. it all started at his 15th birthday party when we got a bit drunk.then i shared a bed with him we keep hugging and kissing. he went under the cover and pulled be pj bottoms down and started touching...
A. 8 April 2009: hee hee... (read in full...)
My boyfriend won't stay with me unless I lick him and strip
Q. this is her little sister i am 14 nearly 15. it all started at his 15th birthday party when we got a bit drunk.then i shared a bed with him we keep hugging and kissing. he went under the cover and pulled be pj bottoms down and started touching...
A. 8 April 2009: Matter a fact I DID think there was a need for my comment or I would not have made it, however what there isn't a need for is for some "anonymous" aunt to play mommy and slap my patties.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend won't stay with me unless I lick him and strip
Q. this is her little sister i am 14 nearly 15. it all started at his 15th birthday party when we got a bit drunk.then i shared a bed with him we keep hugging and kissing. he went under the cover and pulled be pj bottoms down and started touching...
A. 8 April 2009: Ahhh the ole' strip and lick eh? Or is it the ole' lick and strip? Interesting..your older sister can't spell either.... (read in full...)
My buddy's dating a nut job because the sex is amazing
Q. My buddy is dating this really messed up girl. They have some really good highs but some bad lows. It's extremely draining for him and he puts up with a lot and I know why he does: The sex is really good. He's got some particular "pref...
A. 8 April 2009: I think it's your friend's business. All you can be is a sounding board for him. Tell him to write us if he wants or needs advice.... (read in full...)
I'm 16, dating a 20 year old with a baby?
Q. hi my name is brian and i am 16 going on 17 i have a 20 year old girlfriend and my question is .. should i be dating her if she's 20 and has a baby boy?... and yet i still love her and her son?... so i am asking for your opinions so please send me ...
A. 7 April 2009: Married too, yeah that's BIG part. So not only is she breaking the law having sex with you she is breaking her marriage vows as well. In your other post you say she is going into the army and will be gone 5 1/2 months. Great! Use that time to get ... (read in full...)
How long do you wait to tell your bf and parents that you're pregnant?
Q. Curious.. If the Dr. gives you the Big surprise that you're pregnant..how long do you wait to tell your boyfriend? Is there a right time? I don't want to freak him out until I'm 100% sure..? And the parents? ...
A. 7 April 2009: The boyfriend should be told immediately but friends and family it's up to you. I usually made the annoucement in my third month.... (read in full...)
What impact do you think that your answers have had on someone? Is it possible that an answer on this site has changed someone's life?
Q. My fellow aunts, I would like to know if you all ever wonder about this. What impact do you think that your answers have had on someone? Is it possible that an answer on this site has changed someone's life? I'm asking out of curiosity. I of...
A. 6 April 2009: I can guarantee that if the poster is 13-15 yrs old and it's about their intense, one of a kind love, and "definitely not a crush" on their teacher...our answers fall completely on deaf ears.... (read in full...)
Avoiding seeing girls in bikinis!
Q. I'm freaking out everytime when i see girls in the bikini !! I could be embrassing me but the reaction of what my ex gf did to me is that im freaking out everytime when i see girls in bikini even on TV. I dont know if im overreacting but...
A. 6 April 2009: Maybe if you keep your TV on the History Channel that would be safe, unless they are doing a piece on the history of swimsuits that is? Do you have any trouble looking at girls in one piece bathing suits?... (read in full...)
26 yo and I feel like I am missing out!
Q. Some thoughts are very welcome. I am interested in this guy I work with, he leaves in July. He was shown an interest in me for a while but he has made it clear that he only wants a bit of fun nothing serious, we have kissed once unfortunately at...
A. 6 April 2009: I guess you didn't like the answers you got when you posted this last week, eh?... (read in full...)
I need advice on sole custody of my daughter please.
Q. Parent's Please help. My daughter is 5 years old and my ex boyfriend and I have joint custody of her (one week with him, one week with me) But lately when she's with him he's been making excuses for her to come home (to me). I could care less ...
A. 6 April 2009: A father figure is great as long as it's a GOOD father figure, a bad one is worse than none at all. See if you can talk to a lawyer to reduce his visitation or maybe you get full custody then you can decide when he sees her. I know lots of areas ... (read in full...)
My bf is making me feel like crap sexually :-(
Q. My boyfriend of just over one year has been telling me for months that he thinks I am cheating on him because my "p*ssy feels different and stretched out like I have been f*cking n***ers". He has also then become upset with me when I become more ...
A. 6 April 2009: Show him the door this guy is Trouble with a capital T. He obviously doesn't give a rat's ass about what you need, feel or want. He is way too self-absorbed to much use to anybody.... (read in full...)
13 yo and want to have sex with my boyfriend
Q. i'm thirteen years old and i want to start having sex with my boyfriend( we've been together for 4 months ) but im worried that if we have sex i may bleed on him when i break my hymen. We are obviously going to use a condom but i am scared he will...
A. 6 April 2009: Ahhh...but that still leaves 64% now doesn't it?... (read in full...)
Will he be freaked out by "down there"?
Q. Will my boyfriend be freaked out by my vagina? There is loaadss of hair, i know i can get rid of that, but the rest of it looks disgusting to me.. The inner labia are really dark compared to my skin, and are all shrivelled and wierd:/ Also, on...
A. 6 April 2009: If he gets freaked out then he better stick to men because you sound like a normal full-blooded woman to me.... (read in full...)
13 yo and want to have sex with my boyfriend
Q. i'm thirteen years old and i want to start having sex with my boyfriend( we've been together for 4 months ) but im worried that if we have sex i may bleed on him when i break my hymen. We are obviously going to use a condom but i am scared he will...
A. 6 April 2009: Another one bites the dust
Another one bites the dust
And another one gone, and another one gone
Another one bites the dust
Hey, I'm gonna get you too
Another one bites the dust ... (read in full...)
How do I get rid of the blue vein marks on my chest?
Q. Eww help, i can see blue veins under the surface of my skin on my shoulders and boobs, what makes these so visable and what can i do to make them less visible/ dissapear completely? and no im not on pills or sexually active (apparently that makes ...
A. 6 April 2009: You could try some self-tanning products to darken your skin a little bit. Sexual activity has nothing to do with it by the way. I really don't think this is something you should worry about, however.... (read in full...)
A mother's concern on daughter's new bf who has a history of abusive behaviour
Q. My 23 year old daughter has started a new relationship with a man from our small town who has a past history of violence. His ex girlfriend left him because he was abusive. He has been in jail for assault and has been in drug rehab for a cocaine ...
A. 6 April 2009: All you can do is to just be there for her if OR when his true colors start showing.... (read in full...)
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