Are they just being friendly? Or could there be more?
Q. I work as a part time cashier in a little shop. There's a new guy that works there and a few other guys I have served who seem rather nice. They are all similar ages to me and most of the time we 'meet', we have a good chat (even though it's short)! ...
A. 24 February 2009: Ask one of them out for coffee.... (read in full...)
Should I let my wife wear spandex to work?
Q. is it okay for me to let my wife out the house wearing tight spandex to work?...
A. 24 February 2009: I don't know about wearing spandex to work that depends but I do hope she isn't overweight, man that's painful to see. ... (read in full...)
Another game to him? Or could he like me?
Q. i really like this guy he lives in milwakee and i live in az so we dont really see each other which is hard cuz i have alot of feelings for him.i met him at a wedding which was last year and a few weeks ago we finally talked over facebook and he was ...
A. 24 February 2009: He might be interested but what fun is it for you? I mean all you can do at your age is chat on facebook or maybe over the phone but you can't go to the movies or hold his hand even. I'd try to find someone who is actually around and you can truly ... (read in full...)
To guys in particular; what would make you come back to an ex gf?
Q. Okay, I want my ex back. Besides giving him space and time; is there anything else I can do that would help? Something proactive? I haven't talked to him in a while. Is it possible after two years that his feelings just disappeared? Or can I ...
A. 20 February 2009: Why did you break up to begin with? Why do you think things will be any better a second time around?... (read in full...)
I'm looking for some simple things that could drive him crazy during sex and also sure fire ways that we can reach that climax!
Q. I've been seeing my boyfriend for about 5 months now. We've been crazily in love for 3 months of that and I completely adore him. We can't spend enough time with each other, and when we are together we literally can't keep our hands off each ...
A. 20 February 2009: I don't have sex tips for minors.... (read in full...)
Very light period, could I be pregnant?
Q. hey me and my boyfriend had sex but i think the condom split but i came on my period the next day so i thought i couldnt be pregnant. Im ment to be on my period now but its only very light or nothing at all. Iv took two pregnancy tests lately a...
A. 20 February 2009: Doubtful but just to be on the safe side wait a few days and take another test.... (read in full...)
How old were you when you first French-kissed?
Q. Ummm. I've never pulled ( kissed with tounges ) a guy, I'm 13... How old were YOU when you first did that... Am I too young? ...
A. 20 February 2009: I say nobody should do anything that they can't spell. So hold off on kissing involving your tongue until then.... (read in full...)
Call me a bitch or a whore but you know I'm right.
Q. I really laid it on thick with this guy who already had a girlfriend. I even made made him cheat on his girlfriend by having sex with him while they were together. They were together for two years and broke up two months ago after she caught us ...
A. 18 February 2009: You know I think this was written by some poor, unhappy, young thing who sees all her friends have relationships and she sits home with no action. BUT on the off chance she is telling the truth...she is a bitch and a whore. Hey she said I could call ... (read in full...)
I'm contemplating an affair because my marriage is unfulfilling!
Q. I need some help. I have always been the kind of person that would not cheat under any condition. I have had opportunity and have never done it. I am once again in a very bad situation, my marriage is not fulfilling at all, I am really still ...
A. 17 February 2009: Of course that is what you tell him, you CAN't be friends right now you've too much a stake.. Then you focus on what you need to do and what your husband needs to do to put that spark back into your marriage. Marriage is a two way street not just ... (read in full...)
How can I walk away from my best friend, my married BF?
Q. I'm a single mom of two children.. I've been seeing a married man for almost 3 years. I used to be ok with the relationship, because it was not like most "affairs"..he just had two women that he shared equally. Now things have come to a stand ...
A. 17 February 2009: See him for the cad he is. What kind of man can voluntarily shame and devastate his wife? See him for the liar he is. Think of the pain and damage you yourself have caused his poor wife. Look in the mirror and see what kind of role model you are ... (read in full...)
He chased me like a dog, now he is not sure he should divorce his wife? Should I wait for him to decide?
Q. i'm 25, about 5 months ago i met a man he's 43 and live in singapore, we got close after we met, at that time i still have a boyfriend (26) that already 3 years together,my relationship with my bf also a little bit uneasy because i dont like the way ...
A. 17 February 2009: Tell him to look you up once the ink is dried on his divorce papers. Otherwise you are just spitting in the wind with this guy.... (read in full...)
I love my teacher, and now he knows.Can I do anything with him?
