He sent an email saying it was time to move on, but he's just told me he still loves me! So confusing!
Q. hi i have been in a relationship for 7 years. my boyfriend broke up with me last year october because he couldn't marry me beacuse of religion. anyway he is with someone else now. since he has been with her they break up and make up beacuse they ...
A. 1 July 2009: He may want you to stick around after he's married but why would you settle for that? Like I said before there really is no future with this guy. Try to stay busy and move on.... (read in full...)
He told me he was divorced now I want him to leave his wife for me!
Q. I know your all gonna call me bad names but its so hard, i really like him and miss him loads, when i met him he told me he was divorced and i deserve a nice rich boyfriend and said he would fit that category, hes a lawyer and gets paid a fair ...
A. 30 June 2009: Sex in his car??? How romantic. Knock off this nonsense immediately. He will never leave his wife for you. You will never find happiness with this guy. This is a dead end street. Oh and one more...you aren't the first and you sure as hell won't be ... (read in full...)
Hair is getting me down. Why is it so frizzy?
Q. My hair is getting me down. Ok - so my hair has never been my best asset - it is long, uncontrollable - never goes properly straight etc etc. But just recently - I have noticed it is REALLY frizzy and to me is very annoying as it just looks awful! ...
A. 30 June 2009: Humidity in the summer months can really cause the frizzies. When all else fails, tie it back with a pretty ribbon.... (read in full...)
I cry hysterically on rollercosters, how do I get over this fear?
Q. Im going to bush gardens tomorrow with my family and I don't want to be a party pooper ... so I kinda wanna ride the roller coasters too but I get so scared and I cry hysterically the last time I was on one I was 11 ... and im 17 but still any ...
A. 30 June 2009: You just need to make yourself go on that first ride, you are older now and I'm sure once you try it one more time you'll love them. At least promise yourself that you will try one ride.... (read in full...)
Lesbian sex does not feel that good to me... is something wrong?
Q. okay... I am bisexual and i have a girlfriend, I stayed the night with her last night and we had sex. i am a virgin when it comes to guys and it was my first time having sex with a girl. i gave her oral and she liked it... then she gave me oral but ...
A. 30 June 2009: Maybe you'll enjoy sex more once you become a woman and are no longer a child.... (read in full...)
Want to get rid of these stretch marks! What are the best creams to use?
Q. i'm going on 16 and i'm pretty skinny but now that i'm actually growing lol i'm starting to get stretch marks on my butt and hips, wat's the best coco butter to use for this? i want to either minimize their appearence or just get rid of them, my ...
A. 30 June 2009: Stretch marks are scar tissue, they can be minimized but they will never completely disappear. Palmer's coco butter is good stuff and for the price you can't beat it. Keep your skin as moisturized as you can and hope for the best. My calls my ... (read in full...)
He sent an email saying it was time to move on, but he's just told me he still loves me! So confusing!
Q. hi i have been in a relationship for 7 years. my boyfriend broke up with me last year october because he couldn't marry me beacuse of religion. anyway he is with someone else now. since he has been with her they break up and make up beacuse they ...
A. 30 June 2009: I really doesn't matter WHY he called you that many times, there is no future here. It's unfortunate that you work right across the street from him but you must try to put all this behind you now. It will get easier for you, keep your chin up.... (read in full...)
He sent an email saying it was time to move on, but he's just told me he still loves me! So confusing!
Q. hi i have been in a relationship for 7 years. my boyfriend broke up with me last year october because he couldn't marry me beacuse of religion. anyway he is with someone else now. since he has been with her they break up and make up beacuse they ...
A. 29 June 2009: He's stringing you along, maybe for a new role as the bit on the side. You know he won't marry you so why waste another precious second on the guy? Cut all communication with him and move on with your life.... (read in full...)
Are these common symptoms of pregnancy?
Q. Hi i have been ttc with my partner for the past couple of months. Last month was first time we started trying and i ended up missing a period but getting negative tests and my period came three weeks late so i put it down to wishful hoping or ...
A. 25 June 2009: I never got any pregnancy symptoms until the 3rd month or end of the first trimester. The only thing I could go by was the missed periods and then finally a test. My breasts got sore but like I said not until I was around three months along.... (read in full...)
Had affairs and now I'm in trouble!
Q. Hello, I just registered on this site and I find this site very interesting with lots of good advice. Well, this is my story. I really love my wife, I love my children and my home. I recently shifted to another Ministry and I am presently having a...
