Curious 14 year old girl ....
Q. hi i'm 14 and have done basically everything sexual. i was just wondering what age people have done different things eg. oral, lost virginity, anal, fantasies etc....
A. 14 April 2009: Just YOUR questions, honey. You are really going to be sad you squandered your youth pretending to be an adult.... (read in full...)
He's married, threw me out like garbage but I miss him!
Q. Dear Cupid, My boyfriend left me in February, but until now I'm still in love with him. I cannot concentrate with my job anymore. I'm obsess and the problem is he is married too. Please anyone can give advise how to move on. He throw me l...
A. 14 April 2009: Dust yourself off and stay busy. Keep reminding yourself that you can't lose something you never had to begin with. Eventually you will get over him. Married men are off limits.... (read in full...)
I've never felt this way about anybody. Am I in love?
Q. Hockay, so, classic one this, and if I'm a bit vage tell me because I realy hate talking about my emotions and myself generally, but anyway... I've known someone for a really long time now and we used to argue and be at each others throats all the ...
A. 14 April 2009: I'm not kidding you. You obviously have the heart of a writer, and an insight to people, plus some of your sentences where very descriptive:
"Little tiny things like friendly I love you's to other people when they do something good all of a sudd... (read in full...)
Curious 14 year old girl ....
Q. hi i'm 14 and have done basically everything sexual. i was just wondering what age people have done different things eg. oral, lost virginity, anal, fantasies etc....
A. 14 April 2009: Whoa...is that smoke I smell? I hope it's not a burnout.... (read in full...)
Spicing up oral sex
Q. i need new ways to get turnd on any ideas please also has anyone got any ideas on spicing up the sex life or new thing that a lad can do to us girls please all ideas welcome thankyew xx...
A. 14 April 2009: Or pepper.... (read in full...)
Married..but seperated..but now seeing each other in secret!
Q. i'm married for ten years and we have been separated for more than five years.But this year we realised that we love each other and we are having sex twise a week and we are doing it in secret.becouse is involved with another women....
A. 14 April 2009: What is it you are asking? All I get from this is he's cheating on his girlfriend with you, his wife. Are you unhappy with the arrangement?... (read in full...)
Pregnancy..all the symptoms!
Q. Hi, im 17 years old and i have all of the symptoms of pregnancy but when i had taken the home pregnancy test, it told me that i was not pregnant. Ive gotten everything from gaining weight to morning sickness and everything in between. i really d...
A. 14 April 2009: You don't mention the number one sign of pregnancy, when was your late period?... (read in full...)
She says she doesn't love me! How can I make her love me?
Q. How can you make someone you girl frnd who is telling you she dont love you love you....
A. 14 April 2009: To make her fall in love with you, you'll need the following: a roasting chicken, a potato, some salad greens (any kind), a large lemon, salt, pepper, butter, oil, and vinegar.
Here's what you do:
Rub the chicken with the butter then squeese ... (read in full...)
I've never felt this way about anybody. Am I in love?
Q. Hockay, so, classic one this, and if I'm a bit vage tell me because I realy hate talking about my emotions and myself generally, but anyway... I've known someone for a really long time now and we used to argue and be at each others throats all the ...
A. 14 April 2009: Really, you should think about writing as a career option.... (read in full...)
Why didn't you give in to temptation?
Q. Has anyone ever been tempted to cheat? If so- how didn't you give into the temptation?...
A. 14 April 2009: It's called honor and integrity, cheaters have neither.... (read in full...)
My married man's wife is pregnant! What should I do?
Q. I am 24 years old and have been having an affair with a 33 yr old married man from my small community for over a year now. I just found out that his wife is pregnant. I have tried to end our relationship but I always find myself drawn to him. A f...
A. 13 April 2009: Awww come on, you know exactly what you should do, you just are too selfish to do it. Tell the guy to go take care of his wife and to never darken your door again. Let the poor pregnant wife alone and get on with your life, you can't have this ... (read in full...)
I've never felt this way about anybody. Am I in love?
Q. Hockay, so, classic one this, and if I'm a bit vage tell me because I realy hate talking about my emotions and myself generally, but anyway... I've known someone for a really long time now and we used to argue and be at each others throats all the ...