Q. I have a big problem. I'm 14. I've fallen in love with my 35 year old geography teacher. I've liked him for a few months and last week I told him how I feel. I wrote it in a letter and got my friend to give it to him because she had his lesson next. ...
A. 17 February 2009: You don't want help, you want people to give you ideas how you can give your teacher the "come on". Nobody here who has any sense is going to do that. Focus on your studies and stay busy, this too shall pass.... (read in full...)
A guy would be nice to have around now but... am I doing something wrong?
Q. I am 40, have been divorced for 18 months now. During this time, I have managed to finish my MSc, get a good job, and get my household in order. I feel I have done pretty well for myself and I am fairly happy with my life at the moment. I have a ...
A. 17 February 2009: I don't think you are doing any wrong maybe just a little impatient that's all. You are out there and visible. It will happen all in good time. Keep us posted.... (read in full...)
Planning a wedding and I'm not even engaged - have I gone crazy??
Q. Am i crazy? im 16 and do have a boyfriend of almost a year and a half. this may sound crazy but we have spoken about SOMEDAY getting married, when we're about 22, 23. on saturday i went to a wedding and since then [today is tuesday] i have l...
A. 17 February 2009: Naw it's typical teenage girl stuff. Dropping into the fantasy world is great for a short visit, just don't take up permanent residence.... (read in full...)
Should I have sex at 14?
Q. im 14 and I want sex and i dont know what to do. I already masterbate and its not good enough. what do i do?...
A. 17 February 2009: Go play some football with your pals and take lots of cold showers.... (read in full...)
We don't have anything to talk about!
Q. ive just got a new boyfriend yesterday and weve pretty much proved we love eachother but weve realised that we dont have anything to talk about! what do i do? P.S dont give me any sexuality advice i dnt want any....
A. 17 February 2009: You got a new boyfriend YESTERDAY and you've proved you LOVE each other? Boy you sure do work fast don't you?! Anyway, read the newspaper and talk about that, go to a movie and talk about that, read a book and talk about that, watch the TV and talk ... (read in full...)
At what point did I turn into a monster?
Q. I have really, really screwed up. For the past 3 months I have been tail spinning into a depression because of a job loss, money problems, and some unsettling medical news. I used to be a down to earth, level headed 31 year old guy that could get ...
A. 17 February 2009: You've realized your problems and are dealing with them, that's half the battle. This is going to take some time so be prepared for the long haul. Trust broken takes a long time to rebuild, she may be willing to get back with you in the future but ... (read in full...)
I love my teacher, and now he knows.Can I do anything with him?
Q. I have a big problem. I'm 14. I've fallen in love with my 35 year old geography teacher. I've liked him for a few months and last week I told him how I feel. I wrote it in a letter and got my friend to give it to him because she had his lesson next. ...
A. 17 February 2009: You should see all the postings we get from young ladies with schoolgirl crushes. Of course it's a crush and nothing more. You can stay in denial if you want but sooner or later you will snap out of it and see this for what it is. We had a teenager ... (read in full...)
What is a normal amount of sex a couple has in a week?
Q. Can anyone tell me what is a normal amount of sex or fooling around an average couple has in a week?...
A. 17 February 2009: Look who's back, our Uncle Martini, yea!!!... (read in full...)
Would you tell a co workers wife that her husband has been unfaithful?
Q. Would you inform a co workers wife that her husband has been unfaithful to her? However, this comes from someone who has been cheated on before so there is an obvious bias. Should the wife be informed? I really don't know what to think, m...
A. 16 February 2009: Usually a wife has her own gut feeling if her husband is cheating. The wife may already know it and is dealing with it in her own way. You may, by telling her, force her to do something she isn't ready to do. I'm a firm believer in minding my own ... (read in full...)
My latest boyfriend refuses to lick me clean after sex!
Q. My latest boyfriend refuses to lick me clean after sex, is it too much to ask? It's his mess after all? All my previous boyfriend's were happy to do it....
A. 16 February 2009: See if he would be willing to use a wet/dry vac...could be fun.... (read in full...)
What a guy wants...?
Q. This is a question to be answered by the fellas. It seems it is so confusing what you guys want. You all want sex and you want to sleep with a girl early on in a relationship. But, if a girl does sleep with you early on, then she is too easy and ...
A. 16 February 2009: I know you want to hear from the guys but I just had to put my two cents in. Sweetheart, women have been pondering this question for centuries, I doubt you will get any questions that truly clear this up for you.... (read in full...)