A. 25 June 2009: So what exactly are you asking? You want advice on how to pull the wool over the eyes of your ex-mistress? How to get her to believe that you didn't just use her as a piece of meat even though that's precisely what you did? How to convince her not ... (read in full...)
Second year anniversary of my first love leaving me. Today hurts. Is it just a case of allowing more time for my wounds to heal?
Q. Hello all Aunts. This is Andy00 and today is the 2nd anniversary of my heartbreak. In the days leading up to this, my first love has been on my mind more and more with every day that passes. I'm so much stronger than I was a year ago, and I'm a m...
A. 25 June 2009: I saw an answer on here from you the other day and I was wondering how you were doing. You know how when you start a diet and the pounds start rolling off but then, even though you stay on the diet, you hit a plateau and you can't shed anymore ... (read in full...)
I have morning sickness....Am I pregnant?
Q. Welli've been having a lot of back pains and my period this month was early and spotted wit brownish color.I have mornin sickness alot at nite.an i us bathroom way more than usual.Do youthink im pregnant?...
A. 24 June 2009: How on earth can you expect us to know the answer to your question? You can get a test kit at just about any store in these United States, even the dollar stores. Go get one and if you are going to be so irresponsible about your sex life you may as ... (read in full...)
Do men mind pubic hair?
Q. Hi, I'm so embarrassed I don't know what to say but i have to ask I haven't had sex before and I was wondering about pubic hair do I have to remove it or its okay to leave it there? do men mind? I know its painful and I don't know what to do plz h...
A. 24 June 2009: Sigh...I was hoping for just one week without a pubes question.... (read in full...)
Why am I jealous of my sister?
Q. I have recently felt concerned about my relationship with my sister. She is younger than me (2 years), a doctor, and engaged to a good looking man who adores her. I am a real estage agent, really enjoy my job etc, and very happy with my life in ...
A. 24 June 2009: Jealousy stems from low self-esteem. Maybe you aren't as satisfied with your life as you seem to think?... (read in full...)
Do I have OCD? Am I gay?
Q. I am a teenage male, and I have had homosexual thoughts for the past four years. I do masturbate to gay porn, but I also masturbate to lesbian porn too. Its all confusing for me because it takes me longer to get sexualy aroused over women than it ...
A. 24 June 2009: Honeypie, are you sure you have OCD or are just really, really, REALLY organized?!... (read in full...)
We're great friends and I know I'll never be his girlfriend...but I want to be!
Q. I'm totally in love with this guy but I know he wouldn't like me. We're great friends but I know I'll never be his girlfriend. He is a really really good guy, I've know him for years, but he is not interested in me! He said he wasn't interested in ...
A. 24 June 2009: He's not ready for a serious relationship and he knows it. How refreshing. If I were in your shoes, I'd just relax and enjoy the friendship you are sharing. Both of you are very young and there is no rush. Just have fun with each other, make ... (read in full...)
Why are men so into you one minute and run away the next?
Q. I really need some honest feedback here, especially from the men out there. I seem to have this pattern in my life which completely confounds and confuses me and I really need to find out why it keeps happening. I am beautiful, smart, sexy, kin...
A. 24 June 2009: I think manners and politeness have taken a backseat in child-rearing in the last few decades. Parents just are not instilling the importance of good manners, consideration, and plain old politeness in their children. Instead of a handwritten ... (read in full...)
He masturbates to my cousin's naked pics! I'm so angry about this..am I over reacting?
Q. I have a 20 year old cousin who works as a model. Recently I found my husband keeps naked pictures of her in his sock drawer. We see her at family gatherings and I'm scared he will want to have an affair with her. She flirts a lot with him but ...
A. 24 June 2009: I'm with Bobbles, what kind of "model" is your cousin? ... (read in full...)
My Land Lady is Flirting with me!
Q. hi aunty, Well last few days have been a roller coaster for me.I am a mid 20's guy staying by my self in a small apartment. As per the rules and regulations of the apartments contract,alcohol is not allowed.. But I still do bring beer from...
A. 24 June 2009: I think I would just wait until the lease expires and move to another apartment where you can drink beer whenever the mood srikes without an oversexed Nazi breathing down your neck.... (read in full...)
What if....I had a relationship with my wife's sister
Q. what if you are not in love with your wife, and discover that maybe you never have been. what if your marriage has gone bad, and you are not intimate any longer with each other and considering divorce. what now if you have fallen in love for her ...