A. 13 April 2009: I don't have any words of wisdom for you, Jay. But I can say that your post brought tears to my eyes, it was a great read. I almost felt 13-15 again. Whew. You may not be able to spell but you sure can write!... (read in full...)
I would like to have my parents' blessing, but how do I tell them about this relationship?
Q. I come from a very religious family (my father is a pastor) I am a youth pastor. Just a little over a year ago a young girl joined our church she was married to a very abusive man and had a 1 yr old son and was pregnancy. I helped her leave her ...
A. 13 April 2009: I agree with Satin, I don't think your parents will be too upset if she is legally divorced. It may come as shock but if people have been seeing you at church, someone head over heels in love can be pretty easy to spot, they may already suspect ... (read in full...)
19 yo F and feel inexperienced. Do men like hair or no hair down there?
Q. I'm 19 and in a new-ish relationship. We're getting more serious and i really like him a lot, so want to go further sexually with him. I'd like some advice on what to do with my pubic hair. What do you guys prefer? I am afraid to ask him, b...
A. 13 April 2009: Man oh man we sure do spend a lot time on this question...... (read in full...)
My gf wants me to choose between her or my family (with my handicapped brother)
Q. I wonder if you guys can help me on this matter. I've been with my girlfriend for over a year now and we've started to talk about marriage and moving in together. I currently live with my mum and my twenty year old brother who is in a whee...
A. 13 April 2009: Run! She will make your life miserable. You should hear that siren going off and a loud speaker blaring "control freak, control freak". I doubt if telling her no on this issue will be enough, she'll raise up her control freak head again sooner or ... (read in full...)
Is this common for men?
Q. I have been dating my boyfriend for about 4 months. Among the times that we have had sex, he has only cummed twice. Most of the time, half way through the act, he would complain that he is getting too hot or tired, and then he would stop. I have ...
A. 13 April 2009: Alrighty then, that makes sense. The flashlight threw me for a loop, ha ha... (read in full...)
I am so infatuated with my sister in-law.
Q. I am 32 male, married and love my wife to bits. she's also 32. since We fell in love nearly a decade ago we have been together all the time spending both quantity and quality time together. I have never ever, even once looked at any other woman ...
A. 13 April 2009: Are you sure that even if you pinch pennies you can't afford to get your own place? Moving out is really the only thing I can think of that will help you get over this crush. Good man for not acting on this infatuation. If you absolutely can't move ... (read in full...)
Is this common for men?
Q. I have been dating my boyfriend for about 4 months. Among the times that we have had sex, he has only cummed twice. Most of the time, half way through the act, he would complain that he is getting too hot or tired, and then he would stop. I have ...
A. 13 April 2009: A flashlight, elnino3? I don't get it.... (read in full...)
14, in love, and both of us are ready for sex. But I'm scared of the pain.
Q. OK, I don't know what to do... I started a relationship with this guy I've known for years about a month ago. So far, we've only had oral and manual sex. It's clear he wants to go all the way, but he's reassured me that he won't do anything I'm ...
A. 13 April 2009: How old is this guy?... (read in full...)
Please guide me as to whether she loves me or not and shall I continue relationship with her?
Q. Hi, I am a 35 years old married person with one 7 years old child. I am very much dissatisfied with my wife's behaviour. I don't have any friends. So I started online chatting. I am chatting with a married girl of 25 years old with one 2 year old ...
A. 13 April 2009: "Please guide me whether she loves me or not and shall I continue relationship with her?"
No and No... (read in full...)
I'm 13 and scared to lose my virginity
Q. I need some help, i'm 13 nd im scared ov losin my virginity. ...
A. 13 April 2009: Doesn't anybody look at the date?... (read in full...)
What does it mean when some one said "He has a good way with people"?
Q. what does it mean when some one said some one has a good way with people. what does that mean...
A. 12 April 2009: It's usually a good thing, except for the occassional Ted Bundy.... (read in full...)
I don't want to leave my wife, but I don't love her anymore. What should I do?
Q. Hi, I've been married for 5 years. Periodically throughout our marriage, my wife and I have agreed that we make better friends than spouses. Over the past few years I've grown increasingly less sexually attracted to my wife. I'd say that at this...