I have a boyfriend but have a crush on someone else...
Q. I'm a 13 year old girl who has had a crush on a guy 2 years older than me for a few months now. At the same time I still feel strongly about my boyfriend. Unfortunately I'm not sure if he feels the same anymore. If things are to die with my curr...
A. 16 February 2009: Who on earth wants a boyfriend at 13? Why not have fun hanging with all your friends, guys and girls, and not tie yourself down to one guy? Gee whiz, when I was your age I was having a blast just being young. Youth sure IS wasted on the young...... (read in full...)
I fell in love with my soulmate but it's a friend of my wife...
Q. Hello, Let me just come right out and say it, I fell in love with one of my wife's friends. Yes, I'm sure I will get bashed here but it wasn't something I planned on doing. I have known this person for 7 YEARS and always found myself with her even ...
A. 16 February 2009: Just saw your update, your "girlfriend" sounds like a real conniving bitch, she had no right to tell you such things EVEN if they are true, which I highly doubt. What about her husband?... (read in full...)
I fell in love with my soulmate but it's a friend of my wife...
Q. Hello, Let me just come right out and say it, I fell in love with one of my wife's friends. Yes, I'm sure I will get bashed here but it wasn't something I planned on doing. I have known this person for 7 YEARS and always found myself with her even ...
A. 16 February 2009: "Does this ever happen?" What do you mean? Lusting after a woman other than your wife? Of course it does. Does the 7 year itch ever happen, of course it does. Do men ever leave their marriages to be with this love interest then regret what they ... (read in full...)
He never wants to spend quality time with me and I'm beginning to distrust him.
Q. I am a 25 year old black girl dating a 50 year old white guy, we've been dating for a year now. He told me that he separated with his wife but my corncern is he only sees me during weekends and he told me that he will make love to me if only I get ...
A. 16 February 2009: Have you seen where he's living? Has he explained why he only sees you on the weekends? If you know where he lives, why not give him a "surprise" visit this next Wednesday evening? You may find it very enlightening.... (read in full...)
How can I get pregnant?
Q. Me and my boyfriends have had sex three times. Those three times hes cummed in me, but nothing had happened. Wat should we do, i mean my girls tell me maybe is when i get up the sperm goes down. I just need advice am i ready to have a child ?...
A. 13 February 2009: Your uterus may be ready to have a baby but your brain sure isn't. Best wait until BOTH are good to go.... (read in full...)
I've never had to share my boyfriend before, his little girl makes me mad at times!
Q. my boyfriend and i have been togeather for 4 months now and we both have daughters. Mine 8 and his 5. I love him sooo much but i am jelious of his daughter and his relationship with her.We dont fight about anything but his daughter or his ex. I know ...
A. 13 February 2009: You've gotten great advice. You need to get a grip. There should be no competition going on here. Competing with a 5 year old baby is just whacked. Your self-esteem must really be in the toilet if you need to have 100% of his attention 24/7. There ... (read in full...)
Why did he introduce me to his son if we had a casual relationship?
Q. Hi I wonder if anyone can shed light on this. My ex and I have split up a month after my meeting his son. My ex was reluctant to introduce me to his son as in his words, he didn't want his son to meet someone who may not be on the scene in 12 ...
A. 13 February 2009: I'm sorry you feel betrayed but he obviously changed his mind about your relationship. You will just have to try to accept this and get on with your life.... (read in full...)
I'm excited to find out if I'm pregnant, what do you think?
Q. Hey this is for all the women that are expecting or that has had children already. . . I'm excited to find out if I'm pregnant or not but as of right now it's too early to know. . . according to my ovulation calendar the days that I had intercourse ...
A. 12 February 2009: I've had three kids and I never once felt the implantation, in fact I didn't have any signs of pregnancy except a couple missed periods until the onset of morning sickness in my third month. Have you missed a period?... (read in full...)
Is there such a thing as "love of your life"?
Q. How many of you believe ,that there is such a thing ,as ''love of your life' ''soul mates'' And so on... I thought I live with one of this, but I'm not sure if I just want to force this on me, or it is true. It seems to fall apart but I'm stil...
A. 12 February 2009: If you are suffering then you certainly are not with the "love of your life" or "soul-mate". I think there are people who are so right for each other that their souls seem to touch and the love they feel for each other is everlasting. However now ... (read in full...)
Valentine's Poetry for Cupiders...