A. 24 June 2009: How does the sister feel? Are you so sure she'd be willing to date you after you have divorced her sister?... (read in full...)
My life is filled with drama!
Q. please help me i'm confused. when i was 15 i went to a party did things i'm not proud of i got drunk and made out wit a guy i barely met.i honestly remember the whole thing but the next day i lied and said i dont remember anything but i did.he d...
A. 24 June 2009: I know your main question is "wats up wit this guy"? I haven't a clue wats up wit him. However my advice is for you to stay in school and study hard, very, very hard.... (read in full...)
Is he insecure or just nasty?
Q. Hi, I'm hoping for some advice/support. I'm very upset about comments that my partner makes. I've been with him for 4.5 years and gave him loads of support when his ex wife was divorcing him. I live in a council house, have two mixed race child...
A. 24 June 2009: Why are you allowing him to be part of your life? I don't see any advantage for you to keep him around. Ask yourself whether you would be better off with him or without him. I think in your case the answer to that age old question is fairly obvious.... (read in full...)
I have no serious illness, so why is my hair falling out?
Q. This is kind of a health question. I recently cut my hair, because I had some of it falling out. I contemplated cutting my hair for some weeks. I know that it will grow back, but my question is this, is there any particular reason why my hair would ...
A. 23 June 2009: Who's with me on this? Who misses seeing Irish's beautiful face as her avatar?... (read in full...)
No control of relationship because of parents!
Q. Ok so what do u do when u don't have control over your relationships because of your parents? Problem is that my mom is overly nosy and controlling. If she sees me typing on my computer or texting, she will ask who I am talking to, come up behind m...
A. 23 June 2009: You will definitely NOT like my answer but here it is. Your mother knows you have been lying to her and she doesn't trust you because of it. That is why she feels she has to constantly hound you for information. And unfortunately she and your Dad ... (read in full...)
Help me get over this crush...
Q. i have a big crush on someone but i dont know how to handle it. i know that a crush is a crush is a crush and a part of me doesn't want it to go away but i know i have to get over it and i dont know how to please how do i get over a crush...
A. 23 June 2009: You just have to ride it out. Try to stay busy and do things that will distract you. Time is your best friend. It WILL pass.... (read in full...)
I want to make our life as perfect as possible but her ex gets her down...
Q. I fell in love with a girl who is married. When we started seeing each other her and her husband have been apart for a few months. She kept asking me out and i kept saying no. I was scared cause I'm a guy who has always kept to myself and worked ...
A. 23 June 2009: Divorce is painful and stressful even when both parties agree that it's for the best. You are just going to have to wait for the dust to settle. Be as supportive as you can, help with the kids when you can...just be there for her. Time will bring ... (read in full...)
Should we go ahead with the threesome?
Q. Hi there, I'm in need of some advice regarding my current relationship/sexlife I'm Bi and have been for a long time, I've always wanted and still really want to have a three sum with another woman as well as my partner or with two other women for...
A. 23 June 2009: If you have to ask this question, you must have some doubts. Don't ever bring another person into a relationship unless EVERYONE involved is 100% gung ho with the idea. I suggest you re-read Uncle Phil's last two sentences.... (read in full...)
How do I ask her out?...I've only been with men!
Q. I’ve only been with men, but have always had crushes on women. Nothing has ever happened as I’ve never acted on them. They are getting stronger as I get older. I feel like I need to explore this. My current crush is on a specialist (think ...
A. 23 June 2009: You'd be wise to address your current 15 year old relationship before you bring another person into the mix. Cheating is bad, mkay?... (read in full...)
He loves me...asks for number...but didn't call!
Q. Hi there I was wondering if a man said he loves a girl and he can't stop thinking of her, then wants her number very much. She gave it to him but he rarely calls her. How come?...
A. 23 June 2009: Maybe he's a player and tells that to lots of women?... (read in full...)
Who comes first in a marriage, the spouse or the adult children?
Q. Who comes first in a marriage, the spouse or the adult children? I've heard this debated so many times and no one seems to have a clear answer. Being a Christian, I believe the marriage comes first. My husband thinks the children do. I am my h...
A. 23 June 2009: Amen, Sister.... (read in full...)
He's afraid to get married!
Q. I really need someone to help me on this. My boyfriend is affraid to get married due to his aunt uncle grandmother dad and cousin all first not lasting. Plz help and tell me what i can do to help him get over that fear....