A. 12 April 2009: I still think you two need some time away from each so you can do some soul searching without distractions. Just call it a trial separation, maybe that will make it seem less frightening for both of you.... (read in full...)
What do I have to do? I love him.
Q. hey i'm 15 and have a boyfriend and he is 20 he is nice,cute,understanding,stupid,and very important to me but my parents knows about this and they really don't like him so what i'm going to do?...
A. 12 April 2009: Right on (I'm trying to bring the 'right on' back) Medic!... (read in full...)
I was just wondering generally do MOST men cheat?
Q. I was just wondering generally do MOST men cheat? I blame my male friends for making me have this opinion because as lovely as they all are and as much as they love their gfs, they have all cheated at some point and don't seem to think that it is...
A. 12 April 2009: By MOST what percentage are we talking, 51% OR 99%? If it's on the lower end I'd probably agree with the Baddog (as scary as his picture is). If given a TOTALLY safe opportunity I'll bet 51% would cheat, I also bet that at least 75% of those guys ... (read in full...)
Happy Easter!
Q. I thought instead of posting a question on [troubled] relationship [issues], I thought I'd post something more upbeat ;-) So, I just wanted to post a short note to say "Happy Easter" this long weekend (Good Friday, Easter Monday/Bank Holi...
A. 11 April 2009: I love Easter eggs! They taste different from just regular hard-boiled some how. Happy Easter to all!... (read in full...)
I don't want to leave my wife, but I don't love her anymore. What should I do?
Q. Hi, I've been married for 5 years. Periodically throughout our marriage, my wife and I have agreed that we make better friends than spouses. Over the past few years I've grown increasingly less sexually attracted to my wife. I'd say that at this...
A. 11 April 2009: I think you guys need to have a separation. I'd look into that first and see what and how you feel after that.... (read in full...)
Does she still feel anything for me? Help!
Q. Ok. I've been very persistent with this girl that I feel I love and I sort of did her wrong a long time ago. But I've held out the hope that she will eventually forgive me and care enough to get with me. I send her letters every now and then. And ...
A. 11 April 2009: I can't speak for the world but it appears she hasn't any forgiveness for you. But you said you used an alias, how do you know that she knows it was you on her Myspace? Did you sign your name to the letters? You know when someone's trust is squashed ... (read in full...)
Does she still feel anything for me? Help!
Q. Ok. I've been very persistent with this girl that I feel I love and I sort of did her wrong a long time ago. But I've held out the hope that she will eventually forgive me and care enough to get with me. I send her letters every now and then. And ...
A. 11 April 2009: Just what exactly did you do in the past to hurt her?... (read in full...)
26 year age gap.. he led me to bedroom.. was it a one off??
Q. basically i have had a crush on my fitness instructor for over a year now.. + we r really good mates, we watch films together, have a laugh + love meeting up for coffee.. but today we were just chilling on sofa like normal.. when he kissed me soo ...
A. 11 April 2009: The title says there is a 26 yr age gap but your post doesn't, which is it?... (read in full...)
Does she still feel anything for me? Help!
Q. Ok. I've been very persistent with this girl that I feel I love and I sort of did her wrong a long time ago. But I've held out the hope that she will eventually forgive me and care enough to get with me. I send her letters every now and then. And ...
A. 11 April 2009: Definitely the Internet way of saying "bug off".... (read in full...)
Am I just clutching at straws? or does he like me?
Q. Am a 55yr old widow who has feeling for a single man at work we have been work mates for 4yrs .invited him to my home and told him that i would like us to be more just mates.He explaines that he had not had a relationship for 4yrs as he is the main ...
A. 11 April 2009: Slow and easy wins the race, the ball is in his court at the moment.Oh and one more cliche...don't put all of your eggs in one basket. The best of luck to you.... (read in full...)
I don't want to leave my wife, but I don't love her anymore. What should I do?
Q. Hi, I've been married for 5 years. Periodically throughout our marriage, my wife and I have agreed that we make better friends than spouses. Over the past few years I've grown increasingly less sexually attracted to my wife. I'd say that at this...
A. 11 April 2009: Are there any kids involed here? Are you SURE you don't love your wife anymore? Are you sure this isn't just lust you feel for this employee? Do you realize you could be setting yourself for a doozy of an harassment suit?... (read in full...)