Q. As VALENTINE'S DAY fast approaches, and Cupid is having a wild time with his Arrows, I wanted to share some lines of poetry. LOVE, WHAT IT IS by Robert Herrick (1591-1674) Love is a circle that doth restles...
A. 11 February 2009: How about that lovely line from "Mrs. Doubtfire"...Brace yourself Effie!... (read in full...)
How do I believe this when I have heard empty words at least 9 times before?
Q. Hi everyone, I need some advice. I was with my boyfriend for over 6 years. The last 2 1/2 years I have spent overseas. But we would spend summers together, christmas, easter and see each other throughout the year. He has cheated on numerous ...
A. 11 February 2009: All I can say is that if I were you, I wouldn't waste another precious second of my life on this relationship. Saying "We had a wonderful relationship except for the lying and cheating" is like saying "He was a gentle soul except for maiming and ... (read in full...)
My wife is leaving me because I cheated
Q. My Wife of 2 1/2 years is leaving me because i was unfaithful on more than one occasion. I realized I messed up and want to fix it, but she just keeps saying no. no matter how much i beg and plead that ive changed and will get better, she doesn't ...
A. 11 February 2009: My guess is that you have the same chance that a snowball has in Hell. Reap what you sow.... (read in full...)
How can I get my bf to kiss me without being pushed by our friends?
Q. okay so i have kissed my bf but only when our mates force us to . it isnt natural... we were alone the other day and nobody not even our mates were around. i thought that would be a good moment and to kiss naturally without people forcing u...
A. 9 February 2009: Aren't you a little old for these recess playground games? How on earth can your friends make you kiss or not kiss somebody? Please say you clicked the wrong age bracket and you really are around 10.... (read in full...)
Is 22 year age gap too much?
Q. there is a a 22 year age gap between me and this guy that i has sex with he is older. we were co-workers and we both wanted it, do you think that is too much of a age differance? he has two sons that close to my age and i have to younger children? ...
A. 9 February 2009: As long as he isn't married then go for it.... (read in full...)
Should I ask him to make out a living will and a will. How strong would this hold up?
Q. I will try to get to the point. In my last post I wrote that my husband is still legally married to his ex. They haven't been together in over 15 years now and we just found out a few years back. He said we will take care of this (meaning he will ...
A. 9 February 2009: Oh I forgot, his wife is already entitled to part of his social security, after something like 17 years of marriage, check it out. He should have divorced her years ago, he did a disservice to you by not doing it.... (read in full...)
Should I ask him to make out a living will and a will. How strong would this hold up?
Q. I will try to get to the point. In my last post I wrote that my husband is still legally married to his ex. They haven't been together in over 15 years now and we just found out a few years back. He said we will take care of this (meaning he will ...
A. 9 February 2009: His legal wife will be eligible for both his estate and his social security no matter what he has put on paper elsewhere. She is legally his next of kin. Your partner needs to get that divorce ASAP. He then can name you legal beneficiary without ... (read in full...)
Will people think I am just rebounding?
Q. Hey i broke up with my gf for 1 month already she is from the other class in my batch, well now there is this girl in my class that i like and i want to go after her but i am not sure if i should since people might think i am just rebounding what ...
A. 9 February 2009: You're young, go for it. This is the time of your life to date around and just have some fun. Enjoy your freedom.... (read in full...)
Threesome--to do? To not do?
Q. My partner of several years and I have reached a little bit of a turning point in our relationship. Although we have a fairly good sex life; as happens with a lot of couples who have been together for a long time we don't do it as often as we used...
A. 6 February 2009: My advice still stands whether you are a gay couple or not.... (read in full...)
My daugher does not like my wife (her stepmother)
Q. My daughter doesn't like my wife. How can this be? My wife and I have been married for 3 years. We're in our early 50's and we're very happy together. I was married to my first wife for 13 years and that ended 12 years ago. There are no step-chil...
A. 6 February 2009: "Whither thou goest, I will go". I'd tell your daughter your wife accompanies you to all social events and gatherings, if she would rather neither you NOR your wife attend her graduation then so be it. I would never allow a child of mine to dictate ... (read in full...)
Threesome--to do? To not do?
Q. My partner of several years and I have reached a little bit of a turning point in our relationship. Although we have a fairly good sex life; as happens with a lot of couples who have been together for a long time we don't do it as often as we used...
A. 6 February 2009: If you have any doubts then I would advise you NOT to have a threesome. Even when couple initially are gung-ho on the the idea they end up regretting it. Try to spice things up just between the two of you.... (read in full...)
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