A. 23 June 2009: Nobody should be fooled..."q" is truly a hopeless romantic. All you have to do is read between the lines.... (read in full...)
Was he trying to fob me off with his excuse?
Q. I've had a couple of dates with a wonderful man, the trouble is we met through a dating site, and left me wondering if he was also contacting other women, I got very drunk Saturday and he called me on the phone where I began ranting and raving about ...
A. 22 June 2009: After only a couple of dates you should have been wiser but that's water under the bridge at this point. It is very likely he is seeing other women, why wouldn't he? You hardly have a exclusive relationship after a couple dates. You may have scared ... (read in full...)
Opinions on age differences
Q. Is it okay for a 18 year old guy to date a 31 year old woman?...
A. 22 June 2009: Okay by me. Is it okay by you?... (read in full...)
It's okay for him to be flirty with girls...but guys can't even say hello to me!
Q. My bf makes me feel guilty and gets jealous if another guy just talks to me. So, to save his feelings, if a guy talks to me, I try to not really say much, hoping he will get the idea. But my bf still gets jealous and makes comments like "you're ...
A. 22 June 2009: Yep I agree, this is a control freak and this is just the beginning. Next he won't like your girlfriends and then it's your family members. Soon he'll be telling you what to wear and when to wear it. A control freak needs more and more control. Tell ... (read in full...)
Who comes first in a marriage, the spouse or the adult children?
Q. Who comes first in a marriage, the spouse or the adult children? I've heard this debated so many times and no one seems to have a clear answer. Being a Christian, I believe the marriage comes first. My husband thinks the children do. I am my h...
A. 22 June 2009: I think you are totally right. My husband and I were fortunate enough to raised our three children together as a united front. None of that "wait till your Dad gets home" crap. Sure we (the parents) would go without on occasion so a child could have ... (read in full...)
He's afraid to get married!
Q. I really need someone to help me on this. My boyfriend is affraid to get married due to his aunt uncle grandmother dad and cousin all first not lasting. Plz help and tell me what i can do to help him get over that fear....
A. 22 June 2009: "q" you are such a rogue, entertaining goes without saying. ... (read in full...)
I'm not attracted to my balding husband
Q. I'm in a similar situation except I'm actually married to the balding guy. We knew each other for eight years before we married and he actually showed signs of balding the year he popped the question. It was not much hair loss and I thought to ...
A. 22 June 2009: Divorce is my advice, works for you, works for him. By the way, my husband has been as bald as a baby's butt for around 30 years and I wouldn't have it any other way.... (read in full...)
He has serious trust issues, how can I help?
Q. I have known my fiance for a couple of years but have only been together for about a year. He wants to get married, however, he is very stingy and everything has to be about him. I am open about everything including my bank account however,...
A. 22 June 2009: Whatever you do, keep your finances separate and do not marry him. If he is wearing you out already imagine how tired you will be a couple of years down the road. From your post, he really doesn't seem like the right guy for you. I think maybe some ... (read in full...)
If a guy calls a girl "babe", is it meant in a derogotary way?
Q. If a guy calls a girl "babe", is it meant in a derogatory way? I ask this becuase the following quote is found from the following website: http://organizations.rockbridge.net/projecthorizon/signsofabuser.htm "18. Disrespect for Women in G...
A. 22 June 2009: It's all in the tone. Sweet names can be as sharp as arrows depending on how they are spoken. I know when my husband says, "Listen up Sweetheart", I'm in for it. Just like when I say, "Okay Pal" he runs for cover.... (read in full...)
He's afraid to get married!
Q. I really need someone to help me on this. My boyfriend is affraid to get married due to his aunt uncle grandmother dad and cousin all first not lasting. Plz help and tell me what i can do to help him get over that fear....
A. 22 June 2009: Okay "q" quit with all that romantic slop and tell us what you really think about marriage...... (read in full...)
Her violence is escalating -- I'm afraid for her if I leave
Q. Hello all, I've been dating a girl for about 18 months now and need some advice. She is a really amazing person and I love her very much but recently things with her have gone out of control. She is a very emotional person and is prone to...
A. 22 June 2009: Old Guy makes a very valid point, you will eventually have to restrain her, not only to protect yourself but perhaps even to protect her from herself. The cops get called and you go to jail. You need to document and get the hell out because this ... (read in full...)
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