Am I being that bad to my ex GF?
Q. I posted on here before and came back to get some more advice. I dumped my GF last year and we were on and off since then. I told her i would consider getting back with her if she lost weight she is a size 14-16 but good looking i must say, I prefer ...
A. 9 April 2009: I think what we have here folks is a glutton for punishment. Anybody with me on this one?... (read in full...)
Shouldn't DC be a judge-free zone?
Q. I've noticed that a lot of people have posted questions on this site asking about anal sex [how to do it/tips/tricks etc]. And last time I checked this was a site designed to give people advice and and information about relationships and and ...
A. 9 April 2009: Kissxmexagainx,you seem to be referencing a particular question about anal sex that had the responses that offended you so badly. Do you have that link by any chance?... (read in full...)
Would we be ok to have sex with protection and me on the pill?
Q. Me and my boyfriend are both 15 years old and virgins, we have been best mates when little and actually got together 3 years ago next month. We've talked about sex, we have condoms, and we have only kissed and hugged alot, i have given him a hand...
A. 9 April 2009: Well at least you are being responsible protection-wise but I think you both are too young, what's the rush? It will give you something to look forward to down the road in a few years!... (read in full...)
Any suggestion on how to say "No" to him?
Q. i need a couple of suggestions and please don't judge me or tell me not to do this.. here's the situation. i started talking to this young man about six months ago. and right off the bat fell for him. i've always considered myself mature and sure...
A. 9 April 2009: Sorry sweetie, my days of playing games are long behind me, I'll leave this to the younger aunts and uncles.... (read in full...)
Is it my imagination that she might be turned on by this older man?
Q. Is this my imagination or is it real, that’s my dilemma? I have been married for six years and we have 2 children and both me and my wife are successful in our work, I have my own IT business and she is physiologist. We are both 29 and she is...
A. 9 April 2009: I have sex with a pudgy, balding 63 year old all the time and find it very erotic...so there.... (read in full...)
Do you think I sould have sex ?
Q. I am Only 13 and my boyfriend wants me to have sex i think i am ready for sex i have kissed some one an messed around on the bed but i am still a vigen i nee answers please x...
A. 9 April 2009: Looks like the "no's" have it. Stay a vigen a little longer.... (read in full...)
Any suggestion on how to say "No" to him?
Q. i need a couple of suggestions and please don't judge me or tell me not to do this.. here's the situation. i started talking to this young man about six months ago. and right off the bat fell for him. i've always considered myself mature and sure...
A. 9 April 2009: Are you saying you DON'T or you DO want a relationship with him? You want suggestions on how to tell him "no"? ... (read in full...)
My parents don't trust me with my girlfriend!
Q. my parents dont trust me... me and my girlfriend have been goin gout for a year she's 15 and im 14.,, and yes we're a very mature couple for our age//...but we wont do anything we are not ready for....whenever were alone watching tv in t...
A. 9 April 2009: You do exactly what your mother says for you to do. Her roof her rules. I love to hear about mothers just like yours, gives me a warm feeling.... (read in full...)
Most nights, I can't fall asleep until 5AM
Q. Can anyone explain why i dont sleep? its 1:03 here and i cant sleep i just dont so i end up just watching a film (currently reservoir dogs) i normaly fall to sleep at 5ish any help?...
A. 9 April 2009: Have a warm bath just before bed and do what Gina says and read a book, preferably boring one, Geroge Bush's memoirs maybe.... (read in full...)
Shouldn't DC be a judge-free zone?
Q. I've noticed that a lot of people have posted questions on this site asking about anal sex [how to do it/tips/tricks etc]. And last time I checked this was a site designed to give people advice and and information about relationships and and ...
A. 9 April 2009: It's very difficult to respond to some postings without sounding judgmental or patronizing. I mean what CAN you say to 10-13 year olds who want to know how to give a blow job or whether they should have anal (or really any kind) sex? Invariably the ... (read in full...)
I'm 13 and scared to lose my virginity
Q. I need some help, i'm 13 nd im scared ov losin my virginity. ...
A. 4 December 2006: You don't have to worry about this for quite a while. When the time is right you'll know it and have absolutely no fear. In the meantime just keep a nickel between your knees :)... (read in full...)
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