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writes:Some thoughts are very welcome.I am interested in this guy I work with, he leaves in July. He was shown an interest in me for a while but he has made it clear that he only wants a bit of fun nothing serious, we have kissed once unfortuanetly at work, he has my mobile number and sends me the occasional text, mostly flirting. I would like to have a bit of fun but not in the actually work places, but he thinks because we kissed at work once, it can happen again and possibly more, he has his own flat, the other problem is is that I am a virgin and have never had a boyfriend, I am not that confident around blokes and he is megga confident and has loads of experience, I don't want to tell him I am a virgin just incase he tells people at work. My friends think I should use him in the same way he wants to use me for a bit of fun, but I fear I may get to attached and I probably would you know if he didn't want to just hook up at work, well eventually, after a while, like I say maybe out of work. I know you will probably say, don't go there and save myself for someone special, but I feel like I am missing out I mean I am 26 and he is the FIRST bloke i have ever felt attracted to.
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reader, Alisha09 +, writes (19 April 2009):
Dont do it! Honestly he sounds like a creep love
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 April 2009): You already sound attached even though nothing's happened yet. Yeah, you'll get hurt and only you can decide if it's worth it? Your friends have given you some strange, unrealistic advice and things won't play out that way.
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (3 April 2009):
 I think you are risking a lot if you decide to dally with this guy. I'll bet dollars to doughnuts you'll fall head over heels in love. Plus he isn't even going to be around after July! Yep if you don't go ther you'll be missing out...missing out on some serious heartache.
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